confused, is ol girl your wife or girlfriend?
Dudes need to stop with this "wifey" business. If your married, she's your wife (wiz and old earth are acceptable subs). If your not dating, not engaged, she's your girlfriend. Period.
if it's a girlfriend, she can stay the hell outta my pockets
if it's your wife; then you dun goof'd
my wife has no clue what i spend our money on, i never use the joint account for a personal purchase. if she asks you about a new pair of shoes, tell her you bought em years ago and just decided to break em off. that's assuming she's not into kicks like that.