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[b smooth 202]

MOB....when a lot of *@+@%@ say that they lying...negate chicks like they dont exist and they fall in love with you. 

 

[b smooth 202]

MOB....when a lot of *@+@%@ say that they lying...negate chicks like they dont exist and they fall in love with you. 

 

[frijo sneaker]

 

[frijo sneaker]

 

[lightskinflyboy 718]

OP base off pic.... you need some carrot cream, and a brush

 

[lightskinflyboy 718]

OP base off pic.... you need some carrot cream, and a brush

 

[scshift]

Originally Posted by JohnnyRedStorm

Confidence is all you need, everything else just follows. Seriously.
This is what I want you to do, sit down on the floor in your room, backyard, wherever it's quiet and relaxing and just look back on why you got friendzoned so many times (there's always a recurring theme) and then take that reason and say @*+! it, I'm never letting that happen again. Next, start realizing that you're that dude and no matter what happens to you or what someone says, it doesn't mean !#+% unless it's positive (if it is negative, though, look at it as a student and think about how you could flip it so no $#*+@@%*@@%! could ever say that to you again). Thirdly, walk around with your back straight (good posture and body language is 1a, real talk) and your chest out and rock that grin slash smirk that says "yeah, I'm that dude."

Once you got all that situated and you're only thinking positively (remove all negative and frivolous thoughts from your mind--if you catch yourself thinking about something negatively, no matter how futile, stop yourself and say chill and flip it into something positive (see the positivity and beauty in everything, including death and rejection since that gives you a better idea on what girls you should go after and how you should do it)) go up to a girl and just say "hey, cute blank" (you wanna mention something simple that most dudes would overlook like nail polish, shoes, earrings, eyelashes--in the case of eyelashes tell her she has lovely ones) and keep it moving if she gives you a brief response, however, you're gonna have to walk past her and gently touch her arm (when you're ready and in a better environment this'll be a light lovehandle squeeze), and while you're walking away turn back to see if she turns to look at you and if she does either smile or wink with that swag grin that you're gonna have.

Now, when talking to girls always remember this, being concise and cute is all you need. Don't try and pull the conversation your way, keep it to about her and include little bits of your personal self in there that play off the things she says so that way she gets a sense of what you're about. Also, speak and text confidently, don't say things like I think or maybe we could hang out; put yourself in charge when it comes to stuff like that and be assertive but not demanding, ie: we should hang out, you should come over, etc.

There's probably some more I could say, but right now you don't need to have your mind blown. Just focus on getting your confidence and swag up and approaching girls with little tidbits that have potential of spawning some beastly conversation.

Oh yeah and if you're hanging out with a girl you like, make a move early in the relationship so she knows you're interested in her. That move doesn't have to be kissing her the first time you're together, but maintain simple physical contact (I forgot to mention this before, but always always always look into a girl's eyes when you're talking and occasionally glance away at the sky or just to the right or left of her and dart your attention back to those globes). If she's sitting down in front of you, run your fingers slowly along the side of her calves (don't venture higher than two inches above the knees unless you've had a really good hook up), rub your thumbs gently along the inside of her knees, etc. When greeting girls from now on give them the light lovehandle squeeze and hugging always place your hands on her lower back (when walking past girls in semi-crowded areas, place your hand on her lower back and you could look back to the do the smile slash wink if you want, but don't do it every time, only with those girls that have really lovely smiles).

Get it in, bro.

One last thing, never ever ever ask a girl for her name. Always introduce yourself first (just say I'm blank btw) and she'll tell you hers.

That sounded pretty solid except for the rubbing and squeezing, that sounded kinda creepy especially if you just met her

 

[scshift]

Originally Posted by JohnnyRedStorm

Confidence is all you need, everything else just follows. Seriously.
This is what I want you to do, sit down on the floor in your room, backyard, wherever it's quiet and relaxing and just look back on why you got friendzoned so many times (there's always a recurring theme) and then take that reason and say @*+! it, I'm never letting that happen again. Next, start realizing that you're that dude and no matter what happens to you or what someone says, it doesn't mean !#+% unless it's positive (if it is negative, though, look at it as a student and think about how you could flip it so no $#*+@@%*@@%! could ever say that to you again). Thirdly, walk around with your back straight (good posture and body language is 1a, real talk) and your chest out and rock that grin slash smirk that says "yeah, I'm that dude."

Once you got all that situated and you're only thinking positively (remove all negative and frivolous thoughts from your mind--if you catch yourself thinking about something negatively, no matter how futile, stop yourself and say chill and flip it into something positive (see the positivity and beauty in everything, including death and rejection since that gives you a better idea on what girls you should go after and how you should do it)) go up to a girl and just say "hey, cute blank" (you wanna mention something simple that most dudes would overlook like nail polish, shoes, earrings, eyelashes--in the case of eyelashes tell her she has lovely ones) and keep it moving if she gives you a brief response, however, you're gonna have to walk past her and gently touch her arm (when you're ready and in a better environment this'll be a light lovehandle squeeze), and while you're walking away turn back to see if she turns to look at you and if she does either smile or wink with that swag grin that you're gonna have.

Now, when talking to girls always remember this, being concise and cute is all you need. Don't try and pull the conversation your way, keep it to about her and include little bits of your personal self in there that play off the things she says so that way she gets a sense of what you're about. Also, speak and text confidently, don't say things like I think or maybe we could hang out; put yourself in charge when it comes to stuff like that and be assertive but not demanding, ie: we should hang out, you should come over, etc.

There's probably some more I could say, but right now you don't need to have your mind blown. Just focus on getting your confidence and swag up and approaching girls with little tidbits that have potential of spawning some beastly conversation.

Oh yeah and if you're hanging out with a girl you like, make a move early in the relationship so she knows you're interested in her. That move doesn't have to be kissing her the first time you're together, but maintain simple physical contact (I forgot to mention this before, but always always always look into a girl's eyes when you're talking and occasionally glance away at the sky or just to the right or left of her and dart your attention back to those globes). If she's sitting down in front of you, run your fingers slowly along the side of her calves (don't venture higher than two inches above the knees unless you've had a really good hook up), rub your thumbs gently along the inside of her knees, etc. When greeting girls from now on give them the light lovehandle squeeze and hugging always place your hands on her lower back (when walking past girls in semi-crowded areas, place your hand on her lower back and you could look back to the do the smile slash wink if you want, but don't do it every time, only with those girls that have really lovely smiles).

Get it in, bro.

One last thing, never ever ever ask a girl for her name. Always introduce yourself first (just say I'm blank btw) and she'll tell you hers.

That sounded pretty solid except for the rubbing and squeezing, that sounded kinda creepy especially if you just met her

 

[Gill Baka Esq. LLC.]

OP I can see where your coming from...BUT you got atleast another year or two before you really have to worry about something like this.

I can see that your in a rut like myself except i'm asking the same question your asking but i'm almost 26. Still I keep my head up and look forward to tomorrow.

Take it one day at a time...thats all you can do. Each day make an improvement over that last but by no means get hung up over what you don't have as compared to others. Look at what you do have and find solace in that. The only thing constant is change so believe me when I tell you this...If you want it bad enough you'll get it. Trust.

Bless

 

[Gill Baka Esq. LLC.]

OP I can see where your coming from...BUT you got atleast another year or two before you really have to worry about something like this.

I can see that your in a rut like myself except i'm asking the same question your asking but i'm almost 26. Still I keep my head up and look forward to tomorrow.

Take it one day at a time...thats all you can do. Each day make an improvement over that last but by no means get hung up over what you don't have as compared to others. Look at what you do have and find solace in that. The only thing constant is change so believe me when I tell you this...If you want it bad enough you'll get it. Trust.

Bless

 

[coolgraymemo]

Pics of girl?

 

[coolgraymemo]

Pics of girl?

 

[Gill Baka Esq. LLC.]

Originally Posted by scshift

Originally Posted by JohnnyRedStorm

Confidence is all you need, everything else just follows. Seriously.
This is what I want you to do, sit down on the floor in your room, backyard, wherever it's quiet and relaxing and just look back on why you got friendzoned so many times (there's always a recurring theme) and then take that reason and say @*+! it, I'm never letting that happen again. Next, start realizing that you're that dude and no matter what happens to you or what someone says, it doesn't mean !#+% unless it's positive (if it is negative, though, look at it as a student and think about how you could flip it so no $#*+@@%*@@%! could ever say that to you again). Thirdly, walk around with your back straight (good posture and body language is 1a, real talk) and your chest out and rock that grin slash smirk that says "yeah, I'm that dude."

Once you got all that situated and you're only thinking positively (remove all negative and frivolous thoughts from your mind--if you catch yourself thinking about something negatively, no matter how futile, stop yourself and say chill and flip it into something positive (see the positivity and beauty in everything, including death and rejection since that gives you a better idea on what girls you should go after and how you should do it)) go up to a girl and just say "hey, cute blank" (you wanna mention something simple that most dudes would overlook like nail polish, shoes, earrings, eyelashes--in the case of eyelashes tell her she has lovely ones) and keep it moving if she gives you a brief response, however, you're gonna have to walk past her and gently touch her arm (when you're ready and in a better environment this'll be a light lovehandle squeeze), and while you're walking away turn back to see if she turns to look at you and if she does either smile or wink with that swag grin that you're gonna have.

Now, when talking to girls always remember this, being concise and cute is all you need. Don't try and pull the conversation your way, keep it to about her and include little bits of your personal self in there that play off the things she says so that way she gets a sense of what you're about. Also, speak and text confidently, don't say things like I think or maybe we could hang out; put yourself in charge when it comes to stuff like that and be assertive but not demanding, ie: we should hang out, you should come over, etc.

There's probably some more I could say, but right now you don't need to have your mind blown. Just focus on getting your confidence and swag up and approaching girls with little tidbits that have potential of spawning some beastly conversation.

Oh yeah and if you're hanging out with a girl you like, make a move early in the relationship so she knows you're interested in her. That move doesn't have to be kissing her the first time you're together, but maintain simple physical contact (I forgot to mention this before, but always always always look into a girl's eyes when you're talking and occasionally glance away at the sky or just to the right or left of her and dart your attention back to those globes). If she's sitting down in front of you, run your fingers slowly along the side of her calves (don't venture higher than two inches above the knees unless you've had a really good hook up), rub your thumbs gently along the inside of her knees, etc. When greeting girls from now on give them the light lovehandle squeeze and hugging always place your hands on her lower back (when walking past girls in semi-crowded areas, place your hand on her lower back and you could look back to the do the smile slash wink if you want, but don't do it every time, only with those girls that have really lovely smiles).

Get it in, bro.

One last thing, never ever ever ask a girl for her name. Always introduce yourself first (just say I'm blank btw) and she'll tell you hers.

That sounded pretty solid except for the rubbing and squeezing, that sounded kinda creepy especially if you just met her

Johnny always going in for the kill...i'd love grab a beer with this guy I think he would have me laughing the whole night...but good advice.

 

[Gill Baka Esq. LLC.]

Originally Posted by scshift

Originally Posted by JohnnyRedStorm

Confidence is all you need, everything else just follows. Seriously.
This is what I want you to do, sit down on the floor in your room, backyard, wherever it's quiet and relaxing and just look back on why you got friendzoned so many times (there's always a recurring theme) and then take that reason and say @*+! it, I'm never letting that happen again. Next, start realizing that you're that dude and no matter what happens to you or what someone says, it doesn't mean !#+% unless it's positive (if it is negative, though, look at it as a student and think about how you could flip it so no $#*+@@%*@@%! could ever say that to you again). Thirdly, walk around with your back straight (good posture and body language is 1a, real talk) and your chest out and rock that grin slash smirk that says "yeah, I'm that dude."

Once you got all that situated and you're only thinking positively (remove all negative and frivolous thoughts from your mind--if you catch yourself thinking about something negatively, no matter how futile, stop yourself and say chill and flip it into something positive (see the positivity and beauty in everything, including death and rejection since that gives you a better idea on what girls you should go after and how you should do it)) go up to a girl and just say "hey, cute blank" (you wanna mention something simple that most dudes would overlook like nail polish, shoes, earrings, eyelashes--in the case of eyelashes tell her she has lovely ones) and keep it moving if she gives you a brief response, however, you're gonna have to walk past her and gently touch her arm (when you're ready and in a better environment this'll be a light lovehandle squeeze), and while you're walking away turn back to see if she turns to look at you and if she does either smile or wink with that swag grin that you're gonna have.

Now, when talking to girls always remember this, being concise and cute is all you need. Don't try and pull the conversation your way, keep it to about her and include little bits of your personal self in there that play off the things she says so that way she gets a sense of what you're about. Also, speak and text confidently, don't say things like I think or maybe we could hang out; put yourself in charge when it comes to stuff like that and be assertive but not demanding, ie: we should hang out, you should come over, etc.

There's probably some more I could say, but right now you don't need to have your mind blown. Just focus on getting your confidence and swag up and approaching girls with little tidbits that have potential of spawning some beastly conversation.

Oh yeah and if you're hanging out with a girl you like, make a move early in the relationship so she knows you're interested in her. That move doesn't have to be kissing her the first time you're together, but maintain simple physical contact (I forgot to mention this before, but always always always look into a girl's eyes when you're talking and occasionally glance away at the sky or just to the right or left of her and dart your attention back to those globes). If she's sitting down in front of you, run your fingers slowly along the side of her calves (don't venture higher than two inches above the knees unless you've had a really good hook up), rub your thumbs gently along the inside of her knees, etc. When greeting girls from now on give them the light lovehandle squeeze and hugging always place your hands on her lower back (when walking past girls in semi-crowded areas, place your hand on her lower back and you could look back to the do the smile slash wink if you want, but don't do it every time, only with those girls that have really lovely smiles).

Get it in, bro.

One last thing, never ever ever ask a girl for her name. Always introduce yourself first (just say I'm blank btw) and she'll tell you hers.

That sounded pretty solid except for the rubbing and squeezing, that sounded kinda creepy especially if you just met her

Johnny always going in for the kill...i'd love grab a beer with this guy I think he would have me laughing the whole night...but good advice.

 

[airnoel2345]

Just gotta be confident bro. Not cocky tho. Confidence is the key. You dont have anything to lose, but something to gain, so why not just go out and chat around. Small talk at first with anyone you spot... just start with the usual stuff "how ya doin?" "where ya from? (granted this girl isnt from your school)" etc etc. Gotta make it seem like you're comfortable with the situation even tho deep down you may not be. By the pics theres nothin wrong with you... look older then 17 tho 

 but thats all good. Another thing, if you do catch one... dont get too attached, being as how you dont talk to many women you may get a little clingy with the new situation. Just chill, no girl wants that. Itll chase em away. Youre 17 and got a long way to go. Many more will come after that first one.

 

[airnoel2345]

Just gotta be confident bro. Not cocky tho. Confidence is the key. You dont have anything to lose, but something to gain, so why not just go out and chat around. Small talk at first with anyone you spot... just start with the usual stuff "how ya doin?" "where ya from? (granted this girl isnt from your school)" etc etc. Gotta make it seem like you're comfortable with the situation even tho deep down you may not be. By the pics theres nothin wrong with you... look older then 17 tho 

 but thats all good. Another thing, if you do catch one... dont get too attached, being as how you dont talk to many women you may get a little clingy with the new situation. Just chill, no girl wants that. Itll chase em away. Youre 17 and got a long way to go. Many more will come after that first one.

 

[dirtylicious]

first.....learn how to chat with girls you don't know w/o an agenda in mind
this will get you comfortable with talking up girls period

then work on your "game"

 

[dirtylicious]

first.....learn how to chat with girls you don't know w/o an agenda in mind
this will get you comfortable with talking up girls period

then work on your "game"

 

[weekz]

Originally Posted by Boi

My dude, are you glasses shaded?

they go shaded in the sun

 

[weekz]

Originally Posted by Boi

My dude, are you glasses shaded?

they go shaded in the sun