Man took everything I had to not go Kevin Samuels on this chick.
Match this chick on Bumble and she hit me with the message. Took a few days to reply back to her but she was receptive and suggested a phone convo for which I obliged.
During our conversation she proceeds to ask a bunch of the typical questions. We get to the have you been married part, which I tell her I was and now I’m divorced. She proceeds to say “well I didn’t see that in your profile. If I did I wouldn’t have matched with you.” I tell her I understand and everyone has preferences and I’m not in the business of changing anyone’s opinion.
She proceeds to start quoting Bible scripture saying if you get divorced and remarry, you’re committing adultery in God’s eyes….I tell I understand and you have make decisions that work best for your beliefs and lifestyle. I don’t regret my marriage, we just grew apart, but it taught me some valuable lessons about relationships so I’m grateful.
She keeps going on and on about how she wish she would have known I use to be married. And how she prefers to not date someone who is divorced. She then proceeds to tell me she has a 4 year old child. I ask her what happened to the father? She tells me how they were just not a good fit, oil and water…blah blah blah. I don’t say a word and let it slide because at this point I’m curious to understand more about her logic. She tells me she hasn’t been in a relationship in over 5 years which was another red flag. I’m a good conversationalist so we talk a bit more on various things.
So by the end of this conversation how about this chick has the nerve to say “I would love to go out with you sometime” and “ I really enjoyed talking to you and hope we can continue talking”
I told her that might be possible then deleted her number. These chicks seriously go have kids out of wedlock but have the nerve to judge me because I chose to get married before having children which I still don’t have and won’t if I’m not married.
