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NTers how long do y'all generally wait to hit someone up after getting their number? Do I wait three? Play it off and wait a week or so? What y'all think?
How Long Must One Wait to Hit Em Up?
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You are already over thinking it, as long as you don't do it like 10 minutes after you get it your fine.
It's not when you call it's what you say when you call.
IE.
If you got the number in a club, you may have to remind her who the **** you are, reestablish your whole game.
It's not when you call it's what you say when you call.
IE.
If you got the number in a club, you may have to remind her who the **** you are, reestablish your whole game.
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thadocta
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post the number here so we can all hit em up
- Sep 13, 2012
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a week? the ****
jhawk826
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A week? You wait that long and she will have lost interest. Nothing wrong with hitting her up later that night if she gave you the number during the day especially if you're feeling her.
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You call when you feel like it, stop playing such childish games man.
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lol i immediately thought of this when I read the title
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Basically, grown women are worried about their biological clock ticking and dont have time for the games.
The ones 40+ already know what's up when they throw the digits at you. No games just beasting
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this may sound wack and cliche... but you gotta feel the chick out...
it may be pertinent to hit her up more readily, like within a day... others, 3-5 days...
also, in before cats come in saying "you gotta give her you're # so you know its real"
that really does have some validity... but ...
1. girls gets tons of #s
2. you could miss out on someone b/c they just wont call...
i've witnessed it...
so in the end, its your preference. you could get the #s, or give them out...
me personally, i do a little bit of both... if she's laid back, real chill, i get her #... for the super bubbly and giggly types, i give them my #.... they just seem more pro active...
it may be pertinent to hit her up more readily, like within a day... others, 3-5 days...
also, in before cats come in saying "you gotta give her you're # so you know its real"
that really does have some validity... but ...
1. girls gets tons of #s
2. you could miss out on someone b/c they just wont call...
i've witnessed it...
so in the end, its your preference. you could get the #s, or give them out...
me personally, i do a little bit of both... if she's laid back, real chill, i get her #... for the super bubbly and giggly types, i give them my #.... they just seem more pro active...
- Jul 18, 2012
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No rules to this...call when YOU feel like it. If she's in to you, she'll appreciate your call the next day, the next week, or the next month. Again, call when YOU feel like it.
Or to put it on the girl, give her your number.
Or to put it on the girl, give her your number.
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Im not being childish, I just don't want to appear thirsty.
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Does giving your number work better?
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Hit em up as soon as you get home
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You trying to mask your thirst and you are thinking wayyyy too deep, just call her and say what's up, is not like you are calling her to propose....women like casual conversations fam....let her talk about herself..,.they love doing that...lol
- Apr 4, 2006
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just wait a day or two but be a man. Doesnt matter how long you wait if you dont know what you're gonna say or if you're gonna take her out
airthompson
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Tell em Steez. Just relax and don't make a small situation like these such a big deal. NT wouldn't be able to hold ur hand while your on a date so just play it natural. When u over analyze ur already ****ing up.
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Thats cool if you want to be her new "gay best freind".
She gave you the number so shes already indicated some level of attraction,
You gotta call with the mind set that this girl needs to prove to YOU that you even want to take her yambs g.
If you call and go into immediate interview mode (common mistake) then you will seem thirsty.
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I've texted a girl as soon as a got the number, I've called chick a week later after getting the number. Both have worked. Do what ever you feel is right. You asking that question means you don't often get girls numbers. 
airthompson
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lol i immediately thought of this when I read the title
:Rollin I really thought this was gonna be a 2Pac thread.
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anytime OP just don't pull one of these
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what? where are the pics?
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i'd call her the next night
what up wit u this wknd
what up wit u this wknd
T Lo Sweater
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wrong.
theres a ton of girls out there that give out numbers, when theres NO attraction whatsoever. they would feel bad if they told you no, so theyd give you the digits. they could find you annoying and give out the number just so you can leave em alone. or they know you feeling them (obviously because you talking to her and asking for the number) and they give you the number just to get a confidence boost because sooner or later you gonna hit her up.
what she wants is a guy whos gonna fiend over her. constantly hit her up although shes being dry or not answering at all. she does this cause she loves the attention. she will feel good about herself, like shes wanted and theres people fiending for her i can assume that people here arent like that
like ricky said, you can give out some numbers and take some numbers. its good to experiment
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Always call or text?
