How do you deal with bad vibes from your girl?

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Lately I've been getting a few.

Now I don't think it's extreme enough to break it off, but it's going to affect taking the next step.

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did you switch something up recently? maybe grow your hair longer or change the way you dress? or maybe you pee'd with the door open? the littlest %*$! cansend females for a loop ... try to see if you can identify what it is she could possibly be getting a negative vibe from and try to switch it up ...
 
Originally Posted by MarleysProtege

did you switch something up recently? maybe grow your hair longer or change the way you dress? or maybe you pee'd with the door open? the littlest %*$! can send females for a loop ... try to see if you can identify what it is she could possibly be getting a negative vibe from and try to switch it up ...
Eff her, don't put that #%%% on a pedestal, do you.
 
Originally Posted by Spot Rusherz

Examples...?
She just doesn't seem into me anymore.

I don't know, I try to be the best boyfriend a girl could ask for, but sometimes lacks the wherewithal to reciprocate such kindness and affection.

She hasn't talked with me or anything about it, so I guess we cool. Maybe it's just me.
 
Originally Posted by eye see soles

Originally Posted by Spot Rusherz

Examples...?
She just doesn't seem into me anymore.

I don't know, I try to be the best boyfriend a girl could ask for, but sometimes lacks the wherewithal to reciprocate such kindness and affection.

She hasn't talked with me or anything about it, so I guess we cool. Maybe it's just me.

...why dont you just ask her duke? or just say that you are getting strange vibes....
 
Originally Posted by FreshPrince

Originally Posted by eye see soles

Originally Posted by Spot Rusherz

Examples...?
She just doesn't seem into me anymore.

I don't know, I try to be the best boyfriend a girl could ask for, but sometimes lacks the wherewithal to reciprocate such kindness and affection.

She hasn't talked with me or anything about it, so I guess we cool. Maybe it's just me.

...why dont you just ask her duke? or just say that you are getting strange vibes....
Word.. ask her what's goin' on fam.
 
Originally Posted by eye see soles

Originally Posted by Spot Rusherz

Examples...?
She just doesn't seem into me anymore.

I don't know, I try to be the best boyfriend a girl could ask for, but sometimes lacks the wherewithal to reciprocate such kindness and affection.

She hasn't talked with me or anything about it, so I guess we cool. Maybe it's just me.


well dam if you have to say it ..weeeeeellll I think a sit down is due
 
Originally Posted by keepzdasneakz

Originally Posted by MarleysProtege

did you switch something up recently? maybe grow your hair longer or change the way you dress? or maybe you pee'd with the door open? the littlest %*$! can send females for a loop ... try to see if you can identify what it is she could possibly be getting a negative vibe from and try to switch it up ...
Eff her, don't put that #%%% on a pedestal, do you.


thats what i used to do, but this dude seems like he wants to be with her so the f it approach isnt applicable ...

She just doesn't seem into me anymore.

I don't know, I try to be the best boyfriend a girl could ask for, but sometimes lacks the wherewithal to reciprocate such kindness and affection.

She hasn't talked with me or anything about it, so I guess we cool. Maybe it's just me.
dont be TOO good of a bf ... females dont like it when youre perfect ... if she doesnt reciprocate what you feel youre giving to the relationshipthen you need to tell her ... cuz theres no reason for you to sit there and just get the short end of the stick ... but then again maybe shes just having an"off" time and some flowers would help or get her a cd she likes or something i dunno ...something to show you care ...
 
dont call
dont text
wait til she initiates contact with you. then shes gonna be buggin, like whats he up to? then she'll come around. bs game you gotta play, but it works.
 
Yes, listen to Marley. Chicks do not want you to be perfect. That gets boring, unless they are some ugly chick that has never been treated right.
 
Bro, let me tell you...

once I get my camera back, I'm gonna go ahead and end the relationship. I just want my camera back for real. I don't even care anymore.

I've been getting bad vibes from her too.
 
We good now.

I'm just more needy than usual. I guess because it's the holidays.

Thanks NT.
 
i've been trying to deal with this for the past 4 months. chick got mood swings and it aint working. i wanted to break it off so many times but i alwayssay to myself, "it'll get better". i dont even know what to do anymore. i thought i was being a great boyfriend but she just keeps attacking andgetting all offensive when little things happen. if i tried to stop contacting her she'd just straight up quit. what do i do NT ?
 
Originally Posted by dustblaaze

dont call
dont text
wait til she initiates contact with you. then shes gonna be buggin, like whats he up to? then she'll come around. bs game you gotta play, but it works.


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Originally Posted by eye see soles

We good now.

I'm just more needy than usual. I guess because it's the holidays.

Thanks NT.

Dudes acting like girls in the relationship nowdays is quite baffling. Stop wearing the panties homey.

Chicks hate feminine !+% dudes
 
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