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I know a dude (he’s actually a NTer) who only asks for IGs - “let me get your IG” instead of number. Was weird to me honestly lol
Hinge Takeover >>> Tinder, Bumble Pof
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Low self esteem dudes 
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Ya'll out here changing random's hard drives?
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Son is the definition of nice guys finish last foh
Can't be out here screaming equality then keep the "benefits" of being a woman
Just like men, if they want those things done, either learn how to do it or pay someone else to do it
Can't be out here screaming equality then keep the "benefits" of being a woman
Just like men, if they want those things done, either learn how to do it or pay someone else to do it
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On the other end of the spectrum you have folks like me who don't have social media outside of a FB account that I haven't used in years. So yambs will ask for my socials and when I say I don't do social media I get hit with the
Then I have to explain how I am legitimately single, not a catfish, not hiding kids, not a criminal, etc
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Everyone's not naturally helpful or a problem solver though. Any women standing by that setting themselves up with these little tests anyone can fake instead of trying to really know someone.
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storm2006 same with me man - COME FIND ME ON NT, LADIES
My man
You even have to be careful with NT though which is exactly why I don't have more mainstream forms of social media I told this story in one of the old NBA threads about that:One time my ex-GF got in a heated debate about something and we stopped talking for the rest of the night (we didn’t live together). Next day, the topic lowkey comes up again and she says “You seemed to sing a different tune on NikeTalk” and sent SCREENSHOTS of posts I had made on NT that contradicted my point and made me look bad
We stayed together and I grilled her on how she got them. I guess I logged in on her laptop and didn’t log up and maybe NT was up so she knew my username then waited for that moment to expose me. All my men with girls - Big Sister is watching. Stay woke.
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Same here brotha's, havent met one women that has just a fb or less.
Even the oldie but goodies out here have at least more than one form of s/m.
The immediate reaction I get is if "I'm hiding" something.
Had one, hand me her phone and say "do you have a gram?"
Me, "na shawty I dont smoke."
Her, "no do you have a ig?"
Me, "no I don't."
At that point the conversation went dull and I already knew where her focus was at.
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I just realized neither of my serious exes had social - damn y’all got my in my feels AGAIN
WHERE YOU AT PAIGE AND SAMANTHA - DADDY DON MISSES YALL
WHERE YOU AT PAIGE AND SAMANTHA - DADDY DON MISSES YALL
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Had 1 ask me for snapchat. I said i dont have it, she said that was a red flag. This is all via text so i was assuming she was joking. Turns out she wasnt. Me not having snapchat meant i was cheating, and possibly married.On the other end of the spectrum you have folks like me who don't have social media outside of a FB account that I haven't used in years. So yambs will ask for my socials and when I say I don't do social media I get hit with the
Then I have to explain how I am legitimately single, not a catfish, not hiding kids, not a criminal, etc
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I WAS DUMBFOUNDED….. I WAS LIKE WHAT THE HELL KIND OF CLOWN A++ DUDES SEND A RANDOM CHICK $$$ FOR LUNCH OR A MANICURE OR WHATEVER… SHE COULDN'T STOP LAUGHING.The all caps in this post made it hit different. Like I was reading an emergency alert or something
Outright paying for a woman cash for her phone number is ridiculous. I get that "you pay one way or another" mentality through buying drinks, going out to dinner, etc. but sending cash to a stranger who you met on a dating app, that has a messaging feature, so you can get her number...and message her? That's a new low
Serious question, though...how do y'all or other dudes find themselves in these predicaments? Not even trying to go at anyone but does this happen to people who look like marks or something in your profile? I have never had it happen to me so I'm curious about how it all goes down. Maybe I just look like a broke boi
. SHE SAID THIS HAPPENS ALL THE TIME.
I SEE SIMPIN IS AT A RECORD HIGH!
.BUT I CAN’T STAND THESE BEGGIN A++ FEMALES ON SOCIAL MEDIA EITHER. EVERYTIME I LOOK UP, THEY ARE POSTING THEIR CASHAPPS AND I THINK TO MYSELF, ALL YOU ARE IS BIG T**S AND A++, HAVE NOTHING GOING FOR YOURSELF AND PROBABLY A CASHIER AT DOLLAR TREE AND GET RIDES TO AND FROM WORK.
QUICK SIDE STORY:
I ACTUALLY MET A CHICK LOCALLY WHO I ALWAYS SAW ON MY EXPLORE PAGE BUT I NEVER FOLLOWED HER. THIS CHICK HAD 400K+ FOLLOWERS….AND DIDN'T HAVE A CAR AND WORKED AT A GAS STATION…. BUT ON IG… TOTALLY DIFFERENT STORY
#PRIORITIES
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The all caps in this post made it hit different. Like I was reading an emergency alert or something
Outright paying for a woman cash for her phone number is ridiculous. I get that "you pay one way or another" mentality through buying drinks, going out to dinner, etc. but sending cash to a stranger who you met on a dating app, that has a messaging feature, so you can get her number...and message her? That's a new low
Serious question, though...how do y'all or other dudes find themselves in these predicaments? Not even trying to go at anyone but does this happen to people who look like marks or something in your profile? I have never had it happen to me so I'm curious about how it all goes down. Maybe I just look like a broke boi
An emergency alert
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Ya'll out here changing random's hard drives?
Had one ask me if I knew how to do oil changes after we had sex in the backseat of her car. I said “nah I don’t sorry” when I really did. I don’t feel bad about that.
I got matched up with this older chick who was putting the full court press on me to meet up. Compliments on my looks, sending teaser pics ...etc. Turns out she’s a longtime swinger and bi with full experience in gangbangs and orgies. Her fiancé who got her into the lifestyle died last month so she’s looking to get her freak on. I’m already leaning towards passing since it’s too easy for me and zero challenge. Plus, this Covid **** is real at the moment.
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I have two dates lined up back to back today lol.
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I ended up making an IG just because folks kept asking or pressing me on why i didnt have one smh. But as i mentioned before getting an IG is better than getting the number sometimes because its way easier to start a convo up. Definitely can come up on some yambs just replying to a story.
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100. Plus if youre doing fly stuff on your stories and ig page females will watch you.
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Fly stuff??
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Posting to your story is just humble bragging taken to the next level
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Instagram used to be fun with new content every day but with the algorithm now old posts from a couple of days ago constantly pop up.
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Whether it be being out w other females or just doing fun stuff like being out at games etc.
It’s effective though lol
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Really? That might be the new wave because I have heard the same thing about Twitter. Sounds like the “Boost” feature on Tinder/Bumble
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Kind of cringey though - I don’t need to announce to the world knowing what I’m up to - it’s also messed up for my friends who can’t afford the lifestyle I lead.
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That’s your opinion lol. Works for me. Maybe it can motivate friends to step their game up.
