I tried and failed

I moved the BM in with the twins back in April I believe. Proposed and everything...had some more left to pay on the engagement ring but now that will be going back to my pocket. She is set to leave this week...couldn't be any sooner for me though. Constant arguing and stubborness and selfishness. All my friends and family have constantly told me how I have changed for the better.

My only regret is the lives my girls will have to carry on without their real dad present all the time. I love nothing more than seeing their faces first thing in the morning and when they light up when I get home.

This was my first real relationship that went almost four years and I feel like I should never do it again. When I get past that I refuse to deal with any woman that doesn't make as much or more than me. I tried to ignore backgrounds but that = L

Yet another black girl lost! No intent on blowing my own horn but I hold it down. car, house, bills paid, and treat her with respect.
 
I moved the BM in with the twins back in April I believe. Proposed and everything...had some more left to pay on the engagement ring but now that will be going back to my pocket. She is set to leave this week...couldn't be any sooner for me though. Constant arguing and stubborness and selfishness. All my friends and family have constantly told me how I have changed for the better.

My only regret is the lives my girls will have to carry on without their real dad present all the time. I love nothing more than seeing their faces first thing in the morning and when they light up when I get home.

This was my first real relationship that went almost four years and I feel like I should never do it again. When I get past that I refuse to deal with any woman that doesn't make as much or more than me. I tried to ignore backgrounds but that = L

Yet another black girl lost! No intent on blowing my own horn but I hold it down. car, house, bills paid, and treat her with respect.
 
yeh I just hate that this was drawn out this long and the ramifications for my daughters
 
yeh I just hate that this was drawn out this long and the ramifications for my daughters
 
Originally Posted by AntBanks81

yeh I just hate that this was drawn out this long and the ramifications for my daughters


yeah i feel you on that i love waking up seeing my lil girl & her lighting up when i pick her up from daycare..... but you have to do whats best for you in the long run.... if she not doing right by your lil girls you can more than likely get custody.......
 
Originally Posted by AntBanks81

yeh I just hate that this was drawn out this long and the ramifications for my daughters


yeah i feel you on that i love waking up seeing my lil girl & her lighting up when i pick her up from daycare..... but you have to do whats best for you in the long run.... if she not doing right by your lil girls you can more than likely get custody.......
 
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"To try and to fail,the two things I hate..."
Nah,but as long as you aren't met with any kind of %%*%#!%$ when it comes to your children you'll be good.
(and you get to save a little somethin' somethin')
 
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"To try and to fail,the two things I hate..."
Nah,but as long as you aren't met with any kind of %%*%#!%$ when it comes to your children you'll be good.
(and you get to save a little somethin' somethin')
 
Just never forget what's important, your daughters.

You can let them ever think that you are not there for them.

Hopefully you guys have worked out some sort of legit custody arrangements, and stuff.
 
Just never forget what's important, your daughters.

You can let them ever think that you are not there for them.

Hopefully you guys have worked out some sort of legit custody arrangements, and stuff.
 
If you suspect any BS get a lawyer quick. Also keep track of what you spend on them so she won't try to come at you like you a deadbeat. Seriously Good luck.

I love em but they can be sheisty if they scorned.
 
If you suspect any BS get a lawyer quick. Also keep track of what you spend on them so she won't try to come at you like you a deadbeat. Seriously Good luck.

I love em but they can be sheisty if they scorned.
 
A poem for avoiding situations like this:

First comes love,
Then comes marriage,
Then after a few years you maybe start to think about busting in the womb.
Maybe.
 
A poem for avoiding situations like this:

First comes love,
Then comes marriage,
Then after a few years you maybe start to think about busting in the womb.
Maybe.
 
I feel for you my man.  People who don't have kids don't understand the pain not having them around can bring.  Keep your head up and try to work out an agreement that will keep you visible in their lives.  And like someone before me posted, document EVERYTHING!!!  These situations can get downright nasty.  Lawyer up.....seriously.  
 
I feel for you my man.  People who don't have kids don't understand the pain not having them around can bring.  Keep your head up and try to work out an agreement that will keep you visible in their lives.  And like someone before me posted, document EVERYTHING!!!  These situations can get downright nasty.  Lawyer up.....seriously.  
 
Actions have reactions..and consequences. Don't try to make it sound like you were ready to start a family and carefully chose the mother of your children. The %$^# you expect, of course it ain't all good.
 
Actions have reactions..and consequences. Don't try to make it sound like you were ready to start a family and carefully chose the mother of your children. The %$^# you expect, of course it ain't all good.
 
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