Originally Posted by
TOWEH
I've been blessed to experience a lot and at the end of the day its all about your personal choice and your lifestyles ....
Have ya'll talked about this?
If ya'll get down like that ... that being the menage et trois's and stuff like that with other chicks ...
ONLY
Then that's what you do ... You may have give her the 50/50 when she talked about messing with another chick so she crept ...
I dated a girl that would hit the strip club watch all kinds of porn with me and tell me that she would "let" a girl come home with us (she and one of my ex's even talked about it in a drunken stupor) if I wanted to and at the end of the day this kind of openness made it possible for us to have a great sexual relationship ....
We are not together anymore but I have to say that you have to experience it to see if this is what you want in your life for the long haul or simply to make a person reveal their true intent in the relationship
And if you are giving her what she wants/ needs sexually and she is honest with her desires and not some cold freak it may be a "win-win" for you both ...
At the end of the day I chose to move on because I don't think I want to spend the rest of my life with a woman that wants to indulge in that lifestyle after we are married ...
Its all a choice my man ... choose wisely
Don't jump out there if you can't handle it ... square bizness
And if she just crept without you knowing ...
SHE CHEATED ... so dump the %+%!