I'm about to snap

So are you satisfied with the situation you are in at this very moment?​
He stopped wearing you beanies and stopped making you call him papi?​
No I'm not satisfied I'm still living in a small place with 3 other people. I won't be until we move or until I can get out of here and get my own room somewhere

and you seem to misunderstand what I said. I'm makin dinner in the kitchen and I'm on the phone with someone. He was in there with my mom and as I was leaving he says to my mom that's my son there
Would have dropped the phone right then and there and smacked him in his mouth

You do understand dude is only 3 years older than you

Y'all could have had PE or Culinary Arts together back in the day yo.

And this ***** calling you "son".

All seriousness he did that to disrespect you.
 
She does believe me I used my camera to expose him before. Even if I didn't use my phone and just had my word she would believe me anyways. But I don't understand marrying him to "help out" at all

See the problem is you talking to your mom solely about the selling drugs part, when in reality the entire situation is all the way bad, from every angle and needs an extensive solution. How she gonna marry this nothing *** dude her sons age, who don't work except for the little nickle bags he sells, sits in HER already overcrowded house all day, and got her son stressed out to the max about his living condition. He's 3 YEARS OLDER THAN YOU! Not only is he disrespecting you, your mom is too. That's not normal behavior. You need to get more in depth with her for sure. You are 22 years old, you are the other MAN in her life and from the sounds of it have 10x more sense than this clown of husband she got. Shes gotta hear it from somebody and that somebody is you.
 
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y'all being mad extra with this intervention and setting his Mom and or the dope dealer straight. this dude need to just BOUNCE immediately. his mom is ratchet, obviously, let her deal with her man on her own. OP needs to BE A MAN


I agree with this, but it's hard when he knows that the dude is putting his mom in a bad position, or positions, most likely. :rollin
 
See the problem is you talking to your mom solely about the selling drugs part, when in reality the entire situation is all the way bad, from every angle and needs an extensive solution. How she gonna marry this nothing *** dude her sons age, who don't work except for the little nickle bags he sells, sits in HER already overcrowded house all day, and got her son stressed out to the max about his living condition. He's 3 YEARS OLDER THAN YOU! Not only is he disrespecting you, your mom is too. That's not normal behavior. You need to get more in depth with her for sure. You are 22 years old, you are the other MAN in her life and from the sounds of it have 10x more sense than this clown of husband she got. Shes gotta hear it from somebody and that somebody is you.

Read earlier posts. Spoke to them already
 
GET ANOTHER JOB broke boy. you sleep on the couch in your ratchet mom's 1bedroom apt. I'm not gonna be nice to you, you're a loser, straight up. DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET UP OUTTA THERE, PERIOD. go make something of yourself, because your entire family situation is toxic and you on NT crying about it. be a man

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Sometimes you can only take care of yourself. You don't have to cast your mom out of your life, but if she is choosing such a ******ed life to live then let her be and go down that destructive path herself. You can't save everyone. If I were you, I would take out a student loan and rent a room to live in or something. It's hard to juggle work and school full-time, but you would be surprised at how many people do this every day. People come from overseas to go to school here in the USA juggling student visas, maintaining a high gpa and flipping your burgers.
 
GET ANOTHER JOB broke boy. you sleep on the couch in your ratchet mom's 1bedroom apt. I'm not gonna be nice to you, you're a loser, straight up. DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET UP OUTTA THERE, PERIOD. go make something of yourself, because your entire family situation is toxic and you on NT crying about it. be a man



Dude is going to school and doing well. He is working towards his future, he is just a softy. You goin' too hard on him. He does need to man up or get out of the situation though.
 
GET ANOTHER JOB broke boy. you sleep on the couch in your ratchet mom's 1bedroom apt. I'm not gonna be nice to you, you're a loser, straight up. DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET UP OUTTA THERE, PERIOD. go make something of yourself, because your entire family situation is toxic and you on NT crying about it. be a man
You're stupid! OP the struggle is real, stay motivated and basically ignore what you can and deal with the rest get out of school and say **** it! Your mom is a woman, if the pipe good she gone put up with it until she get tired, the same way your girl would. Just stay focused on school and don't let dude disrespect you, your mom has to work her own program, just speaking the truth. Every woman is somebody's sister, mom, grandmom, aunt, daughter, neither one is greater!
 
GET ANOTHER JOB broke boy. you sleep on the couch in your ratchet mom's 1bedroom apt. I'm not gonna be nice to you, you're a loser, straight up. DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET UP OUTTA THERE, PERIOD. go make something of yourself, because your entire family situation is toxic and you on NT crying about it. be a man

Yes you want a full time student to get another job and juggle that with all the other **** I'm dealing with? Not even gonna bother getting into it wit you. You a fool straight up
 
yall are all a bunch of *****.

How many of you guys are 100% independent and finished with college at 21. :rolleyes

better question what are you doing with your life NOW

The kid needs a place to stay as he prepares himself for the rest of his life. He's in a lose lose situation at the moment that he's either going to cause problems and fight until it gets resolved or he has to stick it out until he can fend for himself hopefully very soon.
 
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yall are all a bunch of *****.

How many of you guys are 100% independent and finished with college at 21.
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better question what are you doing with your life NOW

The kid needs a place to stay as he prepares himself for the rest of his life. He's in a lose lose situation at the moment that he's either going to cause problems and fight until it gets resolved or he has to stick it out until he can fend for himself hopefully very soon.
he call him son doe?
???
 
as soon as your mom got with that guy you should've worked your *** off to get enough money to move out..

thats too much bullish to deal with..

his shenanigans can cause you your life and future, what if there was drugs in the house and he put the blame on you? you think your mom would defend you instead of him?

if you are over 20 living at home, i dont feel bad for you if your mommy is getting her cheeks clapped in the next room while you are playing Call of duty..

this is what alot of dudes dont get that when you hit 18 you are just a burden, and if you are making soooo much money then get ya own place, not talking to you in particular OP,

but just anyone complaining about how their parents behave in THEIR home in general.
 
as soon as your mom got with that guy you should've worked your *** off to get enough money to move out..

thats too much bullish to deal with..

his shenanigans can cause you your life and future, what if there was drugs in the house and he put the blame on you? you think your mom would defend you instead of him?

if you are over 20 living at home, i dont feel bad for you if your mommy is getting her cheeks clapped in the next room while you are playing Call of duty..
this is what alot of dudes dont get that when you hit 18 you are just a burden, and if you are making soooo much money then get ya own place, not talking to you in particular OP,
but just anyone complaining about how their parents behave in THEIR home in general.

before she got with the guy i was working full time last summer. i had made a lot of bank

but i had to buy college books in august and just a few weeks ago and you know how expensive college books are

its like im making money to spend money on my bills and responsibilities each month. i got a raise at work about a few days ago. my boss texted me and told me i did so thats a bit more money in my pocket each 2 weeks
 
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