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[AgentZero]

She been was throwing you layups the entire weekend.
1. When she asked if you like her sister. You should have told her you’re interested in her not the sister.
2. The bull she ran about not wanting to go back but deciding to do it is nonsense. She looking for a better option is all and wanted you to bite.
3. You need to be very direct with her. Stop texting and call her. Let her know what you on and worst she can do is say no. You already friend zoned yourself at this point.

1. To be clear my friend's sister asked me the question if I had a crush on her...my bad if confusing.
2. I was so tempted to, but like others have said being the final straw that broke a dead/dying relationship probably isn't good long-term. So if she's actually into me it's like we're both waiting for the other person to say it, but she hasn't because she's in a relationship and I haven't because I don't want to be a homewrecker.
3. Guess what it boils down to is being direct vs. letting it go since anything post-7 year relationship has got to be messy.

regarding dude with that chick that he's been friends with for years. i would not date that, as others suggested it'll end up with her being confused and probably running back to the toxic ex eventually while you go "all in" finally making a move. at this point the most you should do is smash and leave it that staying friends. go ahead and find yourself someone new though. that whole situationship is stale for a long term relationship. yall aint jim and pam from the office, that type of situation only works out in tv shows

Last line had me. Believe me I'm looking. Dating been pretty stale for me lately- don't know if I'm tired of putting in the effort or just not meeting girls I have chemistry with. Probably both. I guess that's partly why I'm thinking about my current situation with this girl more than I should be because she and I have it.

 

[vtotheinay]

1. To be clear my friend's sister asked me the question if I had a crush on her...my bad if confusing.
2. I was so tempted to, but like others have said being the final straw that broke a dead/dying relationship probably isn't good long-term. So if she's actually into me it's like we're both waiting for the other person to say it, but she hasn't because she's in a relationship and I haven't because I don't want to be a homewrecker.
3. Guess what it boils down to is being direct vs. letting it go since anything post-7 year relationship has got to be messy.

Last line had me. Believe me I'm looking. Dating been pretty stale for me lately- don't know if I'm tired of putting in the effort or just not meeting girls I have chemistry with. Probably both. I guess that's partly why I'm thinking about my current situation with this girl more than I should be because she and I have it.

obviously I don't know the entire situation, but my guess is that you're chasing someone just like her so you can have that same type of relationship, but you probably need to mentally let go of her (either smash and get it out your system so or cut it out completely) otherwise you're always gonna think of her when chasing someone else and it'll hold you back. you gotta start fresh imo, but that's just my personal views on how I'd handle it. hope it helps and you'll figure it out regardless

 

[Mark Antony]

MAN HELPS HIS PREGNANT TINDER MATCH THROUGH LABOUR ON THEIR FOURTH DATE

(TikTok/@alyssa_jane01)
One couple have set the bar incredibly high for online dating. A TikTok video telling the story of Max, 25, helping Tinder match Alyssa, 20, through labour on their fourth date has gone viral.

She tells the whole romantic story, from swiping right to family life.


“Max and I had been together for eight weeks before he came to my birth,” Alyssa explains in the video. “And out of those eight weeks, he’d probably only gone on three or four dates with me, the [next] date was him coming to my labour and birth and delivery.”
On the day of their fourth date, Alyssa was supposed to pick Max up from the airport, but couldn’t because her water had broken. When she told him this, Max got a taxi back from the airport, unpacked and came to join her at the hospital.
Although she wanted Max there as support, Alyssa had her concerns. She recalls thinking: “‘But what if we end up breaking up in a week’s time?’ We only had a couple of dates. We [didn’t] know each other very well at this stage. His family didn’t know about me or anything like that.
“But long story short, he ended up coming and basically being my biggest support.”
Alyssa describes being “terrified” during labour – “I was 19 and I was alone,” she said. “Max stayed with me because [the hospital staff] thought that he was the dad, [so he could] stay in the maternity unit. And he didn’t protest anything when they did call him dad. He just went along with it.”
Once Alyssa was able to take baby Ollie home, Max took a week off work to help both of them, particularly to help with Alyssa’s transition into being a new mum.
TikTok users have gone crazy for this romantic story, with many demanding a reveal of who Max is and others wanting more stories of their life together.
One user has called Alyssa and Max’s relationship “the ultimate ‘If he wanted to he would’ story” while another posted: “THAT is what you call a Dad! Love this story so much!”
Another user has commented what so many of us were thinking: “AND YOU FOUND THIS MAN ON TINDER!?”
After the shock and controversy that The Tinder Swindler documentary served up about the horrors of online dating, Alyssa and Max’s story may slightly restore our faith in dating apps.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/news.yahoo.com/amphtml/man-helps-pregnant-tinder-match-122748608.html

That's ******* hilarious, but mans looks like a incel creep with his pornstache so i'm cool if this is what gets him off these streets.

 

[storm2006]

Thread is booming today Several posts to address:

Mood.

Per usual...what the hell does this even mean, man?

About a girl, but not from off a dating app so not sure if this the thread for this. Apologize for length, but more details > less details when asking for advice. Anyways...

Known this girl for 6 years, we met back in college. Funny, attractive, and an easy to talk to and we have strong chemistry. Only thing is she's always had a boyfriend (since roughly a year before I met her) and not an issue since I've only known her in the friend context. Back in college we talked/texted every day, were in the same classes, etc. and her bf went to another school. Since graduating though, we've talked much less frequently. Usually like a few texts every few months or an hour or two facetime. I chalked it up to us not seeing each other every day/her bf being around more which was understandable.

We met up just a few times to catch up before she moved across the country two years ago, but when we did it felt like old times. This time last year I was looking for a job and hit her up since she was in the industry I was interviewing for. We talked about job stuff, but she also revealed she had some tragedy within her family and so conversation on a few of our calls got pretty deep. Since I have friends a few hours from where she lives I mentioned I'd be visiting over the summer and she told me to let her know when and she'd drive down. During this whole time, no mention of the bf so unsure if they were still dating, if she lived with him, or what.

When I went out there we planned to grab dinner with our friend groups combined and the night before she lowkey slips that her bf is coming too. Seemed weird to me since I hadn't heard his name in a long time and suddenly he's coming too. Dinner was good and met him for the first time, but they cancelled on plans the next day and quickly went back home instead. She apologized and said she was flying back to where I'm at (has family here) for the holidays and we could just hang more then.

First time we met up when she was back in the area she invited me out with her friends. When discussion turned to dating, I was surprised when her friends starting roasting her bf saying how awful he was and she didn't even defend him. Apparently things had gotten pretty rocky the past year. Linked up again on a night out where I met her brother and sister. Her sister chatted me up and coincidentally we see her (not my friend's) ex at the bar. She then says something like "at least we broke up unlike my sister and her bf." She rants about how they've been together 7 years and he hasn't proposed and asks me (in general) if I would've proposed by then. Memory's sort of hazy because I was a little drunk, but shortly thereafter asks me if I have a crush on her sister out of the blue. I think I did my best to tiptoe it not saying yes or no and said something along the lines of "can't be saying anything like that, she has a bf haha." Kicking myself to this day for not following up with "Why do you ask?", but again the alcohol. Idk if I'm thinking too much into it, but I feel like there's a strong chance they talked and planned her asking this...right?

Met up for dinner one last time before she went back and had to bring up all these new things I'd been hearing about her bf. She told me some pretty damning stuff he'd done the past year and admitted that it probably won't work out in the end, but that she's scared to start over after 7 years and him being her first relationship. Also, found out her living situation is up in the air- currently figuring out if she's going to stay out there or move back to the area, but likely wouldn't be living with him anymore. She told me she saw me the most of anyone (besides her fam) while she was in the area and that I need to come out and visit again. I do want to go back out there (got friends there too), but want to hold off until things are clear with their relationship. She said she'd probably be back in the area over the summer.

We texted/talked a bunch while she was around and she even facetimed me before her flight, but since then haven't heard much from her which is annoying. Like before, I figure it's because her bf's around, but who knows. Just wondering what I should be doing whether it's chilling until I see her in person over the summer, going out there again to see friends (and also her), or being straight up that I would date her if she were single. I don't want to involve myself in a situation that's already messy though or put my eggs in one basket. What do you guys think?

rbk93 Meaning telling her I'd date her if she were single or waiting to see how things are next time we see each other in person in several months?

Seems like a lot of the gents gave you great advice and said what I would have but they left out one key thing....whatever rbk93 tells you to do, do the opposite. You can thank me later for that one.

Another blatant Photoshop. Look around her right arm

Nah, man. This ain't right. Shorty needs to get put on the Summer Jam screen. Makes you wonder if her avatar with Hov is even real Also, smh at her thinking a photo with Hov is going to have dudes lining up to spend cash on her in 2022

MAN HELPS HIS PREGNANT TINDER MATCH THROUGH LABOUR ON THEIR FOURTH DATE

(TikTok/@alyssa_jane01)
One couple have set the bar incredibly high for online dating. A TikTok video telling the story of Max, 25, helping Tinder match Alyssa, 20, through labour on their fourth date has gone viral.

She tells the whole romantic story, from swiping right to family life.


“Max and I had been together for eight weeks before he came to my birth,” Alyssa explains in the video. “And out of those eight weeks, he’d probably only gone on three or four dates with me, the [next] date was him coming to my labour and birth and delivery.”
On the day of their fourth date, Alyssa was supposed to pick Max up from the airport, but couldn’t because her water had broken. When she told him this, Max got a taxi back from the airport, unpacked and came to join her at the hospital.
Although she wanted Max there as support, Alyssa had her concerns. She recalls thinking: “‘But what if we end up breaking up in a week’s time?’ We only had a couple of dates. We [didn’t] know each other very well at this stage. His family didn’t know about me or anything like that.
“But long story short, he ended up coming and basically being my biggest support.”
Alyssa describes being “terrified” during labour – “I was 19 and I was alone,” she said. “Max stayed with me because [the hospital staff] thought that he was the dad, [so he could] stay in the maternity unit. And he didn’t protest anything when they did call him dad. He just went along with it.”
Once Alyssa was able to take baby Ollie home, Max took a week off work to help both of them, particularly to help with Alyssa’s transition into being a new mum.
TikTok users have gone crazy for this romantic story, with many demanding a reveal of who Max is and others wanting more stories of their life together.
One user has called Alyssa and Max’s relationship “the ultimate ‘If he wanted to he would’ story” while another posted: “THAT is what you call a Dad! Love this story so much!”
Another user has commented what so many of us were thinking: “AND YOU FOUND THIS MAN ON TINDER!?”
After the shock and controversy that The Tinder Swindler documentary served up about the horrors of online dating, Alyssa and Max’s story may slightly restore our faith in dating apps.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/news.yahoo.com/amphtml/man-helps-pregnant-tinder-match-122748608.html

This is sad, man.

1. She's 19
2. He was courting a 7-month pregnant woman
3. He elbowed his way into this kid's life...what does the OG dad think? What does he her family/friends think? What does his family/friends think?
4. I hope he wasn't doing that just to get the yambs

 

[WASHED KING]

MAN HELPS HIS PREGNANT TINDER MATCH THROUGH LABOUR ON THEIR FOURTH DATE

(TikTok/@alyssa_jane01)
One couple have set the bar incredibly high for online dating. A TikTok video telling the story of Max, 25, helping Tinder match Alyssa, 20, through labour on their fourth date has gone viral.

She tells the whole romantic story, from swiping right to family life.


“Max and I had been together for eight weeks before he came to my birth,” Alyssa explains in the video. “And out of those eight weeks, he’d probably only gone on three or four dates with me, the [next] date was him coming to my labour and birth and delivery.”
On the day of their fourth date, Alyssa was supposed to pick Max up from the airport, but couldn’t because her water had broken. When she told him this, Max got a taxi back from the airport, unpacked and came to join her at the hospital.
Although she wanted Max there as support, Alyssa had her concerns. She recalls thinking: “‘But what if we end up breaking up in a week’s time?’ We only had a couple of dates. We [didn’t] know each other very well at this stage. His family didn’t know about me or anything like that.
“But long story short, he ended up coming and basically being my biggest support.”
Alyssa describes being “terrified” during labour – “I was 19 and I was alone,” she said. “Max stayed with me because [the hospital staff] thought that he was the dad, [so he could] stay in the maternity unit. And he didn’t protest anything when they did call him dad. He just went along with it.”
Once Alyssa was able to take baby Ollie home, Max took a week off work to help both of them, particularly to help with Alyssa’s transition into being a new mum.
TikTok users have gone crazy for this romantic story, with many demanding a reveal of who Max is and others wanting more stories of their life together.
One user has called Alyssa and Max’s relationship “the ultimate ‘If he wanted to he would’ story” while another posted: “THAT is what you call a Dad! Love this story so much!”
Another user has commented what so many of us were thinking: “AND YOU FOUND THIS MAN ON TINDER!?”
After the shock and controversy that The Tinder Swindler documentary served up about the horrors of online dating, Alyssa and Max’s story may slightly restore our faith in dating apps.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/news.yahoo.com/amphtml/man-helps-pregnant-tinder-match-122748608.html

Man had to be down horrendous. Saving pregnant Tinder joints?

 

[Based Jesus]

If you in your mid-20s chatting up a heavily pregnant 19 year old something's gone wrong

 

[WASHED KING]

If you in your mid-20s chatting up a heavily pregnant 19 year old something's gone wrong

You’re right. But on the flip side. It looks like 2 people who knew their options were slim.

Took what they could get and kept it moving.I’m not terribly mad at it.

I would never though.

 

[dontsteponmyshoes]

Over the last 6-7 mos been exchanging glances and a little back and forth flirty banter with this law clerk at one of the stops on my route at work. When I'm fixing their copier or installing new office furniture we always have a small talk session. We became FB friends about 3 mos ago she likes almost everything I post so I know it's a layup. Been thinking about pulling the trigger and asking her to go for a drink. Only thing that scares me is she's a white chick and she's almost too pro black for me (I'm a black dude). She's no Rachel Dolezal by any means but she's very very "woke." You can tell she's very passionate about politics reforming the justice system and human rights BLM and all that, which is all dope but that isht is mentally draining I try to keep the majority of that isht out of my every day life. Makes me think her family are we are the world hippies or grand wizard KKK members and she's trying to rebel l. On the other hand she's a woman with no kids just about to turn 30 and is pretty successful so I should stop being petty

 

[Based Jesus]

Wait until Black History Month is over then go for it

 

[storm2006]

Over the last 6-7 mos been exchanging glances and a little back and forth flirty banter with this law clerk at one of the stops on my route at work. When I'm fixing their copier or installing new office furniture we always have a small talk session. We became FB friends about 3 mos ago she likes almost everything I post so I know it's a layup. Been thinking about pulling the trigger and asking her to go for a drink. Only thing that scares me is she's a white chick and she's almost too pro black for me (I'm a black dude). She's no Rachel Dolezal by any means but she's very very "woke." You can tell she's very passionate about politics reforming the justice system and human rights BLM and all that, which is all dope but that isht is mentally draining I try to keep the majority of that isht out of my every day life. Makes me think her family are we are the world hippies or grand wizard KKK members and she's trying to rebel l. On the other hand she's a woman with no kids just about to turn 30 and is pretty successful so I should stop being petty

I'm sometimes skeptical of the aggressively Pro-BLM yambs too but if you're just trying to smash then I wouldn't worry about it too much. If you're potentially thinking about dating her then I think the topics you mentioned are extremely relevant in your future together.

Either way, I say shoot your shot mayne

 

[dontsteponmyshoes]

Wait until Black History Month is over then go for it

 

[suberzat1]

I'm not fan of the extreme pro black white women because what happens when things get sticky at the bodega.

Don't get me wrong I'm a black guy that a tall dime yamb grabber, living off the water, and driving a M4 driver type of NTer. Just saying the overly woke white yambs are not for me.

I don't need anyone questioning my blackness.

 

[WASHED KING]

Over the last 6-7 mos been exchanging glances and a little back and forth flirty banter with this law clerk at one of the stops on my route at work. When I'm fixing their copier or installing new office furniture we always have a small talk session. We became FB friends about 3 mos ago she likes almost everything I post so I know it's a layup. Been thinking about pulling the trigger and asking her to go for a drink. Only thing that scares me is she's a white chick and she's almost too pro black for me (I'm a black dude). She's no Rachel Dolezal by any means but she's very very "woke." You can tell she's very passionate about politics reforming the justice system and human rights BLM and all that, which is all dope but that isht is mentally draining I try to keep the majority of that isht out of my every day life. Makes me think her family are we are the world hippies or grand wizard KKK members and she's trying to rebel l. On the other hand she's a woman with no kids just about to turn 30 and is pretty successful so I should stop being petty

If she truly believes BLM she will swallow.

Respectfully of course.

 

[willypete]

I'm not fan of the extreme pro black white women because what happens when things get sticky at the bodega.

Don't get me wrong I'm a black guy that a tall dime yamb grabber, living off the water, and driving a M4 driver type of NTer. Just saying the overly woke white yambs are not for me.

I don't need anyone questioning my blackness.

Especially someone not even black

 

[The Fresh Prince]

Over the last 6-7 mos been exchanging glances and a little back and forth flirty banter with this law clerk at one of the stops on my route at work. When I'm fixing their copier or installing new office furniture we always have a small talk session. We became FB friends about 3 mos ago she likes almost everything I post so I know it's a layup. Been thinking about pulling the trigger and asking her to go for a drink. Only thing that scares me is she's a white chick and she's almost too pro black for me (I'm a black dude). She's no Rachel Dolezal by any means but she's very very "woke." You can tell she's very passionate about politics reforming the justice system and human rights BLM and all that, which is all dope but that isht is mentally draining I try to keep the majority of that isht out of my every day life. Makes me think her family are we are the world hippies or grand wizard KKK members and she's trying to rebel l. On the other hand she's a woman with no kids just about to turn 30 and is pretty successful so I should stop being petty

Spoiler

 

[dontsteponmyshoes]

I'm sometimes skeptical of the aggressively Pro-BLM yambs too but if you're just trying to smash then I wouldn't worry about it too much. If you're potentially thinking about dating her then I think the topics you mentioned are extremely relevant in your future together.

Either way, I say shoot your shot mayne

Just intrigued because of her career and she's made it to 30 with no kids other than that she's your AWG. Doubt it would be anything long-term because she's about an hour away from where I live she's in Denver. I'm in her office only about twice a month so even if it was just a hook up it wouldn't jeopardize my job or be weird seeing her if it never proceeded after that. Basically it's whatever I don't Wana be saved but she could def be a FWB. I'm only considering it because I'm tired of fishing in the same pond

Spoiler

 

[rbk93]

Per usual...what the hell does this even mean, man?

Honestly just for ****s and giggles.

But I'm just going to embrace who I am or more so strive to be. It's gotten me this far at this point for better or worse.

 

[theregothatman]

Over the last 6-7 mos been exchanging glances and a little back and forth flirty banter with this law clerk at one of the stops on my route at work. When I'm fixing their copier or installing new office furniture we always have a small talk session. We became FB friends about 3 mos ago she likes almost everything I post so I know it's a layup. Been thinking about pulling the trigger and asking her to go for a drink. Only thing that scares me is she's a white chick and she's almost too pro black for me (I'm a black dude). She's no Rachel Dolezal by any means but she's very very "woke." You can tell she's very passionate about politics reforming the justice system and human rights BLM and all that, which is all dope but that isht is mentally draining I try to keep the majority of that isht out of my every day life. Makes me think her family are we are the world hippies or grand wizard KKK members and she's trying to rebel l. On the other hand she's a woman with no kids just about to turn 30 and is pretty successful so I should stop being petty

Or she just has a Mandingo fetish

 

[tomdiginson]

That's ****ing hilarious, but mans looks like a incel creep with his pornstache so i'm cool if this is what gets him off these streets.

Straight boops.

 

[titang545]

I understand things happen in life but why would you be on a dating app while pregnant. Then again some women use them for fun anyway. Despite that, why would a man want to date someone who is pregnant by another man.

I ain't date them but I did knock down a pregnant chick a couple of times. Thing is just different, was like diving in the ocean. Thing soaking before you even get things going.

 

[tomdiginson]

About a girl, but not from off a dating app so not sure if this the thread for this. Apologize for length, but more details > less details when asking for advice. Anyways...

Known this girl for 6 years, we met back in college. Funny, attractive, and an easy to talk to and we have strong chemistry. Only thing is she's always had a boyfriend (since roughly a year before I met her) and not an issue since I've only known her in the friend context. Back in college we talked/texted every day, were in the same classes, etc. and her bf went to another school. Since graduating though, we've talked much less frequently. Usually like a few texts every few months or an hour or two facetime. I chalked it up to us not seeing each other every day/her bf being around more which was understandable.

We met up just a few times to catch up before she moved across the country two years ago, but when we did it felt like old times. This time last year I was looking for a job and hit her up since she was in the industry I was interviewing for. We talked about job stuff, but she also revealed she had some tragedy within her family and so conversation on a few of our calls got pretty deep. Since I have friends a few hours from where she lives I mentioned I'd be visiting over the summer and she told me to let her know when and she'd drive down. During this whole time, no mention of the bf so unsure if they were still dating, if she lived with him, or what.

When I went out there we planned to grab dinner with our friend groups combined and the night before she lowkey slips that her bf is coming too. Seemed weird to me since I hadn't heard his name in a long time and suddenly he's coming too. Dinner was good and met him for the first time, but they cancelled on plans the next day and quickly went back home instead. She apologized and said she was flying back to where I'm at (has family here) for the holidays and we could just hang more then.

First time we met up when she was back in the area she invited me out with her friends. When discussion turned to dating, I was surprised when her friends starting roasting her bf saying how awful he was and she didn't even defend him. Apparently things had gotten pretty rocky the past year. Linked up again on a night out where I met her brother and sister. Her sister chatted me up and coincidentally we see her (not my friend's) ex at the bar. She then says something like "at least we broke up unlike my sister and her bf." She rants about how they've been together 7 years and he hasn't proposed and asks me (in general) if I would've proposed by then. Memory's sort of hazy because I was a little drunk, but shortly thereafter asks me if I have a crush on her sister out of the blue. I think I did my best to tiptoe it not saying yes or no and said something along the lines of "can't be saying anything like that, she has a bf haha." Kicking myself to this day for not following up with "Why do you ask?", but again the alcohol. Idk if I'm thinking too much into it, but I feel like there's a strong chance they talked and planned her asking this...right?

Met up for dinner one last time before she went back and had to bring up all these new things I'd been hearing about her bf. She told me some pretty damning stuff he'd done the past year and admitted that it probably won't work out in the end, but that she's scared to start over after 7 years and him being her first relationship. Also, found out her living situation is up in the air- currently figuring out if she's going to stay out there or move back to the area, but likely wouldn't be living with him anymore. She told me she saw me the most of anyone (besides her fam) while she was in the area and that I need to come out and visit again. I do want to go back out there (got friends there too), but want to hold off until things are clear with their relationship. She said she'd probably be back in the area over the summer.

We texted/talked a bunch while she was around and she even facetimed me before her flight, but since then haven't heard much from her which is annoying. Like before, I figure it's because her bf's around, but who knows. Just wondering what I should be doing whether it's chilling until I see her in person over the summer, going out there again to see friends (and also her), or being straight up that I would date her if she were single. I don't want to involve myself in a situation that's already messy though or put my eggs in one basket. What do you guys think?

Do not waste any time with this chick. You will take her seriously and she will leave you for the Ex. The most you should do is smash. If you take her seriously, you will end up like Ace in casino with his wife. The ex will be Lester.

 

[ahat]

You be surprised how many of those pregnant types on these dating apps.

Lol i posted about the one i matched with that told me her pics were old and she had to be honest she was catfishing me. Sent me current pics of her and she was like 7mths pregnant. Biggest belly i ever seen.

 

[TURBO UNO]

Was driving into Target’s parking lot but stopped for a woman to cross the street where she got out of her parked car. I make it to the 3rd floor and take my time gathering my stuff. I finally step out and see that the same woman I stopped for walked up using the stairs. Kinda odd since there was plenty of parking here.......then I see her walk up to some cat in Chelsea boots waiting outside his car

A quick hug/kiss and they both get in the car and drive off. I hope she brushed her teeth before kissing her husband before bedtime that day

 

[datznasty]

Is there an insinuation that I'm missing because I havent eaten in 36 hours and am braindead? You saying chelsea boots was the ****? Or chelsea boots cat was getting ****ed?

I guess he was the ****. But why would you assume he wasnt hubby?

 

[oidreez]

Is there an insinuation that I'm missing because I havent eaten in 36 hours and am braindead? You saying chelsea boots was the ****? Or chelsea boots cat was getting ****ed?

I guess he was the ****. But why would you assume he wasnt hubby?

It seems from my understanding she came to target in one car but met a dude there and left in another car