Is it me, or is the "struggling stripper" a tired, lame excuse?

[youmadyoubad]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by YouMadYouBad

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

I do think women in general need to elevate their sense of self-worth and not be sluts and/or attention **%**$ the majority of their lives. I know we believe, "Well somebody has to do it," but we only think that way because it is so much out there in abundance.

 

wow DC

Wow nothing. I mean seriously though. In 2010, rarely do you find a woman that is 100% on her grind in a positive non-+$@ manner. We see it all on FB, all in the streets, I am like damn, why would I want to even raise a daughter in this type of world where it is almost EXPECTED that she is some sort of a !@!!. Low level (urban model, internet picture %@$%*), mid-card (stripper), or main event. (porn).

It is just said, I know you might think I am overreacting but females just need some damn guidance man. Like so many of them seem to walk around with nothing in their heads.

Not all but so many of them. Nothing to get excited about. For those of you dudes that have great women in your corner, hold on to them man.  They are rare. So many followers out there.

#1 I think you're basing your opinion on a very very small spectrum. . Obviously your not around educated woman, because to make the statement you made is just straight up disrespectful to woman and ignorant. 
#2 Your ego is so big it's sad. . 

#3 If your going to blame anyone on how the generation of kids act today blame it on parenting, not because "ALL" woman are sluts now. . 

You're so misogynist I really don't even know where to start. . 

 

[tony goalie]

Originally Posted by Xavier

so let me get this right u cuffin a broad thats getting jizzed on camera>?

and u at home beating yo meatz to this and u cant go out and smash broads on camera??


MAN WHAT PART OF THE GAME IS THAT????
either u have low self esteem and cant get a dime thats not doing all that or ur just a freaking simp lol no way i would have a serious relationship with somebody like that.


can we be f buddys of course but bf and gf naa im good.....

mother of my kids/marriage 

man your kids kids going to see that on camera son heelllllll NO

Shes putting food on the table brah so thats make it ok ...

 

[kix4kix]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by kix4kix

 but I have boys who drop hundreds in a couple hours at strip clubs, It's an outlet to some, a savagery one, but one none the less. 

Logically, they are better off paying to get their penis licked. Why the hell would you pay for a tease session? So stupid man. Funny how people feel a certain way about purchasing prostitutes but they don't feel the same way about paying MORE to get less (sexually). Backwards thinking IMO. Makes no sense at all.

Lol true, my boys that LOVE the strip club, are always the same ones chirping about not tricking and spending no money on females yada yada yada...... I be like

.... but surely you can see the appeal?
I can't speak for nobody else, but I know everytime my boys spending money they pulling a number atleast. Also, stripping isn't breaking a law, prostitution is, not all sinners like to break the law 

 

[kix4kix]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by kix4kix

 but I have boys who drop hundreds in a couple hours at strip clubs, It's an outlet to some, a savagery one, but one none the less. 

Logically, they are better off paying to get their penis licked. Why the hell would you pay for a tease session? So stupid man. Funny how people feel a certain way about purchasing prostitutes but they don't feel the same way about paying MORE to get less (sexually). Backwards thinking IMO. Makes no sense at all.

Lol true, my boys that LOVE the strip club, are always the same ones chirping about not tricking and spending no money on females yada yada yada...... I be like

.... but surely you can see the appeal?
I can't speak for nobody else, but I know everytime my boys spending money they pulling a number atleast. Also, stripping isn't breaking a law, prostitution is, not all sinners like to break the law 

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by YouMadYouBad

#1 I think you're basing your opinion on a very very small spectrum. . Obviously your not around educated woman, because to make the statement you made is just straight up disrespectful to woman and ignorant. 
#3 If your going to blame anyone on how the generation of kids act today blame it on parenting, not because "ALL" woman are sluts now. . 

1. I actually work at a university. I am speaking on THAT crowd and the crowd of people I grew up around and associated with. My educated (institutionalized) people. Being institutionalized doesn't mean you automatically have common sense or self-respect.

2. I always speak on how parenting is the reason for all of this. People need to be tested before they can have kids. We need some sort of cert. for any other major purchase, why not for kids. Everyone being able to have kids (as many as they want at that) is a big downfall in our community. The WRONG people have kids. Can't watch them, can't feed them, don't care if they are educated. Their kids see this and it turns into one big cycle.

3. I don't disrespect women. I don't respect women that don't respect themselves. Simple as that. I don't see why I should respect them any more than my fellow man. Why? Because they are women? You are taking this off-course. I am talking about strippers. I don't respect them. At all. If me saying that is disrespectful to women, ok? I don't respect them.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by YouMadYouBad

#1 I think you're basing your opinion on a very very small spectrum. . Obviously your not around educated woman, because to make the statement you made is just straight up disrespectful to woman and ignorant. 
#3 If your going to blame anyone on how the generation of kids act today blame it on parenting, not because "ALL" woman are sluts now. . 

1. I actually work at a university. I am speaking on THAT crowd and the crowd of people I grew up around and associated with. My educated (institutionalized) people. Being institutionalized doesn't mean you automatically have common sense or self-respect.

2. I always speak on how parenting is the reason for all of this. People need to be tested before they can have kids. We need some sort of cert. for any other major purchase, why not for kids. Everyone being able to have kids (as many as they want at that) is a big downfall in our community. The WRONG people have kids. Can't watch them, can't feed them, don't care if they are educated. Their kids see this and it turns into one big cycle.

3. I don't disrespect women. I don't respect women that don't respect themselves. Simple as that. I don't see why I should respect them any more than my fellow man. Why? Because they are women? You are taking this off-course. I am talking about strippers. I don't respect them. At all. If me saying that is disrespectful to women, ok? I don't respect them.

 

[xavier]

Originally Posted by Tony Goalie

Originally Posted by Xavier

so let me get this right u cuffin a broad thats getting jizzed on camera>?

and u at home beating yo meatz to this and u cant go out and smash broads on camera??


MAN WHAT PART OF THE GAME IS THAT????
either u have low self esteem and cant get a dime thats not doing all that or ur just a freaking simp lol no way i would have a serious relationship with somebody like that.


can we be f buddys of course but bf and gf naa im good.....

mother of my kids/marriage 

man your kids kids going to see that on camera son heelllllll NO

Shes putting food on the table brah so thats make it ok ...

yea she serving that booty meat to uncle bob a retired nerosurgeon who is 78 yrs old

 

[xavier]

Originally Posted by Tony Goalie

Originally Posted by Xavier

so let me get this right u cuffin a broad thats getting jizzed on camera>?

and u at home beating yo meatz to this and u cant go out and smash broads on camera??


MAN WHAT PART OF THE GAME IS THAT????
either u have low self esteem and cant get a dime thats not doing all that or ur just a freaking simp lol no way i would have a serious relationship with somebody like that.


can we be f buddys of course but bf and gf naa im good.....

mother of my kids/marriage 

man your kids kids going to see that on camera son heelllllll NO

Shes putting food on the table brah so thats make it ok ...

yea she serving that booty meat to uncle bob a retired nerosurgeon who is 78 yrs old

 

[youmadyoubad]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by YouMadYouBad

#1 I think you're basing your opinion on a very very small spectrum. . Obviously your not around educated woman, because to make the statement you made is just straight up disrespectful to woman and ignorant. 
#3 If your going to blame anyone on how the generation of kids act today blame it on parenting, not because "ALL" woman are sluts now. . 

1. I actually work at a university. I am speaking on THAT crowd and the crowd of people I grew up around and associated with. My educated (institutionalized) people. Being institutionalized doesn't mean you automatically have common sense or self-respect.

2. I always speak on how parenting is the reason for all of this. People need to be tested before they can have kids. We need some sort of cert. for any other major purchase, why not for kids. Everyone being able to have kids (as many as they want at that) is a big downfall in our community. The WRONG people have kids. Can't watch them, can't feed them, don't care if they are educated. Their kids see this and it turns into one big cycle.

3. I don't disrespect women. I don't respect women that don't respect themselves. Simple as that. I don't see why I should respect them any more than my fellow man. Why? Because they are women? You are taking this off-course. I am talking about strippers. I don't respect them. At all. If me saying that is disrespectful to women, ok? I don't respect them.

Dude you said this



"I do think women in general need to elevate their sense of self-worth and not be sluts and/or attention **%**$ the majority of their lives".

For someone who works at a University, then to say this. . 

Please guy. . Just admit that your sexiest and i'll leave this thread 

 

[youmadyoubad]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by YouMadYouBad

#1 I think you're basing your opinion on a very very small spectrum. . Obviously your not around educated woman, because to make the statement you made is just straight up disrespectful to woman and ignorant. 
#3 If your going to blame anyone on how the generation of kids act today blame it on parenting, not because "ALL" woman are sluts now. . 

1. I actually work at a university. I am speaking on THAT crowd and the crowd of people I grew up around and associated with. My educated (institutionalized) people. Being institutionalized doesn't mean you automatically have common sense or self-respect.

2. I always speak on how parenting is the reason for all of this. People need to be tested before they can have kids. We need some sort of cert. for any other major purchase, why not for kids. Everyone being able to have kids (as many as they want at that) is a big downfall in our community. The WRONG people have kids. Can't watch them, can't feed them, don't care if they are educated. Their kids see this and it turns into one big cycle.

3. I don't disrespect women. I don't respect women that don't respect themselves. Simple as that. I don't see why I should respect them any more than my fellow man. Why? Because they are women? You are taking this off-course. I am talking about strippers. I don't respect them. At all. If me saying that is disrespectful to women, ok? I don't respect them.

Dude you said this



"I do think women in general need to elevate their sense of self-worth and not be sluts and/or attention **%**$ the majority of their lives".

For someone who works at a University, then to say this. . 

Please guy. . Just admit that your sexiest and i'll leave this thread 

 

[thorrocksjs]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by ThorrocksJs

Yeah why not her rep aint scummy if she carries herself in a respectable manner and has morals.I mean its not that bad she aint on the corner blowing every tom and harry.Plus as males we respect and revere killers,drug dealers,theives and criminals.But some of us cant respect a  young lady who strips thats ridiculous.

Dude, she is a STRIPPER. She automatically has a negative reputation. Classy stripper. Slutty stripper. Same damn thing. She is a #!!#. A #!!# that gets paid. For you to say, "I mean its not that bad she aint on the corner blowing every tom and harry" alone means you view it as a low-grade profess......hobby.  Come on dude, I really can't believe you are in here classifying different levels of slutdom. She is a #!!#. Point blank and it says alot of YOU if you are willing to have a woman like that represent you.

Sorry, I will not respect a woman that takes her clothes of for $. Can't do it. She probably doesn't respect herself and I will follow suit and not respect her either.

I don't respect and revere drug dealers or killers, don't lump me into that group please.

Like I said dude  it isnt as bad as you make it out to be.Just because she strips doesnt make her a @@+!* in any shape nor fashion.Do I see it as lower profession yes I also view the fast food industry as one.I dont judge people by what they do for a living.If you saw a chick in the regular day or on her off day.She was acting regular and yall vibed and got into a relationship and u found out she stripped.You would dump her because of that nah son.Thats ridiculous .I think we got a ridiculous double standard as dudes we respect dudes for being robbers,and criminals and saying he changed his life around and he a different person. But a stripper in your opinion is a @@+!* forever and at all times because she took her clothes off and danced.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by kix4kix

Lol true, my boys that LOVE the strip club, are always the same ones chirping about not tricking and spending no money on females yada yada yada...... I be like

.... but surely you can see the appeal?
I can't speak for nobody else, but I know everytime my boys spending money they pulling a number atleast. Also, stripping isn't breaking a law, prostitution is, not all sinners like to break the law 

I really don't see the appeal. I can understand the rush of having a naked woman in your face, but why pay for it? That is where the appeal isn't understood. I value my hard earned dollars and I don't see why I should spend my hard earned $ on a woman that is doing nothing but shaking fat.

Yea stripping isn't breaking the law but that doesn't mean I should support it. It is a low level form of prostitution. The same way I say females that are *#%% for free are dumb, strippers might as well be prostitutes. They are all the same in my book. Don't respect them.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by kix4kix

Lol true, my boys that LOVE the strip club, are always the same ones chirping about not tricking and spending no money on females yada yada yada...... I be like

.... but surely you can see the appeal?
I can't speak for nobody else, but I know everytime my boys spending money they pulling a number atleast. Also, stripping isn't breaking a law, prostitution is, not all sinners like to break the law 

I really don't see the appeal. I can understand the rush of having a naked woman in your face, but why pay for it? That is where the appeal isn't understood. I value my hard earned dollars and I don't see why I should spend my hard earned $ on a woman that is doing nothing but shaking fat.

Yea stripping isn't breaking the law but that doesn't mean I should support it. It is a low level form of prostitution. The same way I say females that are *#%% for free are dumb, strippers might as well be prostitutes. They are all the same in my book. Don't respect them.

 

[thorrocksjs]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by ThorrocksJs

Yeah why not her rep aint scummy if she carries herself in a respectable manner and has morals.I mean its not that bad she aint on the corner blowing every tom and harry.Plus as males we respect and revere killers,drug dealers,theives and criminals.But some of us cant respect a  young lady who strips thats ridiculous.

Dude, she is a STRIPPER. She automatically has a negative reputation. Classy stripper. Slutty stripper. Same damn thing. She is a #!!#. A #!!# that gets paid. For you to say, "I mean its not that bad she aint on the corner blowing every tom and harry" alone means you view it as a low-grade profess......hobby.  Come on dude, I really can't believe you are in here classifying different levels of slutdom. She is a #!!#. Point blank and it says alot of YOU if you are willing to have a woman like that represent you.

Sorry, I will not respect a woman that takes her clothes of for $. Can't do it. She probably doesn't respect herself and I will follow suit and not respect her either.

I don't respect and revere drug dealers or killers, don't lump me into that group please.

Like I said dude  it isnt as bad as you make it out to be.Just because she strips doesnt make her a @@+!* in any shape nor fashion.Do I see it as lower profession yes I also view the fast food industry as one.I dont judge people by what they do for a living.If you saw a chick in the regular day or on her off day.She was acting regular and yall vibed and got into a relationship and u found out she stripped.You would dump her because of that nah son.Thats ridiculous .I think we got a ridiculous double standard as dudes we respect dudes for being robbers,and criminals and saying he changed his life around and he a different person. But a stripper in your opinion is a @@+!* forever and at all times because she took her clothes off and danced.

 

[kix4kix]

 this guy.

 

[kix4kix]

 this guy.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by ThorrocksJs

Like I said dude  it isnt as bad as you make it out to be.Just because she strips doesnt make her a @@+!* in any shape nor fashion.Do I see it as lower profession yes I also view the fast food industry as one.I dont judge people by what they do for a living.If you saw a chick in the regular day or on her off day.She was acting regular and yall vibed and got into a relationship and u found out she stripped.You would dump her because of that nah son.Thats ridiculous .I think we got a ridiculous double standard as dudes we respect dudes for being robbers,and criminals and saying he changed his life around and he a different person. But a stripper in your opinion is a @@+!* forever and at all times because she took her clothes off and danced.

1. Her being a stripper does make her a *$+. Maybe you use a different scale than I do but she is a *$+ if she is a stripper. If I can't take her home and honestly tell my family her profession and be PROUD of it, why the hell would I even want her to be associated with my name? So yea, being a stripper makes her a *$+. Not sure why that is such a hard concept to grasp/understand.

2. Again, I do not respect these robbers, killers, and drug dealers you speak of. So I don't fall into that category. I don't respect them, I don't respect strippers. I don't respect anyone that directly or indirectly diminishes the well being of others.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by ThorrocksJs

Like I said dude  it isnt as bad as you make it out to be.Just because she strips doesnt make her a @@+!* in any shape nor fashion.Do I see it as lower profession yes I also view the fast food industry as one.I dont judge people by what they do for a living.If you saw a chick in the regular day or on her off day.She was acting regular and yall vibed and got into a relationship and u found out she stripped.You would dump her because of that nah son.Thats ridiculous .I think we got a ridiculous double standard as dudes we respect dudes for being robbers,and criminals and saying he changed his life around and he a different person. But a stripper in your opinion is a @@+!* forever and at all times because she took her clothes off and danced.

1. Her being a stripper does make her a *$+. Maybe you use a different scale than I do but she is a *$+ if she is a stripper. If I can't take her home and honestly tell my family her profession and be PROUD of it, why the hell would I even want her to be associated with my name? So yea, being a stripper makes her a *$+. Not sure why that is such a hard concept to grasp/understand.

2. Again, I do not respect these robbers, killers, and drug dealers you speak of. So I don't fall into that category. I don't respect them, I don't respect strippers. I don't respect anyone that directly or indirectly diminishes the well being of others.

 

[kix4kix]

 this guy.

 

[kix4kix]

 this guy.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by ThorrocksJs

If you saw a chick in the regular day or on her off day.She was acting regular and yall vibed and got into a relationship and u found out she stripped.You would dump her because of that nah son.Thats ridiculous

Would I dumb a girl because I found out that she was once a stripper? Of course I would. That is a dark dark dark secret that should have been told to me from the jump so EYE could decide if I wanted to stick around for the long haul. So I would leave not only because of the occupation but because of the deception. I signed a contract with someone I didn't know. Not even understanding why that question was even asked. Her LYING to me and not being open with me is even more ridiculous.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by ThorrocksJs

If you saw a chick in the regular day or on her off day.She was acting regular and yall vibed and got into a relationship and u found out she stripped.You would dump her because of that nah son.Thats ridiculous

Would I dumb a girl because I found out that she was once a stripper? Of course I would. That is a dark dark dark secret that should have been told to me from the jump so EYE could decide if I wanted to stick around for the long haul. So I would leave not only because of the occupation but because of the deception. I signed a contract with someone I didn't know. Not even understanding why that question was even asked. Her LYING to me and not being open with me is even more ridiculous.

 

[0cks]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

why I should spend my hard earned $ on a woman that is doing nothing but shaking fat. 

EPIC

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by YouMadYouBad

Dude you said this



"I do think women in general need to elevate their sense of self-worth and not be sluts and/or attention **%**$ the majority of their lives".

For someone who works at a University, then to say this. . 

Please guy. . Just admit that your sexiest and i'll leave this thread 

I am not understanding the issue here. Many young women really don't have any sense of discretion. They are lead to believe the things they put on Facebook are innocent. Wearing slutty clothes, taking pictures of them, wearing them to the club, they think nothing of it because it is just 2nd nature now. If they aren't dressing like sluts, they are taking pictures like sluts. I mean when do they take off the mask and buckle down and worry about being a respectable woman? I don't count them doing classwork/attending class as doing that.

With the little amount of positive female role models (more-so talking about in the black kingdom)  these girls are raised to be sluts. That is the only speed most of them know and it bothers me. Being a strong, positive, not %!$$ girl is often frowned upon. Hell walking to the station this morning, I see a middle-school girl getting on her fellow middle-school friend for her skirt being too long. Too long? Seriously, so young sluts pressure other young sluts to be more slutty? Come on.

It is out there and we are falling for the, "It ain't that serious" hype. Wait until it is your daughter taking !%! pics in front of a mirror and maybe then you will think it is serious.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by YouMadYouBad

Dude you said this



"I do think women in general need to elevate their sense of self-worth and not be sluts and/or attention **%**$ the majority of their lives".

For someone who works at a University, then to say this. . 

Please guy. . Just admit that your sexiest and i'll leave this thread 

I am not understanding the issue here. Many young women really don't have any sense of discretion. They are lead to believe the things they put on Facebook are innocent. Wearing slutty clothes, taking pictures of them, wearing them to the club, they think nothing of it because it is just 2nd nature now. If they aren't dressing like sluts, they are taking pictures like sluts. I mean when do they take off the mask and buckle down and worry about being a respectable woman? I don't count them doing classwork/attending class as doing that.

With the little amount of positive female role models (more-so talking about in the black kingdom)  these girls are raised to be sluts. That is the only speed most of them know and it bothers me. Being a strong, positive, not %!$$ girl is often frowned upon. Hell walking to the station this morning, I see a middle-school girl getting on her fellow middle-school friend for her skirt being too long. Too long? Seriously, so young sluts pressure other young sluts to be more slutty? Come on.

It is out there and we are falling for the, "It ain't that serious" hype. Wait until it is your daughter taking !%! pics in front of a mirror and maybe then you will think it is serious.