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Whats good nt?

Can some one school me on home schooling. I have always wondered and not known how hit works.
Who do you learn from?
How do you get graded?
How does it affect college?

anyone here home schooled?
any info is appreciated
 
Whats good nt?

Can some one school me on home schooling. I have always wondered and not known how hit works.
Who do you learn from?
How do you get graded?
How does it affect college?

anyone here home schooled?
any info is appreciated
 
I went to a Stanford campus tour with my sister and there was a kid there that was home schooled.
So I don't think home schooling will affect college that much.
Than again it's an ivy league so...
 
I went to a Stanford campus tour with my sister and there was a kid there that was home schooled.
So I don't think home schooling will affect college that much.
Than again it's an ivy league so...
 
It's the single dumbest idea I can think of UNLESS your child is already set on a path of success and indifference. School is where we're socialized. Unless you intend to live an extremely unique existence, school is vital to fitting in in the world you live in..

Which..

IS more important than the quality of education one receives. What, it is..

I went to a Stanford campus tour with my sister and there was a kid there that was home schooled.
So I don't think home schooling will affect college that much.
Than again it's an ivy league so...
$50 says he was sitting alone. All the smarts in the world won't make you enjoy being on the outside looking in. Sure, you can find facts in books. You can read those books at home and end up very successful. But you can't make friends from home-school.
 
It's the single dumbest idea I can think of UNLESS your child is already set on a path of success and indifference. School is where we're socialized. Unless you intend to live an extremely unique existence, school is vital to fitting in in the world you live in..

Which..

IS more important than the quality of education one receives. What, it is..

I went to a Stanford campus tour with my sister and there was a kid there that was home schooled.
So I don't think home schooling will affect college that much.
Than again it's an ivy league so...
$50 says he was sitting alone. All the smarts in the world won't make you enjoy being on the outside looking in. Sure, you can find facts in books. You can read those books at home and end up very successful. But you can't make friends from home-school.
 
Originally Posted by HOOSIERdaddy282

It's the single dumbest idea I can think of UNLESS your child is already set on a path of success and indifference. School is where we're socialized. Unless you intend to live an extremely unique existence, school is vital to fitting in in the world you live in..

Which..

IS more important than the quality of education one receives. What, it is..

I went to a Stanford campus tour with my sister and there was a kid there that was home schooled.
So I don't think home schooling will affect college that much.
Than again it's an ivy league so...
$50 says he was sitting alone. All the smarts in the world won't make you enjoy being on the outside looking in. Sure, you can find facts in books. You can read those books at home and end up very successful. But you can't make friends from home-school.


qft...i know sum folks who was home schooled when we was kids, & they so shy & awkward to be around. its kinda sad
 
Originally Posted by HOOSIERdaddy282

It's the single dumbest idea I can think of UNLESS your child is already set on a path of success and indifference. School is where we're socialized. Unless you intend to live an extremely unique existence, school is vital to fitting in in the world you live in..

Which..

IS more important than the quality of education one receives. What, it is..

I went to a Stanford campus tour with my sister and there was a kid there that was home schooled.
So I don't think home schooling will affect college that much.
Than again it's an ivy league so...
$50 says he was sitting alone. All the smarts in the world won't make you enjoy being on the outside looking in. Sure, you can find facts in books. You can read those books at home and end up very successful. But you can't make friends from home-school.


qft...i know sum folks who was home schooled when we was kids, & they so shy & awkward to be around. its kinda sad
 
Originally Posted by iYen

I went to a Stanford campus tour with my sister and there was a kid there that was home schooled.
So I don't think home schooling will affect college that much.
Than again it's an ivy league so...


pretty sure that Stanford is not an Ivy League school
 
Originally Posted by iYen

I went to a Stanford campus tour with my sister and there was a kid there that was home schooled.
So I don't think home schooling will affect college that much.
Than again it's an ivy league so...


pretty sure that Stanford is not an Ivy League school
 
Well let me start off by saying I was homeschooled and have continued my involvement in the homeschooling community since I graduated high school  in 2001.  I also plan to homeschool my son when he is old enough (right now he's only 18 months old).  So as one with first-hand experience with homeschooling, as well as a lot of insight into the segment of the population who choose to homeschool, hopefully I can shed a little more light on what it's all about, what happens in terms of socialization, and a number of other common concerns.

Since there is a lot of ground to cover, I'm going to separate my posts into different subjects.  So let's begin with the first.

Socialization

I'm going to start right off with the biggest, most commonly discussed topic: socialization.  It's understandable that people assume homeschoolers are incapable (and even sheltered) from the important social experiences that shape a person and make or break their capabilities in the real world.  Fact of the matter, it is a genuine concern, and it's up to the parents themselves to ensure their children have an active and well-rounded social life.  I personally spent as much time at extracurricular and social activities as I did in my "classroom" at my house.  I also began running my own business starting in 8th grade, which I ran through 11th grade when I started college (12th grade and my freshman year in college occurred simultaneously.  It was a publishing business that I chose to close when I began college because I wouldn't have time to properly attend to it and I didn't want my creation to end up in the wrong hand.  But that's beside the point. 

Bottom line is that it is every homeschooling parent's absolute responsibility to encourage their kids to participate in social activities and create their own opportunities as well.  Most homeschooling parents understand this and are very much involved in making this happen.  Unfortunately, there is a small (and thankfully shrinking) segment of the population where parents keep their kids sheltered either through lack of involvement or intentional separation to give their children access only to their beliefs and others who share them.  This, in my opinion, is criminal, and is not what homeschooling is about.  But we all know how the media likes to focus on negative things instead of positive ones.  If you don't know what I mean, watch the local news or a national network like CNN and see for yourself how much airtime is devoted to negative stories.  Positive stories are considered fluff, and they only get airtime if the schedule allows (which isn't very often).

  
 
Well let me start off by saying I was homeschooled and have continued my involvement in the homeschooling community since I graduated high school  in 2001.  I also plan to homeschool my son when he is old enough (right now he's only 18 months old).  So as one with first-hand experience with homeschooling, as well as a lot of insight into the segment of the population who choose to homeschool, hopefully I can shed a little more light on what it's all about, what happens in terms of socialization, and a number of other common concerns.

Since there is a lot of ground to cover, I'm going to separate my posts into different subjects.  So let's begin with the first.

Socialization

I'm going to start right off with the biggest, most commonly discussed topic: socialization.  It's understandable that people assume homeschoolers are incapable (and even sheltered) from the important social experiences that shape a person and make or break their capabilities in the real world.  Fact of the matter, it is a genuine concern, and it's up to the parents themselves to ensure their children have an active and well-rounded social life.  I personally spent as much time at extracurricular and social activities as I did in my "classroom" at my house.  I also began running my own business starting in 8th grade, which I ran through 11th grade when I started college (12th grade and my freshman year in college occurred simultaneously.  It was a publishing business that I chose to close when I began college because I wouldn't have time to properly attend to it and I didn't want my creation to end up in the wrong hand.  But that's beside the point. 

Bottom line is that it is every homeschooling parent's absolute responsibility to encourage their kids to participate in social activities and create their own opportunities as well.  Most homeschooling parents understand this and are very much involved in making this happen.  Unfortunately, there is a small (and thankfully shrinking) segment of the population where parents keep their kids sheltered either through lack of involvement or intentional separation to give their children access only to their beliefs and others who share them.  This, in my opinion, is criminal, and is not what homeschooling is about.  But we all know how the media likes to focus on negative things instead of positive ones.  If you don't know what I mean, watch the local news or a national network like CNN and see for yourself how much airtime is devoted to negative stories.  Positive stories are considered fluff, and they only get airtime if the schedule allows (which isn't very often).

  
 
Grading and Standards of Educational Quality

This one literally has 50 different answers because the laws that govern homeschooling vary from state to state.  Some states are very much committed to accountability for homeschooling families, requiring regular evaluations by accredited teachers.  Other states are far less involved, practically giving homeschoolers free reign over every aspect of their education and never requiring any sort of accountability.  There are far more states in former category than the latter, but a lot of the poorly-educated homeschoolers who severely lack in social skills come from that latter pool of states.  I personally was homeschooled in Pennsylvania, which falls somewhat in the middle.  While homeschoolers in PA are free to choose their curriculum and methods of teaching, they must be evaluated by an accredited teacher every year to ensure the children are receiving a genuine and coherent education, and are not falling behind their peers in public and private school.  I feel this is an ideal arrangement because it provides families a great deal of freedom (which is one of the primary reasons people choose homeschooling), but requires that parents prove they are educating their kids and providing them with a social life.  If a homeschooled child is deemed undereducated or poorly socialized, the school district can legally require the child to begin attending a regular school.  This has happened, but it is a relatively rare occurrence. 

In some states, just about everything a family does in their homeschool is dictated by the local school district, right down to the books they use and the subjects they teach.  I find this is a little too restrictive because it limits homeschooling families' opportunities to customize the educational experience to best serve their children.  For instance, when comets Hale-Bopp and Hyakutake made their back-to-back passes, I became extremely interested in astronomy.  Because I was homeschooled, my family was able to adjust my science curricula schedule to focus on astronomy.  To this day, I will never forget my astronomy studies and watching the comets every night with my family.  To this day, my fascination with astronomy is strong.  Another excellent example of how that freedom serves a student well is when I started getting very interested in the science of meteorology.  We dove into this subject head first despite the fact it wasn't planned ahead of time for that particular school year.  Flash forward to today, and I am an active member of NOAA's SkyWarn community and a fairly experienced storm chaser.  The point is, we were able to adjust my schooling on-the-fly to take advantage of my sudden fascination with new subjects, and because of that, they weren't flash-in-the-pan interests that faded away because we hadn't gotten to that subject yet.  I doubt my continued interest in astronomy and meteorology would exist, at least not to the same level, if it wasn't for the opportunity to educationally "seize the day" so to speak.

I have a lot of stuff left to do this evening, so I am going to have to leave it here for the time being.  However, tomorrow I will continue my posts, covering things like "who teaches a homeschooled student" and "homeschoolers' access to higher education".  Also, if anyone has any burning questions about homeschooling, post them and I will be sure to touch on them.

I hope I'm providing the answers you've been looking for so far!
 
Grading and Standards of Educational Quality

This one literally has 50 different answers because the laws that govern homeschooling vary from state to state.  Some states are very much committed to accountability for homeschooling families, requiring regular evaluations by accredited teachers.  Other states are far less involved, practically giving homeschoolers free reign over every aspect of their education and never requiring any sort of accountability.  There are far more states in former category than the latter, but a lot of the poorly-educated homeschoolers who severely lack in social skills come from that latter pool of states.  I personally was homeschooled in Pennsylvania, which falls somewhat in the middle.  While homeschoolers in PA are free to choose their curriculum and methods of teaching, they must be evaluated by an accredited teacher every year to ensure the children are receiving a genuine and coherent education, and are not falling behind their peers in public and private school.  I feel this is an ideal arrangement because it provides families a great deal of freedom (which is one of the primary reasons people choose homeschooling), but requires that parents prove they are educating their kids and providing them with a social life.  If a homeschooled child is deemed undereducated or poorly socialized, the school district can legally require the child to begin attending a regular school.  This has happened, but it is a relatively rare occurrence. 

In some states, just about everything a family does in their homeschool is dictated by the local school district, right down to the books they use and the subjects they teach.  I find this is a little too restrictive because it limits homeschooling families' opportunities to customize the educational experience to best serve their children.  For instance, when comets Hale-Bopp and Hyakutake made their back-to-back passes, I became extremely interested in astronomy.  Because I was homeschooled, my family was able to adjust my science curricula schedule to focus on astronomy.  To this day, I will never forget my astronomy studies and watching the comets every night with my family.  To this day, my fascination with astronomy is strong.  Another excellent example of how that freedom serves a student well is when I started getting very interested in the science of meteorology.  We dove into this subject head first despite the fact it wasn't planned ahead of time for that particular school year.  Flash forward to today, and I am an active member of NOAA's SkyWarn community and a fairly experienced storm chaser.  The point is, we were able to adjust my schooling on-the-fly to take advantage of my sudden fascination with new subjects, and because of that, they weren't flash-in-the-pan interests that faded away because we hadn't gotten to that subject yet.  I doubt my continued interest in astronomy and meteorology would exist, at least not to the same level, if it wasn't for the opportunity to educationally "seize the day" so to speak.

I have a lot of stuff left to do this evening, so I am going to have to leave it here for the time being.  However, tomorrow I will continue my posts, covering things like "who teaches a homeschooled student" and "homeschoolers' access to higher education".  Also, if anyone has any burning questions about homeschooling, post them and I will be sure to touch on them.

I hope I'm providing the answers you've been looking for so far!
 
i would never want to be in anything that wasn't a public school in the city.  i got friends, i didn't grow up scared of black people, i wasn't around a bunch of kids who had more money than me.  idk i just think it def will make a person different than a person that was home schooled their whole life.  i remember talking to kids from the suburbs when i was in hs and some of the stuff they would say was wild.
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so happy i wasn't them.
 
i would never want to be in anything that wasn't a public school in the city.  i got friends, i didn't grow up scared of black people, i wasn't around a bunch of kids who had more money than me.  idk i just think it def will make a person different than a person that was home schooled their whole life.  i remember talking to kids from the suburbs when i was in hs and some of the stuff they would say was wild.
eek.gif
so happy i wasn't them.
 
Originally Posted by Mojodmonky1

Originally Posted by iYen

I went to a Stanford campus tour with my sister and there was a kid there that was home schooled.
So I don't think home schooling will affect college that much.
Than again it's an ivy league so...


pretty sure that Stanford is not an Ivy League school

My mistake.
 
Originally Posted by Mojodmonky1

Originally Posted by iYen

I went to a Stanford campus tour with my sister and there was a kid there that was home schooled.
So I don't think home schooling will affect college that much.
Than again it's an ivy league so...


pretty sure that Stanford is not an Ivy League school

My mistake.
 
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