[ How long do you hold a grudge ? ]

[young dr0]

I usually don't hold them long ... I get over minute thing really easily ... even more important things sometime. Im kinda happy-go-lucky.

Long story short ..

I'm almost 26 now ... when I was 19 I had sex w/ this known jump. She was a junior in HS ... she was cool as hell... her sex game was fie .... wasn't bad looking, just slutted out. So after two sessions. She calls and asks me to take her to prom ... I reply"Helllllllll nawwwww." She sounds all hurt and we never spoke again.

So I used to always wonder what happened to her ... in spring this year. She was at the white party ... I was inthere online. Doin' it extra grande. Merely trying to speak and she kept hitting me w/ the

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CLIFFNOTES:

How long do you hold a grudge ?



No pics ... I dont know y'all I dont **** w/ y'all .... #BOW

 

[air max 87]

life is too short to hold grudges.....

 

[23kidd]

Originally Posted by air max 87

life is too short to hold grudges.....

 

[bkmac]

I don't believe in holding grudges. No point in my opinion.

If there is someone I become angered at, for whatever reason, I just don't pay them any mind. That doesn't mean I hate them or anything, it just meansI don't care for them. There's a difference.

 

[bangdak]

i think she od'ed holding a grudge for that long. maybe you were her real "love" though, who knows.


i honestly hold grudges for a real long time, depending how close i were to you, situation, and how hard that particular event hurt me emotionally. (im a weakpersona t heart

) save the jokes boys.

 

[mc otaku]

im a scorpio, i can hold one forever depending on what they did. IF you REALLY F with me ill get revenge.

 

[certifiedsw]

I think kevenmayne still looking for you dro

 

[miketysonthekiller]

I get over things extremely fast. Holding grudges only brings negativity into your life and it keeps you from moving forward and being happy.

 

[young dr0]

Originally Posted by BangDak

i think she od'ed holding a grudge for that long. maybe you were her real "love" though, who knows.


i honestly hold grudges for a real long time, depending how close i were to you, situation, and how hard that particular event hurt me emotionally.

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I feel you thought ... I try to hold grudges but usually I just can't do it and I start talking to the person like "whatever" never happened.

Yall are right life is way too short ... seeing 20 is a blessing.

 

[young dr0]

Originally Posted by CertifiedSW

I think kevenmayne still looking for you dro

#BOW

 

[kicktionair]

I dont hold grudges I think

I simply eliminate said person from my world, no talking etc.... but I don't think to my self "Boy I really hate that person still"

is ignoring holding a grudge?

 

[rsdplaya]

usually about a minute or so to be real...i can't think of any time recently that i've stayed mad at someone...just not worth it.

 

[davidisgodly]

Girls hold grudges.

You was 19 and you smashed a 16 y.o.

No advice you pedo.

 

[deletedelete]

i don't hold grudges.

but she just wants you to apologize. trust.

 

[ravagebx]

I don't hold grudges. I forgive, though I never forget.

 

[a hunnid]

Nothin really matters...

 

[davidisgodly]

And you knew she was a Jump!!!!

Don't know what's stopping me from calling the cops

 

[young dr0]

Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY

i don't hold grudges.

but she just wants you to apologize. trust.

that's the thing though.

like i dont want to bone (kinda do) but i've grown up so much since then i genuinely just want to apologize and be able to speak when i run across her inpublic. b/c it's hella weird b/c her cousin always speak and i have NO IDEA who she is. so i dont think she knows the whole backstory b/t me and girl # 1

and i ran into chick about 2 or 3 years ago w/ my dad and she was w/ her mom ... she was burning holes through me then once i'd look and smile she

x 10 ... my dad was

x

 

[young dr0]

Originally Posted by davidisgodly

Girls hold grudges.

You was 19 and you smashed a 16 y.o.

No advice you pedo.

.... I had just turned 19. and she was 17 .... so fallback like you lost your balance.

 

[dathbgboy]

Originally Posted by Kicktionair

I dont hold grudges I think

I simply eliminate said person from my world, no talking etc.... but I don't think to my self "Boy I really hate that person still"

is ignoring holding a grudge?

That's the route I take. I don't see it as a grudge, I just see it is as cuttin my circle. But then if I was to see the person gettinjumped or suttin I'd help out,

, just that type of dude

 

[davidisgodly]

a 17 year old junior -.- and you just turned 19. that meant you was just 18. and she was a older junior. Does that even make sense to you!?

come on. how lame do you sound at age 26. Thinking about your pedo days. you sad doggie.

 

[deletedelete]

Originally Posted by young dr0

Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY

i don't hold grudges.

but she just wants you to apologize. trust.

that's the thing though.

like i dont want to bone (kinda do) but i've grown up so much since then i genuinely just want to apologize and be able to speak when i run across her in public. b/c it's hella weird b/c her cousin always speak and i have NO IDEA who she is. so i dont think she knows the whole backstory b/t me and girl # 1

and i ran into chick about 2 or 3 years ago w/ my dad and she was w/ her mom ... she was burning holes through me then once i'd look and smile she

x 10 ... my dad was

x

so just tell her that. people change, blah blah blah, etc. easy as pieeeeee.

 

[Master Zik]

I have a list.

 

[je ne sais quoi]

I never had anything happen to me that would warrant me holding a grudge.

But if I had to say how long, depending on what the other party has done to me, I'd say until I or they die.

 

[reduce523]

I have held grudges for years I hate that about myself. But when I get mad I get mad.