I'm about to snap

Damn op. Seen my mom go thru mad suspect dudes. always broke my heart too. i def feel you on this one. for your own piece of mind you should start looking into your own place. ur 22 and almost finished college. its time. stay cool...keep ur future in mind and dont forget about moms once your out. i have a feeling she will need you down the road because of her ****** choice in partners.
 
i know that feel. no matter how old certain women get they cant make smart logical decisions no matter what you tell them
 
tbh your mom secretly wants you to move out, so I'd look for some other college roommates to split rent and move out asap 
 
You're almost at the home stretch.

You gotta suck it up and be miserable until you're in a position where you can help yourself.

Possibly see if friends want to be roomates elsewhere, or if you can stay with another family member. something.
 
Your mother is the TOOl homie, sad but TRUE, and I'd say the same thing about my moms if I was in your position.

4 people in a 1 bedroom? Damb. If your mom found a REAL man you wouldnt be put in this position, just step your weight up and work to get the hell outta there, look for a few roomates and get your own spot.
 
That story is hilarious
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Does he contribute to rent/bills????

You've should of check him,laid down some house rules.

I cant stand smoke in my house,would've told him take that ishhh outside.

Also cant stand having strangers in my home ESPECIALLY when I'm not there.

Throwing mail at you is a sign of disrespect imo.

You think your moms would be on your side if you guys got into an altercation????

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Fork though.
 
who the hell sells weed anyway nowadays...

plant some heroin in his pocket and call the cops..
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Apparently he has weed delivered to the house so he can sell it as a way to make money since he don't have his papers

One day she texts me saying she gonna sleep over so and sos house

2 weeks later. Oh Troy I married so and so today
 
reread my original post. GC=green card. That's why they're married. He got her hooked on the D, so he could get his GC without having to pay that usual fee. Who knows maybe he did actually pay that fee and she's didn't let you in on their situation.

Either way you gonna have to ride it out until you can move out. Also if you're gonna come to fisticuffs only do it to mark your line/territory with him. Meaning only do it over any disrespectful stuff he does to YOU and if it does happen, don't go to your moms looking for support. Hell do yourself a favor and go look at Baby Boy because jokes or no jokes you're living that Jodi life
 
fac3 tak30v312 said:
reread my original post. GC=green card. That's why they're married. He got her hooked on the D, so he could get his GC without having to pay that usual fee. Who knows maybe he did actually pay that fee and she's didn't let you in on their situation.

Either way you gonna have to ride it out until you can move out. Also if you're gonna come to fisticuffs only do it to mark your line/territory with him. Meaning only do it over any disrespectful stuff he does to YOU and if it does happen, don't go to your moms looking for support. Hell do yourself a favor and go look at Baby Boy because jokes or no jokes you're living that Jodi life
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I know I seen the movie. I'm not a little kid so I can already figure out why she married the dude. I mean c'mon it's so obvious and I'm not stupid

finding a spot to live is gonna be difficult cause I'm in school now. If that wasn't the case I would have left a long time ago

I didn't mention how dude uses some of my hats (beanies but still) and calls me his son :rollin

If I had a beanie out in the living room he would use it. Slippers, brushes, and I'm a hygienic guy I don't want anyone using my stuff even my own family. That **** pisses me off too
 
I feel for you OP. many will make jokes bc they live in gated communities thanks to their parents and have no clue what its like to be in a sticky living situation.

My advice:

Spend as little time as possible at the crib. When ur not sleeping, spend your time at the library finishing out your college career strong. Its important; as u already know.

Good luck OP
 
i hate to say this, and i say it with the most respect possible, but your mom is a bird. That fact that she would put your family in this situation to begin with is proof enough. from the sound of things it seems like she has been the head of your household for sometime and im sure that this isn't the first sign that she's given you that she makes poor decisions. You say that she's 40 now and your 21 almost 22, meaning that she must have had you when she was 18 or 19. At that age she was still a kid herself. like most, but not all parents that age im sure she never had that time to mature and still acts out from time to time. Except that now its a whole lot more at stake. moral of the story: move out kid, dont let others drag your life down, even if its your mother. best way to help her is to help yourself first.
 
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