Moving back in to your parents house Vol. advice

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I moved out, so I can concentrate on school (parents fight a lot)

managed to make things work for a year, but the stress to keep up with rent and what not seems to get in way of school as well. i enjoy the freedom and what not, but i feel like my parents are doing a whole lot better, where i'm starting to miss home.

contemplating on moving back, but I don't know what i'm getting into.

some days i visit home, its good, where I miss them

other days i visit, and they still go at it.

anyone have similar experience on this? what did you end up doing? move back..pros/cons
 
Physically fighting? :x arguing is understandable. Call the cops .. Move in you'd save money and what not
 
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Physically fighting? :x arguing is understandable. Call the cops .. Move in you'd save money and what not
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argue a lot, pops has a drinking problem.

feel bad for my mom

Go home and talk to ur pops that u feel his drinking is a serious problem. I wouldn't sweep the problem under the rug and leave my mom to deal with it solo. I'm necessarily saying your running cuz I don't walk in your shoes to knw ur situation, but it seems like a issue that needs to be addressed. Move back save money, and work out ur parents situation the best u can. 2 birds with 1 stone.
 
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Go home and talk to ur pops that u feel his drinking is a serious problem. I wouldn't run away from that and leave my mom to deal with it solo. I'm necessarily saying your running cuz I don't walk in your shoes to knw ur situation, but it seems like a issue that needs to be addressed.
 
Go home and talk to ur pops that u feel his drinking is a serious problem. I wouldn't sweep the problem under the rug and leave my mom to deal with it solo. I'm necessarily saying your running cuz I don't walk in your shoes to knw ur situation, but it seems like a issue that needs to be addressed. Move back save money, and work out ur parents situation the best u can. 2 birds with 1 stone.

my pops knows, so does my mom. old people are stubborn though.

I had to leave to straighten my life out, because all they cared about was their own well-being, so i had to figure the direction of my life.

More than ever I feel confident in which way I'm going, and I feel like its time I am able to be patient enough to help them through whatever they're going through.
 
help your parents out but also make sure your pops gets help soon, my friends pops passed away recently from cirosis of the liver...he drank alot even after he was diagnosed, he was also a stubborn old man,  maybe now that you'd be there you can keep them apart when they start to argue, i know alot about this kind of situation, i used to rent a house with my parents and one day my stepdad got a dui and ended up losing his job and i also had a really bad heroin problem but i also worked, i was still paying rent, then i found out my stepdad was pocketing my money and we were getting evicted i ended up leaving but they stayed in the house for another 3 months and because of that since my name was on the lease my name was on the papers to appear in court to pay..
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