there's some pretty safe ways to go about sex. I mean, it isn't that hard to control the ****+$# stream, one can easily pull out early, especiallywith a condom on. I've passed up a lot of opportunities though because I'm a closet romantic, and I don't need to be spreading myself so thin, notmy steez. Don't get me wrong though, I still like to have some fun. Sometimes college is fish in a barrel status.
But honestly though, it's all about how you go about it - are you just shwinging away at some random beezies at a party? or are you getting to know a girl,letting them know it's not too serious, and taking some steps to ensure that there ain't no burning going on. I mean, it can sound tacky at times, buthell, I can go get a girl whenever I want, I'm gonna make damn sure it's with somebody who is also interested in keeping clean, safe, and un-preggo.
To me, that is relatively safe sex. I understand your convictions about saving it - I was the same way for a while, but I soon realized that I can't justwait around for the girl that is going to be my wife while my best years waste away - I'd rather be looking for her, and have some fun in the meantime. Ipassed up on toooooo many girls, at first my policy was - if you aren't J Alba status, I'm not really going for you (random hookup at least, no setstandards for the girlfriend), to which some people thought i was gay
they didn't really understand that I wasn't all that interested in going out, getting %*#@%% up, and getting some booty at the end of the night. But,as time went on, I began to open up because of what I said before, I'm basically wasting my time passing up on some of these nice ladies, only because i"have to" save it for my wife, who I don't know if I will meet for the next 23309 years. Besides, I gotta please her too. Did I really justtype all of this?