How much do you trust?

[truthgetsbusy]

I been in a relationship for like 2 months now and I'm just having a hard time.  I guess my biggest fear is getting played cuz I know how easy stuff can go down.  It's like I trust my girl but I still have to find out stuff just so I know 100%.  I don't wanna be the nosy, over protective boyfried cuz thats a turnoff and I don't wanna be that guy.....but I don't wanna play the dummy boyfriend who lets stuff slide and gets surprised in the end.  We been running into problems lately cuz she can be so naive sometimes and doesn't look at stuff from my perspective.  I don't have any red flags or reasons to not trust her but unless she starts realizing "the game" and how stuff works I might have to reconsider.  I don't got time to get put in any dumb, unneccessary situations or "on to the next one". Anybody else just in my boat?

 

[bittersweet]

You just have to. That's the hard part about a relationship.

But if you trust her enough to even be dating her for 2 months now, you trust her somewhat.

 

[mosthated770]

we need pics of her..

then we will decide if she is trustworthy or not...

 

[stackjaxx]

so lemme get this right.
you made a girl thread, with a wall of text, no pics and no cliffs?

 

[balloonoboy]

I trust wholly cause at the end of the day all you got is your word.

If I can't put my full trust in her, there's no need to even be with her. Once paranoia sets in, the relationship is just about over.

 

[needsomejays]

trust until she gives you a reason not to


with that being said, i trust no one 

..........seriously though

 

[luxurious24]

i trust my girl 100%, if you dont trust her fam then u shouldnt be wit her

 

[razzle dazzle]

Originally Posted by StackJaxx

so lemme get this right.
you made a girl thread, with a wall of text, no pics and no cliffs?

Horrible gif exectuion... and it's not even a wall of text

 

[orenthaljames]

*really hopes this "pics" fad dies out soon*

OP I'm going to guess that you are young. Somewhere in the 18-23 range?

Look man A LOT of females are naive. Plain and simple. Let her know straight up that guys will say and do just about anything to get in her pants. And let her know that you have to constantly have your eyes open and notice things.

And be done with it. Either trust her, or leave her. Don't continue to hassle her about her naivety, cause then that will push her away.

-The Juice

 

[general johnson]

Aren't you the cat that used to have a thread trying to give out advice on how to handle women?

Pardon me...

You sound tender as %%!% right now. You really want to check her emails bad huh?

If your spider sense is telling you she's the number 1 contender for that all you can eat weenie contest, then she prolly going in.

Word to...

 

[truthgetsbusy]

General Johnson wrote:

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Aren't you the cat that used to have a thread trying to give out advice on how to handle women?

Pardon me...

You sound tender as %%!% right now. You really want to check her emails bad huh?

If your spider sense is telling you she's the number 1 contender for that all you can eat weenie contest, then she prolly going in.

Word to...

The thing is I trust her...I think I'm just a nosy, wanna know everything type dude.... I have no problem reading a spoiler for a movie then go see it.
  

 

[lol]

Originally Posted by needsomejays

trust until she gives you a reason not to


with that being said, i trust no one 

..........seriously though

word man.

 

[silverswoosh]

Without trust, you don't have much...if anything at all.

 

[gumsoul410]

Originally Posted by lol

Originally Posted by needsomejays

trust until she gives you a reason not to


with that being said, i trust no one 

..........seriously though

word man.

Code I live by.

 

[eight2one]

i always have a reasonable doubt

 

[horchata kid]

while you typed that...she got it from another guy...

nah but really, you should trust her, if not shes gonna get tired of the suspicious routine.
also, what sparked the feelings of suspicion? cheated on before? been the cheater?

 

[fl0eticnostalgia]

I don't trust anyone 100%. My bf and I have that understanding. We try to be realistic. I don't think you really ever know someone. You can be married to someone for years and find out you were cheated on. With that said, I trust my bf 99%. I don't think he'll ever do me wrong, but there is always a chance it can happen. You can't over/underestimate anyone.

 

[steff55]

Pics?

 

[b smooth 202]

"I don't trust myself...so I trust her barely"

 

[veryanalytical85]

It's hard to trust, but necessary in order for you to be in a successful relationship.

I don't know if I can easily trust a female. But we'll see whenever I meet her down the road...

 

[rko2004]

Originally Posted by OrenthalJames

*really hopes this "pics" fad dies out soon*

OP I'm going to guess that you are young. Somewhere in the 18-23 range?

Look man A LOT of females are naive. Plain and simple. Let her know straight up that guys will say and do just about anything to get in her pants. And let her know that you have to constantly have your eyes open and notice things.

And be done with it. Either trust her, or leave her. Don't continue to hassle her about her naivety, cause then that will push her away.

-The Juice

This is some grade A advice.

 

[Mark Antony]

Originally Posted by General Johnson

Aren't you the cat that used to have a thread trying to give out advice on how to handle women?

Pardon me...

You sound tender as %%!% right now. You really want to check her emails bad huh?

If your spider sense is telling you she's the number 1 contender for that all you can eat weenie contest, then she prolly going in.

Word to...

word, didn't son used to make threads and youtube vids about women like he was cassanova in the flesh?