Is it natural for men to have more than one mate?

[rustlenomics]

i dont hide my looking, i tell my girl about girls i see.

"she got a nice booty, u see them *******? i'd bust in her eye and punch it.

i even whistle at em when shes in the car or yell out the window.

i like to look but i know what comes with girls that are just eye candy, nonsense and drama.

my girl just laughs and shakes her head, we dont even say i love you.

its stronger than that plus i feel that term is just thrown around so much it's lost all meaning.

i just show her than im here for her and that i want to make a life with her at this moment.

we've known each other for 7 years, messed around while i had a girlfriend then got with her like 3 years ago.

she was my boss, smart pretty, nice as hell.

i lied to her and took advantage of her kindness, even took her V-card when she was 23.

 

[kevlar shrimp]

 
i dont hide my looking, i tell my girl about girls i see.

"she got a nice booty, u see them *******? i'd bust in her eye and punch it.

i even whistle at em when shes in the car or yell out the window.

i like to look but i know what comes with girls that are just eye candy, nonsense and drama.

my girl just laughs and shakes her head, we dont even say i love you.

its stronger than that plus i feel that term is just thrown around so much it's lost all meaning.

i just show her than im here for her and that i want to make a life with her at this moment.

we've known each other for 7 years, messed around while i had a girlfriend then got with her like 3 years ago.

she was my boss, smart pretty, nice as hell.

i lied to her and took advantage of her kindness, even took her V-card when she was 23.

um yea

 

[Mark Antony]

I'm sure there are few things that can be deemed natural or unnatural, but what seperates modern man is evolving and choice. Clubbing a dude to death and taking his **** was natural at some point.

 

[lamekilla]

In before the double standard

 

[knowledgebones72]

I think it's natrual for people to be with whoever they want to be with.

A chick wants 6 husbands? Cool.

A dude wants 3 wives? Cool.

Two people wanna be monogamous? Cool.

Doesn't really matter at all to me. As long as there's no overlap.

I got a feeling there are a lot of sloppy people out there who use polygamy as an excuse to not really be in a mature romantic relationship with any person.

 

[Nawzlew]

My view with society vs nature is you can look at animal species and see what theyre predisposed to doing and that will give you what is natural. So if a Lion in the wild has multiple mates than that is what nature intends for us.

http://www.mnn.com/earth-matters/animals/photos/11-animals-that-mate-for-life/old-faithful

 

[createdestroy]

i dont hide my looking, i tell my girl about girls i see.

"she got a nice booty, u see them *******? i'd bust in her eye and punch it.

i even whistle at em when shes in the car or yell out the window.

i like to look but i know what comes with girls that are just eye candy, nonsense and drama.

my girl just laughs and shakes her head, we dont even say i love you.

its stronger than that plus i feel that term is just thrown around so much it's lost all meaning.

i just show her than im here for her and that i want to make a life with her at this moment.

we've known each other for 7 years, messed around while i had a girlfriend then got with her like 3 years ago.

she was my boss, smart pretty, nice as hell.

i lied to her and took advantage of her kindness, even took her V-card when she was 23.

this you huh...

 

[derryj3]

My thing is, if you want to play the field, don't make the commitment. Don't sit there and wife a chick up, have her fall in love with you, if you're just gonna go around screwing other chicks.

Monogamy may or may not be natural, but if one makes the commitment, it should be honored fully.

This...

 

[oidreez]

It depends what you define as mate? marriage or sleeping around. Why would I want to have more than one wife?

 

[Platinum State]

If you smanging women left & right then yo girl/wife can smang dudes left & right.
Would you be down with that?
I wouldnt. So yea its shouldnt be natural for men to have more than one mate if the other side doesnt get to do the same thing

 

[combo gd]

http://niketalk.com/t/578561/nts-take-on-cheating-vol-ex-on-her-way-over

Read my posts in this thread

 

[wr]

Don't let your raging hormones get the best of you.

Sometimes you feel like you can do every woman in the world.

Sometimes you get stage fright.

It's not so cut and dry.

 

[Master Zik]

Yes. Very natural.

Only obstacle is getting more women on board. Not just the ones with issues, emotionally damaged, and sex freaks. Cuz it definitely is something else to enjoy the company of more than one woman over time... and bang them.

All dudes saying other wise are going against the grain, that natural instinct. Those that believe it and will argue over it have been conditioned so much that their conditioning has been conditioned.

If it wasn't natural dudes would literally get with a chick, never cheat (if it don't work move to the next chick), get married and be happy the majority of the time. They wouldn't look at other women, wouldn't lust after them, and wouldn't fall in love with other women.

You do, what you tell yourself to believe. If your belief system is based on society/culture/religion ..ect then that is what you tell yourself to do. Simple as that.

But society is not that of nature. If you live by society you will not live a natural life.

Humans are of nature, humans created societies, therefore societies are now apart of nature

how would you feel if someone that you loved was going behind youre back and sleeping with different guys

The thing about a non-monogamous relationship is your mate would tell you before hand they're sleeping with other ppl or before the relationship starts this lifestyle would be established like a disclaimer.

 

[patrick bateman]

Yes. Very natural.

Only obstacle is getting more women on board. Not just the ones with issues, emotionally damaged, and sex freaks. Cuz it definitely is something else enjoy the company of more than one woman over time... and bang them.

All dudes saying other wise are going against the grain, that natural instinct. Those that believe it and will argue over it have been conditioned so much that their conditioning has been conditioned.

If it wasn't natural dudes would literally get with a chick, never cheat (if it don't work move to the next chick), get married and be happy the majority of the time. They wouldn't look at other women, wouldn't lust after them, and wouldn't fall in love with other women.

 

[al audi]

show me a black dude born in the 80s who doesn't have the urge for new P

i want to have a conversation with him

 

[fresh out dabox]

DO YOU

 

[301216baller]

I haven't been in a serious relationship in years I don't plan on being in one anytime soon it feels better when you have options

 

[Mark Antony]

Honestly if I get in a serious relationship I'll probably still keep options, just never let it become real to wifey. it's a mother ****** to have only her then have her decide it isn't what she wants anymore.

 

[Nouss]

show me a black dude born in the 80s who doesn't have the urge for new P

i want to have a conversation with him

Bro you mistaked black for any man and 80s for anytime in history.

Id say just about all straight dudes get urges for new poon. They might not act on it but urges, no doubt.

 

[Peep Game]

show me a black dude born in the 80s who doesn't have the urge for new P

i want to have a conversation with him

Bro you mistaked black for any man and 80s for anytime in history.

Id say just about all straight dudes get urges for new poon. They might not act on it but urges, no doubt.

This, whether you randomly date or are fully committed

 

[blastercombo]

Being a swinging single is cool, till you're old and forever alone throwing out Craigslist adds for friends.

 

[hennessy]

It's all good until an equally, or more, sexy chick comes onto you. The fact you're in a relationship makes you more attractive to them sometimes. If you can say no to a good time that you know your girl will never find out about you're a better man than me.

If we're married though I'm gonna be faithful. Because finances and my children are at stake at that point so its not worth the short lived thrill and pleasure no matter how tempting.

You gotta be a real sex addict to make that mistake and throw half your life away. Plus having meaningless sex with different women all the time gets old. It's fun for a while but being in a meaningful relationship with your best friend, making love, no condoms or risk for STD. It's just better IMO

 

[blastercombo]

It's all good until an equally, or more, sexy chick comes onto you. The fact you're in a relationship makes you more attractive to them sometimes. If you can say no to a good time that you know your girl will never find out about you're a better man than me.

If we're married though I'm gonna be faithful. Because finances and my children are at stake at that point so its not worth the short lived thrill and pleasure no matter how tempting.

Once you cheat, no matter if she finds out or not, the relationship is already over. You'll never be the same.

 

[hennessy]

Once you cheat, no matter if she finds out or not, the relationship is already over. You'll never be the same.

I kinda agree with you. I think the potential for marriage is over unless you're ok with lying to yourself. The relationship can still go on being the same though. It all depends what you're looking to get from it.

 

[blastercombo]

I kinda agree with you. I think the potential for marriage is over unless you're ok with lying to yourself. The relationship can still go on being the same though. It all depends what you're looking to get from it.

A serious relationship won't last if one has cheated. It may go on for however long but it'll just be a ticking time bomb Matter of fact, if you're willing to cheat its probably "not that serious" so to speak.