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"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one getting burned." buddha
[ How long do you hold a grudge ? ]
"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one getting burned." buddha
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i don't hold grudges, they're pretty immature most of the time.
usually that person just loses my respect/trust. it doesn't mean they can't gain it back though
usually that person just loses my respect/trust. it doesn't mean they can't gain it back though
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"The greater the trust, the greater the betrayal"
Needless to say, some people I once called friends did me dirty.
Needless to say, some people I once called friends did me dirty.
yungchamp
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Believe me I know but sometimes there are things about you that you just cant change.
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i believe in getting even.
putting in work
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Depends on the situation, but if it's serious I'm taking that +%** to the grave.
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not necessarily true. i used to hold grudges but i dont know something clicked in my brain... like ultimately nothing matters... this tiffisn't going to matter in a few days or a few weeks or a few months, and most certainly not when i'm old and gray. so why waste time/energy on it nowwhen you can just be happy?
that's the way i look at life now. i know it's hard to change, but believe me, it's possible. goodluckkk
JVII
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never forgive, never forget
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A long time. It's an issue i'm trying to do away with.
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Originally Posted by young dr0
.... I had just turned 19. and she was 17 .... so fall back like you lost your balance.
And dr0 don't let them get you down about being a pedo. The younger the berry, the firmer its consistency.
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Should've gave her a iPod
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i dont hold grudges because im not a female
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holding grudges takes a hell of a lot of effort. you have to stay mad or think hard about what the person did that caused you to hold a grudge against them andin that same time you could be doing a lot more productive things. he who angers you controls you. and i'm too lazy to think unnecessarily hard aboutsomething i can't control that someone said or did. now if i see the person i had a "grudge" against, im not going to be phoney and act likenothing happened i'll just avoid them altogether cause it serves no purpose in talking to the person.
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That's some pedo logic. Ya'll need to go to jailOriginally Posted by WaveyJonesLocker
Originally Posted by young dr0
.... I had just turned 19. and she was 17 .... so fall back like you lost your balance.Maybe I'm easily amused but this is a good 'un.
And dr0 don't let them get you down about being a pedo. The younger the berry, the firmer its consistency.
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I will NEVER forgive Gregory or Samell for that dirty they did. They are on the list for life for a hit up later
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I'm 17, mister. And weren't you supposed to stop posting after #4000?Originally Posted by davidisgodly
That's some pedo logic. Ya'll need to go to jailOriginally Posted by WaveyJonesLocker
Originally Posted by young dr0
.... I had just turned 19. and she was 17 .... so fall back like you lost your balance.Maybe I'm easily amused but this is a good 'un.
And dr0 don't let them get you down about being a pedo. The younger the berry, the firmer its consistency.
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Word I don't forget %%##
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It didn't work.
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I hold them for a while thats just me, not alot of *$#% pisses me off thats why. So when something actually does i remember that *$#%.
solewoman
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very true. i get mad...i get sad..i get over it. but i never forget
