Meeting chicks....at clubs... VOL. NOT SMASHING TONIGHT eeeyyyy

[brettthejett]

Okay...
My dating game is good. If I go on a date with a girl...typical dinner and whatever else, I can always step in and leave a trademark. My only real issue ismeeting girls in the first place.

The concept is.. go out one night with the guys, have a few loud mouth soups, strike up a dandy conversation with a striking young lass, grab some digits toplan a date.
The execution is almost on lock for me....EXCEPT:

The actual initial introduction.
"Hi...I'm Brett"
Boom, that is a great one and usually gets the ball rolling. It's the first 0-5 mins of conversation that sinks my ship though. If she's a bitshy/nervous or for whatever reason reluctant to continue the snowballing conversation it's difficult for me to continue it too.. even if she is interested.

I'm told simply, ask questions.
.....but what questions? I feel it's a bit generic to ask where are you from, what do you do. That's all I seem to come up with.


Forget the myspace jumpoffs....I need real world help haha.

 

[nikeflightposite]

Alcohol is always the solution!

 

[phillypg1]

When u first meet a broad straight slap her B...that way down the line she cant be all like ohh you used to treat me so good.

Word to Cam and Kayslay lol


Hi how are you and my name is so and so are fine to work with.

You don't need to spit a haiku at the !@#$%...just get to the damn point...girls hear corny %!% punchlines all day...the girls i know say its a breath offresh air when u just say hi whats your name my name is blah blah blah.dudes tryna sound like RZA with the wordplay n !@#$.

 

[Pmighty]

wheres your bf at??
how are you today??
why are you standin by yourself??(if shes by herself)
you come here alot??
why havent you gave me your number yet??

idk that was a couple that came to mind off top. i got lines i dont realy ask questions but...
the intial convo to get the number or w/e is so easy to me
my prob is the 1st phone convo that has me like uhh

Alcohol is always the solution!
that too

 

[nothingbefore]

"WHAT THAT SMELL LIKE ? "


...huh

 

[wildout4]

Originally Posted by NothingBefore

"WHAT THAT SMELL LIKE ? "


...huh

basically, except i like to throw "thang" in there so she doesnt get confused

 

[solefood229]

Originally Posted by NothingBefore

"WHAT THAT SMELL LIKE ? "


...huh

Man just keep it simple just give her enough info to keep her guessing, don't go tell a broad your whole life story in the club, Have fresh breathe,tartar is not popping

 

[brettthejett]

There's gotta be one simple conversation to have at a club.
like an open ended question that you can branch off of that will work in any stitch.


"WHY DER SEW MANI PPL HUR"

 

[springfieldxd]

Originally Posted by brettTHEjett

There's gotta be one simple conversation to have at a club.
like an open ended question that you can branch off of that will work in any stitch.


"WHY DER SEW MANI PPL HUR"

 

[nycknicks105]

Here's my theory: You really can't have conversations with random people inside a club. It's just too loud, and people aren't really there totalk. They come for other intentions. I've never met a shy girl inside a club neither. Usually because the alcohol was flowing.

 

[brettthejett]

^ word.

I was in a lounge the other night...loud music but totally able to have a conversation.
I went up to the hottest chick who seemed to be having the time of her life with her girl friends. and I never do this so I'm nervous as *+#+.

I just tapped her on the shoulder and introduced my self. She was totally taken off guard that I was speaking English [in holland]. She asked what I do...Iexplained. I asked what she does...then I asked what village she's from. She was so rattled [despite her PERFECT abilities] that I was just like

"....eurmmmm....okay! I guess I'll talk to you later"


All my buddies noticed without a doubt, she went from the cocky party girl nothing but smiles, to BEAT RED face and locked up. couldn't continue aconversation for her life.


SMH....I didn't know what else to do.

 

[nothingbefore]

Originally Posted by brettTHEjett

^ word.

I was in a lounge the other night...loud music but totally able to have a conversation.
I went up to the hottest chick who seemed to be having the time of her life with her girl friends. and I never do this so I'm nervous as *+#+.

I just tapped her on the shoulder and introduced my self. She was totally taken off guard that I was speaking English [in holland]. She asked what I do...I explained. I asked what she does...then I asked what village she's from. She was so rattled [despite her PERFECT abilities] that I was just like

"....eurmmmm....okay! I guess I'll talk to you later"


All my buddies noticed without a doubt, she went from the cocky party girl nothing but smiles, to BEAT RED face and locked up. couldn't continue a conversation for her life.


SMH....I didn't know what else to do.

thats when you grab her away & have your way

 

[joebonnano]

brettTHEjett... FTL?

Truthfully, your best bet would have been to ask something about her girls and put your boys on. They should have beaten you with a wet noodle for NOT doingso. If you had, not only would her girls have been too busy to possibly hate on you, you would have also a)put your peoples on with some possible, b)had achance to get the girl alone, and c)THAT would have given her reason to accept your invitation to "get outta here so we can talk" or whatever...which you say is your forte (dating game). When you had her alone, your regular date game should have kicked in...

Dah well... Red or Blue pill, young padowan...

 

[ericberry14]

Originally Posted by SpringfieldXD

Originally Posted by brettTHEjett

There's gotta be one simple conversation to have at a club.
like an open ended question that you can branch off of that will work in any stitch.


"WHY DER SEW MANI PPL HUR"

 

[creekshow]

I say the easiest way is to just go up and introduce yourself and ask for her name. Then be observant and ask some questions about herself. I think by thefirst couple of minutes you'll be able to tell whether or not shes feelin it and if you should keep pursuing the girl or not

 

[NewZ05]

Originally Posted by NikeFlightposite

Alcohol is always the solution!

 

[stillin729]

Happy Hour is the place to meet girls and then set it up for the..."you going out later"

I'm moving to a hoping Philly suburb in May and I cant wait, getting laid will be x100000000000000000000000's times easier

 

[kingtre]

advanced move-

confuse her

 

[si3xers55]

Originally Posted by NewZ05

Originally Posted by NikeFlightposite

Alcohol is always the solution!

 

[eight2one]

Originally Posted by NewZ05

Originally Posted by NikeFlightposite

Alcohol is always the solution!

yeeeeeeeep...but it causes me to be toooo blunt!

 

[patmc13]

Originally Posted by StillIn729

Happy Hour is the place to meet girls and then set it up for the..."you going out later"

I'm moving to a hoping Philly suburb in May and I cant wait, getting laid will be x100000000000000000000000's times easier

word??? where at?

 

[primavera vills]

In the club, ask her for her name, tell her you'll talk to her after the club. I've told this to every girl I've ever talked to in the club.Whichever one talks to you afterwards, shows interest, and you go from there. Can't tell you what to say after that, you're gonna have to be yourself.

 

[chico dusty]

Originally Posted by Kingtre

advanced move-

confuse her

Most of em already are ...

 

[drekin06]

Just be yourself my dude.

 

[akademikgenius]

Originally Posted by Chico Dusty

Originally Posted by Kingtre

advanced move-

confuse her

Most of em already are ...

word. and to my man prima, seems like a good plan of execution. simple but yet straight to the point.