Originally Posted by
Dathbgboy
Originally Posted by
lovemysole
Originally Posted by
Whateversclever
Originally Posted by lovemysole
Ok so I've been dating this guy for a while and for the past month we've been arguing every week so, last week we took a break. We're fine now, saw him last Sunday, Monday and Wednesday. That's a lot for us because we only see each other once or twice a week. We usually hang out on Fridays but today he says he's going to hang out with his sister. His sister gets a hold of me and wants me to get her and he's been texting her but he hasn't been texting me back. Plus I call and some girl picks up and I hear his voice but then I get hung up on. What's going on in his mind? It's been pretty good so far; no arguments or anything for the past week. I'm a good gf - I drive everywhere we go and I pay for everything when we go out and I cook for him all the time and even do things for his friends. On top of that I'm good with his fam. Is it because we've seen each other too much this week or his he going on another road? What do you think NT? Help a sister out!
The real question is why are you doing this to yourself? i swear some woman are straight up stupid. dude is obviously creepin so why do you take it?
You take a hugee L OP.
He replied and said he was sorry and that he wasn't texting his sister but his homie was and didn't know who picked up his phone because he was hoopin'. He so called doesn't cheat -- he said he would break it off instead of cheating. I believe that; his mom even said it -- he may be lame as ^&!# but he would never cheat.
He doesn't work because he's in barber school and doesn't drive because he needs high risk insurance and since there is no J-O-B in the picture, he can't get the insurance. I don't know; maybe I'm just straight tripping because I will admit that my mind can run 1000mph when it comes to situations.
And to aswer your question - I do it out of love. I'm pretty sure that if he could take care of me the way I do him, he would do it. It's just not possible atm but, I do see your point. I was raised to do a "do gooder" and I know he's fully aware that I'm not a skeezer because I'm a certified dime
and WIFEY.
Well if u that damn stupid (pardon my bluntness) then u deserve to be $!*#%+@ on. U makin excuses for dude and it's pretty sickening. For the most part, his moms is gon take up for him, blood>>water.
And I don't know what dude allows random women to pick up there phone when they have a girl, I know I don't.
Yea he's aware that ure a do gooder and not a skeezer that's why he's w/ u, to capitalize off of that. When he tired of milkin u, he'll dump u sayin u too good for him and all this nonsense. I advise u to distance yaself from him. Hell if not for good, just to test him to see how he reacts, u a woman, yall good for that
What the hell does Barber school have to do w/ him gettin a gig? I got to a major university and I work, there's no excuse. And for him to graciously allow u to do all this %!** for him shows what kind of man he really is. A WEAK one. Don't mean to bash ya man miss, just statin the obvious.
