Is this a red flag?

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When a female says she has NO females friends does that say anything negative about her? In my experience those have been the chicks w/ the most drama or theones that get around!!! I just want to hear it from anothers point of view
 
I know girls like this. They are usually more rough around the edges, and just naturally get along better with their guy friends. They don't like theconstant drama that girls have, and just have that 1 best girl friend. I dont think it's a bad thing. She'd probably be more likely to enjoy some ofthe same things you do.

Girls like this usually spend more time with guys, and are looked at as "smashin all the homies". But in reality they have a better idea than mostgirls of how guys are, and what they look for from spending so much time with them, and are less likely to smash in most cases. Because they can recognizemost guys' BS.
 
Originally Posted by eight2one

it is....she is gonna be a complicated one.
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Originally Posted by maxi320

I know girls like this. They are usually more rough around the edges, and just naturally get along better with their guy friends. They don't like the constant drama that girls have, and just have that 1 best girl friend. I dont think it's a bad thing. She'd probably be more likely to enjoy some of the same things you do.

Girls like this usually spend more time with guys, and are looked at as "smashin all the homies". But in reality they have a better idea than most girls of how guys are, and what they look for from spending so much time with them, and are less likely to smash in most cases.


So on point.
 
Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Originally Posted by maxi320

I know girls like this. They are usually more rough around the edges, and just naturally get along better with their guy friends. They don't like the constant drama that girls have, and just have that 1 best girl friend. I dont think it's a bad thing. She'd probably be more likely to enjoy some of the same things you do.

Girls like this usually spend more time with guys, and are looked at as "smashin all the homies". But in reality they have a better idea than most girls of how guys are, and what they look for from spending so much time with them, and are less likely to smash in most cases.


So on point.
 
It's just a nice way of them telling you that they get around without making themselves look bad.
 
Originally Posted by General Johnson

That means that you'll be her only "friend" and soon you'll become HER LIFE...




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my roommate's girl is exactly like this.

she's ALWAYS callin him and wanting to know what he's doin/where's he's at.

and if he doesn't pick up the phone the first time she calls, it's a mess for the next week
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I'd stay away brother.
 
Originally Posted by maxi320

I know girls like this. They are usually more rough around the edges, and just naturally get along better with their guy friends. They don't like the constant drama that girls have, and just have that 1 best girl friend. I dont think it's a bad thing. She'd probably be more likely to enjoy some of the same things you do.

Girls like this usually spend more time with guys, and are looked at as "smashin all the homies". But in reality they have a better idea than most girls of how guys are, and what they look for from spending so much time with them, and are less likely to smash in most cases. Because they can recognize most guys' BS.
nah bruh, not most of the time, I'm sad to say.
 
IDK it can easily go both ways if she lets u smash quick fast then u know shes the Jump.. but if she makes you wait on it and calls u out on all your bs linesthen shes cool.

but just ask her guy friends if they have smashed.
 
Am i tripping or what. I read this and thought you were going to post a blood with a off orange flag that look red and question his role in the gang.
 
all girls say they dont rock wit chicks like that or don't have any female friends...all lies...don't read that deep into it
 
Originally Posted by MILLION DOLLAR STACKS

Originally Posted by maxi320

I know girls like this. They are usually more rough around the edges, and just naturally get along better with their guy friends. They don't like the constant drama that girls have, and just have that 1 best girl friend. I dont think it's a bad thing. She'd probably be more likely to enjoy some of the same things you do.

Girls like this usually spend more time with guys, and are looked at as "smashin all the homies". But in reality they have a better idea than most girls of how guys are, and what they look for from spending so much time with them, and are less likely to smash in most cases. Because they can recognize most guys' BS.
nah bruh, not most of the time, I'm sad to say.
I with Million, WRONG. Im hittin this chick that only has guy friends. Shes messed up in the head as am I, she'll get a bf just to have onethen 3 days later come crying to me like i dont want a boyfriend, and then dumps him a few days after that.

She was perfect until her highschool sweethart cheated on her, and thats when everything went down hill.
 
I dont get how a girl can have no female friends. Tariq Nasheed said that girls who say that are attentionwhores. The dudes she is with are either trying tosmash, or have done so already. Those are his opinions though, so I guess you should do what feels right?


It's just a nice way of them telling you that they get around without making themselves look bad.


sounds logical
 
I say again she has NO FEMALE FRIENDS!!! Would that make her very needy & what would that no female friends thing say about her character?. I do kinda feelthe attentionwhore thing though!!!
 
It really depends. Some girls honestly do get along better with guys. On the other hand, I've known some girls who claimed to not like girlsbecause they were full of drama, when really they were the drama queens who had a lot of insecurities and basically just fed off the attention oftheir guy "friends." I wouldn't completely write her off just yet, but be cautious for now.

Personally, I prefer being friends with other girls. I don't believe every girl is petty and full of drama, neither do I believe all guys are laid-back anddrama-free. Generalizations FTL.
 
Originally Posted by MILLION DOLLAR STACKS

I recommend you do some research!


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The point you bring up about her character is a good one. I didnt even think about it. But if she has NO girl friends, she probably is not the best when itcomes to being open minded, and well rounded. It could be that she shuts things out that she has a problem with instead of tryna deal with it. I feel like imover-analyzing this like literature class or somethin. Do ur research. And take the chance, what could go wrong?
 
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