Hypothetical Question, Y'all...

[soltheman]

I was talking to a girl, and this is something that came up.

Imagine you found one of the smartest, beautiful girls on your campus and began to date her. The relationship on a mental level is everything you want andmore. She has her friends, you have your friends, and doesn't sweat you, etc. You're infatuated.

The only problem is, she's slow to get physical. How long do you wait?

 

[play2much2004]

If it's really everything I want and more I'll wait until she's ready

 

[nawth21]

Like... how bad is she? Angela from the office? Or does she just not want to put out right away?

 

[clevelandsprince23]

Originally Posted by play2much2004

If it's really everything I want and more I'll wait until she's ready

Agreed, but for how long? 3-6 months? year? years?

 

[soltheman]

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Like... how bad is she? Angela from the office? Or does she just not want to put out right away?

Don't know, don't watch the Office, and she didn't specify.

But that's not the point. How long would you wait? (But you're a female, so you waiting for sex would be hilarious.)

 

[retro23j]

Honestly I see no problem. CUFFED

 

[prokid404]

I've been in situations like this.. Where I connect with a girl on a mental level but she's slow to make moves physically. Most of the time I'd goget it somewhere else.

But if you need a time frame, I'd say a couple months.. I couldn't do years.

 

[dublbagn]

it completely depends on how much you are in to her....are you feeling like she is the best thing since sliced bread??? if so you wait as long as ittakes....but that only works if you plan on staying with her....if you are a smash and dash kind of dude that does not want to settle down EVER, then keep heron the leash and wait to pounce..

 

[nawth21]

Originally Posted by soltheman

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Like... how bad is she? Angela from the office? Or does she just not want to put out right away?

Don't know, don't watch the Office, and she didn't specify.

But that's not the point. How long would you wait? (But you're a female, so you waiting for sex would be hilarious.)

Angela's character is a straight prude

but uhh.. sex is important in a relationship, for me anyways. If we haven't progressed to that point inlike a month after becoming "official" I'd start wondering #!* is up. Especially at my age

at 18, 19 some girls still think holding outmakes them look better. And a month is really stretching it..

 

[diego]

Sounds like she should be insta-wifed.


Dont you worry about the potential that your girl is lurking?
We love you Sam.

 

[Master Zik]

It isn't hard to get a chick wet.

 

[selrahc123]

I would like the fact that she's slow to get physical. If she's a virgin that is

 

[nawth21]

Aw shucks

 

[mrmoneyindabank]

Originally Posted by ClevelandsPrince23

Originally Posted by play2much2004

If it's really everything I want and more I'll wait until she's ready

Agreed, but for how long? 3-6 months? year? years?

As long as you can stand the fapping

 

[play2much2004]

Originally Posted by ClevelandsPrince23

Originally Posted by play2much2004

If it's really everything I want and more I'll wait until she's ready

Agreed, but for how long? 3-6 months? year? years?

I can't say for certain but if she isn't a virgin I'll probably max out at a year...if she is I would actually wait until she was ready (but beforemarriage)...gotta try it before you buy it

 

[blondsoccerplyr]

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Like... how bad is she? Angela from the office? Or does she just not want to put out right away?

Clearly you haven't watched The Office very closely. Angela and Dwight hooked up at the officemultiple times.

 

[needsomejays]

Originally Posted by play2much2004

Originally Posted by ClevelandsPrince23

Originally Posted by play2much2004

If it's really everything I want and more I'll wait until she's ready

Agreed, but for how long? 3-6 months? year? years?

I can't say for certain but if she isn't a virgin I'll probably max out at a year...if she is I would actually wait until she was ready (but before marriage)...gotta try it before you buy it

sounds about right to me

 

[nawth21]

Originally Posted by blondsoccerplyr

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Like... how bad is she? Angela from the office? Or does she just not want to put out right away?

Clearly you haven't watched The Office very closely. Angela and Dwight hooked up at the office multiple times.

Right, but with Andy she wouldn't even let him hold her hand after a fight or some BS

 

[frostythepoptart]

can't have a relationship with no physical honestly. maybe 3-4 months and thats a big maybe.

respecting someone and being patient is just as important as respecting someones need for sex etc.

 

[octobersfinest]

Does she do you any favors?? Dome? Testicular handslaughter? A year is a loooong time to wait. Especially in college wit all these Beckys running around withno time limits on their resumes.

 

[awwsome]

Originally Posted by frostythepoptart

can't have a relationship with no physical honestly. maybe 1-2 months and thats a enormous maybe.

respecting someone and being patient is just as important as respecting someones need for sex etc.

Yes

 

[soltheman]

nvm

 

[nawth21]

Originally Posted by soltheman

Originally Posted by OctobersFinest

Does she do you any favors?? Dome? Testicular handslaughter? A year is a loooong time to wait. Especially in college wit all these Beckys running around with no time limits on their resumes.

nvm

See now this kind of crap irks me. You're already doing all these sexual acts you might as well go all the way, holding out on one act doesn't make yousome saint. Assuming she isn't a virgin. And if she is a virgin well.. whatever. Lose it already. Or don't do any of it - you're not doing yourpartner any favors. and I'm dying at testicular handslaughter

 

[gregzzy23]

It comes down to whether she's a V or not. If she is, I'd wait until she was comfortable with a time limit of 6 months to a year until I made it anissue depending on how its progressing. If she isn't, I'd give it 6 months till I made it an issue cause at that point, what's the reasoning forit?

 

[kyrac2]

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Originally Posted by blondsoccerplyr

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Like... how bad is she? Angela from the office? Or does she just not want to put out right away?

Clearly you haven't watched The Office very closely. Angela and Dwight hooked up at the office multiple times.

Right, but with Andy she wouldn't even let him hold her hand after a fight or some BS

which proves no chick really waits, she's giving it to somebody just not you

. if she was 'perfect' on the mental level and we hit it off i'dwait a month

Originally Posted by Diego

Dont you worry about the potential that your girl is lurking?

yeah she's out there be careful