Mature Discussion: Let's keep it real...(Women weigh in too)

[b20 eg8]

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Women masturbate just as much as men they just don't talk about it.

Women also don't do the old fashioned masturbating with their hands. They go the toy route so ultimately they get desensitized to what the human can do. No mans tongue or finger is runnin at 9k RPM.

 

[teamjordan79]

Sex is like 90% psychological.

 

[powerballin]

Have these women ever told you about self orgasm? Maybe they need to learn their bodies first before asking a partner to do what they don't even know how to do ya feel me. 

It's actually sad that most women don't care enough to get to know their own bodies because society tells us that female masturbation is wrong and that you should get some guy with a nine inch penis to hammer inside you when most women aren't built to handle a well endowed guy, hell some women don't even know that a vagina is just an inverted penis (with very small differences obviously). 

Good points.

Chicks gotta learn themselves in order to enjoy sex to the fullest.  Alot of younger girls aren't having them even though they still enjoy the sex.  Its not the dudes job to discover the secret but its his job to deliver once he knows

 

[jbpkickz]

when shes on top, stick your finger in her booty, srs , or hit it from the back and go in slow and deep, while rubbing the trackball , how ive gotten them to orgasm

 

[powerballin]

when shes on top, stick your finger in her booty, srs , or hit it from the back and go in slow and deep, while rubbing the trackball , how ive gotten them to orgasm

 

[frostythepoptart]

who cares I notice everybody straight up ******g lies.

Everybody has a footlong schlong.

everyone always makes girls orgasm. (OP you seem to think you are the exception to the rule, protip girls lie)

and everyone is a stallion that goes on for like 8 hours.

like sex is made to last between 8-15 minutes. The point is to reproduce not to go the longest,s ure you can practice, and you can prolong. But dudes talking about going 2 hours. If you're doing what you need to there's no way you should be lasting 2 hours you should be tired.



I get in, i get mine, have fun, eat the box til she feels like faking it or climaxing i could care less whats happening and we move on.

 

[airthompson]

I know it's slightly difficult for women to orgasm, but being sexually active for years & nvr achiving it is sad. A lot of guys really don't care about having the women climax because their just tryna get there's. I dnt know where the whole "LEAVE IT FOR THE R&B GUYS" thing came along You dont have to be making love, to make a girl come. I know I'm not the only guy on here that get off when a girl has a Exorcist pocessed type episode.

At the end of the day, If you ain't loving these broads your not obligated to break em off. But keep in mind, when you do break em off you'll def be getting that call back.

 

[hassan16]

that feeling when you're strokin' deep n hard and her moans keep getting louder and louder till she pretty much pushes you out so her body can shake and convulse all while squeezing her breasts saying "yes, yes, yes, oh my god, yes"


this is called a vaginal orgasm achieved through vaginal penetration. you don't need oral stimulation for a vaginal orgasm to occur. Of course it varies from female to female. a lot more females can achieve oral orgasms versus vaginal orgasms. if you can make a woman do this, she won't forget, trust me.

 

[brakgirl14]

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Women masturbate just as much as men they just don't talk about it.
Women also don't do the old fashioned masturbating with their hands. They go the toy route so ultimately they get desensitized to what the human can do. No mans tongue or finger is runnin at 9k RPM.

I do agree somewhat with this but it proves my point even more. Women that use toys aren't using them to find out what stimulates them, they're letting others tell them what's supposed to feel good. A woman should explore her own body and once she knows what she likes, then introduce toys (that don't vibrate). 

After this, she can relay to the man what she likes. I mean really, why do women think men ask "Do you like this?" or "How does that feel?" 

And how do women fake an orgasm? Can't men feel that they're faking since the vagina contracts continuously during an orgasm. 

 

[Gill Baka Esq. LLC.]

ya'll watch too much porn.



I agree with the comment that everybody lies.

I'm a freak in bed, I'm trying/doing everything under the sun to her....she's bound to like at least 1 or 2 things specifically.

one minute we're in the kitchen, the next we're in the floor, then we're on the dresser...I work my *** for for those couple minutes.

Ya'll stupid ************* just like regurgitating nonsense you heard from comedy specials or on the internet....all you really gotta do is get close to poppin her off 99% of the time and then bust your load and be like sike sike sike...

She knows you have it in you, she'll work with you....she'll do the same damn things every girl does when you bring something primal/manly to her world....she'll cook, she'll clean, she'll help you with your homework.....and then on a random ******g day you go get the right amount of drunk, or high, or drink some ginseng and you take her to the gun show.

Don't do it on a special day or a holiday...do it on a random night that way she doesn't tie that experience to a specific day because that just adds performance pressure.

Do what you need to do is all i'm saying. Some guys can do only what's in their skill set. There have been no advancements in cybernetic **** technology so work with what you have.

 

[goldenchild9]

Can't fake the leg quiver.

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

I've had a conversation with 3 lady friends recently, and they all told me that they never had an orgasm from intercourse alone. I would simply write this off as BS, but I've been told this quite a few times from women. One of them was really adamant that its a small percentage of women who can actually orgasm off of sex alone. It's hard to get a guy's perspective on this, because the average guy says he'll make a chick climax 4x before he gets his off.
I've been by a few chicks that I was the first to make them orgasm [/humblebrag]; however, I've also known women who can only get off by dual stimulation, and a few who never had an orgasm in their life.
Maybe this is something I've missed in sex class, but I do want to get NT's perspective on this...
..Let's keep it civil, please.

I guess I've just been blessed... cuz of my sexual partners, 80% have made me reach it with just their pipe game. My last boyfriend was real hit or miss with his, mostly a miss. I had one dude tell ME he made me bust... I was laughed and I was like "uh , nah... I didn't" With the exception of one, three right now are standing out in my mind that would make me bust at least 4-5x before they did... if they ever did, so I'd literally have to tap out or before they'd tap out


my current is a beast It's always all about me, which sometimes I have to TELL him to be more selfish But he usually goes IN so he'll get tired before he can even get his in.

 

[dwileykyot]

OP asked for the female perspective... There it is

 

[young thundercat]

I do agree somewhat with this but it proves my point even more. Women that use toys aren't using them to find out what stimulates them, they're letting others tell them what's supposed to feel good. A woman should explore her own body and once she knows what she likes, then introduce toys (that don't vibrate). 

After this, she can rely to the man what she likes. I mean really, why do women think men ask "Do you like this?" or "How does that feel?" 

And how do women fake an orgasm? Can't men feel that they're faking since the vagina contracts continuously during an orgasm. 

nothing but knowledge right here.

 

[decemberlove]

My girl taps out faster than I do because it "hurts" her. My thought was deeper = better but she doesn't find that very pleasant. Now I don't know if this is true or not but there were times in the beginning where I was skeptical and kept going and she would literally push me off and yell so I doubt she's faking the pain.

I make her come almost every time but it's with either cunnilingus or she rides me from the top and rubs her trackball on me (amazing view btw).

Would love to see if she's able to and we've been trying but I just don't think she's in the percentage where she's able to from pipe game alone.

 

[bruce negro]

I do agree somewhat with this but it proves my point even more. Women that use toys aren't using them to find out what stimulates them, they're letting others tell them what's supposed to feel good. A woman should explore her own body and once she knows what she likes, then introduce toys (that don't vibrate). 

After this, she can rely to the man what she likes. I mean really, why do women think men ask "Do you like this?" or "How does that feel?" 

And how do women fake an orgasm? Can't men feel that they're faking since the vagina contracts continuously during an orgasm. 

I actually don't feel the contractions at all when my girl comes.

As for the discussion, I've had both ends of the spectrum. My ex could come multiple times during intercourse before I came once, if at all. My wifey now has a real issue with coming though. When we first had sex I thought I'd laid the pipe game down strong She humbled me real quick when she told me that she hadn't come.

My girl can ONLY come when she's on top. I mean, I've put in serious work from every other position, angle, pace, etc. Nothing works. It even applies to eating box. She loves it when I eat box (personally I hate it, my tongue gets tired) and begs me to do it... but the only time she's ever come from it was when she was on top. Many times she's actually made more noise and sounded like she enjoyed it better while I was hitting from behind vs being on top, but she still never came. She tells me that even though it feels amazing from certain positions, she can't come unless she's on top. So we basically structure our sex with me doing work in various positions until I get tired, and then her finishing on top. She also usually doesn't come more than once, so half of the time once she's done we're both done. Other times she'll let me finish in a position I want. I don't really mind either way.

 

[miketysonthekiller]

My girl taps out faster than I do because it "hurts" her. My thought was deeper = better but she doesn't find that very pleasant. Now I don't know if this is true or not but there were times in the beginning where I was skeptical and kept going and she would literally push me off and yell so I doubt she's faking the pain.
I make her come almost every time but it's with either cunnilingus or she rides me from the top and rubs her trackball on me (amazing view btw).
Would love to see if she's able to and we've been trying but I just don't think she's in the percentage where she's able to from pipe game alone.

all womens vaginas are not the same :\
I was watching a video where son kept going in and the girl kept telling him to stop and she kept pushing him off, but dude didn't care and kept going iiiiin. Made me feel bad for homegirl and it totally killed my mood.

I hear a lot of times it's teh mental part that keeps women from getting hers. You have to really seduce her since women work different than men and really get in her mind. Basically make her orgasm mentally and it'll be easier to get it physically.

 

[decemberlove]

all womens vaginas are not the same :\
I was watching a video where son kept going in and the girl kept telling him to stop and she kept pushing him off, but dude didn't care and kept going iiiiin. Made me feel bad for homegirl and it totally killed my mood.
I hear a lot of times it's teh mental part that keeps women from getting hers. You have to really seduce her since women work different than men and really get in her mind. Basically make her orgasm mentally and it'll be easier to get it physically.

Yeah 100% agreed on the mental. My anniversary was just last week and she was able to come in literally 5 min and the sex was amazing. I try my best to make her feel comfortable and she's willing to push her limit.

c-l-i-t-oral orgasm is no problem for us and I feel that there's no void from not being able to achieve vaginal orgasm. I mean, I've seen this chick freak the **** out and mess up all the bed sheets so it's really not a big deal.

It's just that curiosity and "what if?" factor that makes me want to look more into it and try new things.

Overall if your sex life is healthy and both parties are having fun then it should be gravy.

 

[SUSHI AND GRITS]

if you don't eat it, you are losing, my friend.

i'm a dude btw

and that "mental first" theory is real.

 

[jesusshuttlesworth34]

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