Niketalk....I need to talk to you about a woman and #metoo

[Top Boy]

For everything Brolic stated last page I still recommend you pass.

It's not like we're saying you need to ghost her... If she's a good friend you can keep her around and help her with her issues if that's what you want to do....

but you need to put yourself first or no one will. Love is definitely not something relegated to one individual in your lifetime.

You should really take the time to process this--you'll be fighting an uphill battle with this chick for YEARS with no guarantee of a preferable end if she even has the strength to get over it.

Im not sure if you're anxious about finding love again or what, but its definitely possible.

You're not being objective.

 

[Deleted member 42060]

Wow, never seen at this angle fam. I seen her hang around her bffs, lotta them females. At this point, I thought I was ready, but it looks like shes not

 

[Barbados Slim]

I thought #meToo was about sexual harassment. Being abused and groped as a child I think goes beyond that. Awful to hear.

Anyway, well l OP no disrespect but you gotta move on. You're talking about love and wanting to wife up this women, but you haven't even gone on a date and your only indication of her feeling the same way about you is "flitery smiles"...You're trying to friendship your way into being her man, and that's a long shot. If I were you, I would get her the help she needs, stay friends, and look for a wifey else where.

Hold up!

only chick i really knew. Im not the type to move on. Really beautiful to me.

And you're 31?! Dude I don't think you actually love her as much as you think you do. I'm sure she's great, but I think you're mistaking your urge to smash with love.
How I envision this playing out. 31yrd dude that hasn't been with a girl + girl with a history of abuse + friends for 3 years + marriage = disaster. If you get her the help she needs, yall end up together and god forbid she leaves you or cheats!.... I have a feeling you would turn into Kevin Spacey in Seven.

 

[ahat]

Ya i dunno if youre actually in love with her. Maybe lust.

The way youre explaining it, yall havent really done anything together so how could you love her?

 

[Deleted member 42060]

Damn, reality check.
People kinda throwing #meToo with rape/assault, abuse, molest, grope etc.

People who even verbally emotionally mentally harassed using #meToo tag

 

[Deleted member 42060]

Ya i dunno if youre actually in love with her. Maybe lust.

The way youre explaining it, yall havent really done anything together so how could you love her?

I love her, never confirmed from her about me. Ever since this news I think I told her at the wrong time or some. Yea i will say she is very fine. But so is her personality, minus attitude time to time. I try to overlook that

 

[jape]

you are in love with her but you don't really know her
to whom does this man belong?

 

[Master Zik]

There's nothing you can do other than be sensitive about the subject and support her.

I still approach and try to be intimate with females the same way. Cuz I realized - not counting my years from JHS to HS and some college - just about every chick around my age I meet, unfortunately, has been violated.

 

[Deleted member 42060]

She has a lot of hesitation. I want to make time, I want to build trust, but that's what is hard for her. Female company is comfortable for her. She is straight, but she thinking she wanna put her career ahead of marriage, kids.

 

[Nereyda Vuelve Por Dios]

Only chick i knew i love. Once I love i want to be serious

I need you to understand that you have know she loves you back. You have to not risk your emotional health for someone who won't reciprocate the sentiment.

Worst thing is loving someone who emotionally can't match the same energy.

 

[Deleted member 42060]

I hear yall