- May 8, 2006
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youre thinking too much. Put as little thought in to the matter as possible and go for it.
No Confidence FTL Vol. I'm Pathetic
- Thread in 'General' Thread starter Started by mitchellicious,
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- Jul 14, 2008
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LOL sounds like me.
- Jan 14, 2004
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http://www.theattractionforums.com/
http://www.theattractionf...r/64187-fearlessness.html
http://www.theattractionf...esteem-vs-confidence.html
you have a lot of work to do on yourself, its all mental and can be acheieved, i used to be like you 6 years ago, now i get almost any girl i want
get started on your "inner game"
http://www.theattractionf...r/64187-fearlessness.html
http://www.theattractionf...esteem-vs-confidence.html
you have a lot of work to do on yourself, its all mental and can be acheieved, i used to be like you 6 years ago, now i get almost any girl i want
get started on your "inner game"
- Dec 11, 2007
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two words
wolf shirt
wolf shirt
- May 11, 2006
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I know what your talking about
- Apr 13, 2007
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I can attest to the "inner game" you speak of. Never knew there was an actual term for it besides just being comfortable with yourself.
OP:
You seem to know your good qualities, but you're obvious lack of confidence in yourself prevents you from letting girls know what you're about.
Do this, try and strike up a conversation with anyone you see. Girls, guys, homeless dudes, whatever. It'll help prepare you to become more sociable whenthe situation arrives. Talk about current events, the weather, anything. Add jokes and genuinely try and have them become your friend, if only for the 1 minuteyou talk to them. Do this enough, and it will carry onto situations when you talk with girls you're interested in.
Smile more, I know you don't do it enough, if at all. Force it if you have to, fake it till it becomes plastered over your face.
What do you have to offer girls? I mean seriously. Find this out, and you'll be one step closer to overcoming this.
Read the forums like the dude posted above, prepare a few quirky lines and come up with cool stories to tell
- Feb 27, 2007
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CLIFF NOTES:
- I am funny, smart and attractive but can't talk to women
- I take lots of L's
- I feel like Karl Malone
- I sometimes do not deserve a penis
elaborate
- Oct 5, 2006
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Post your pic and i'll tell you the truth . otherwise the part about you being smart, funny and attractive is a ducktale
- Apr 8, 2007
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bro ur not the only one
the only girl's I talk are usually the ones that approach me
the only girl's I talk are usually the ones that approach me
- Sep 4, 2006
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I can relate to you man
. It's that damn fear of rejection that I need to get over.
- Oct 12, 2007
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Originally Posted by maddog345
I can relate to you man. It's that damn fear of rejection that I need to get over.
thats wat it is bo.
lu cash
Banned
- Dec 30, 2008
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All you gotta do is talk, that's it, and if you're scared of rejection just remember that you're probably never going to see that girl again.It's as simple as that.
- May 20, 2008
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dude there is a huge topic about hollering at girls on facebook and myspace. Start there and work your way into real life scenarios. I think the most popularline is hey can i borrow you.... start small and build your way up
- Jan 18, 2008
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Originally Posted by maddog345
I can relate to you man. It's that damn fear of rejection that I need to get over.
- Jan 3, 2008
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Originally Posted by Mitchellicious
So, I it turns out I have no idea how to talk to women. None, nada, zip, zilch. Everytime I try to ask one out or tell them I how I feel about them, I choke up and when I do get around to it, I'm either too late (eg. they get boyfriends) or they're just not interested (eg. they hook up with another guy right in front of me). There was one girl that I really dug for awhile and she told me that I never take things seriously. That really hurt.
I've taken so many losses over the last couple of years that I really can't be bothered trying anymore. I can't even speak to girls when I'm on the drink now cos I'm so shook by all the L's. I'm only 20 and my prime is going to waste. I feel like Karl Malone.
I swear sometimes I don't even deserve a penis.
EDIT: It's only 9:44 PM in Australia, but I'll put cliff notes anyways
CLIFF NOTES:
- I am funny, smart and attractive but can't talk to women
- I take lots of L's
- I feel like Karl Malone
- I sometimes do not deserve a penis
The Kid Fiasco said it the best, You don't take a L for trying. You just got to keep livin and learnin. women come and go like season, and each season isdifferent. learn why u didn't get the girl (in terms of execution, not personality and all that because that's you) and work from there.
If one thing i ever learned from women was.....the worst a girl can say is "No".
- May 13, 2008
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I am just like you OP
20 with little to no game
Last time I saw this girl that I was eyeing for a while. SHe gave me what I thought were the proper signals for me to approach and talk. I manage to just go upto her and ask her what her name was. As I approached her she gave me a smile and I said
"Hi, whats your name" - something basic and simple, no pick up lines just an intro that could have gone right only if she would have given a grown upanswer but that was not the case she answered
her: " A sick one"
me: "Umm what?"
me: lol "what was your name again"
her: "A sick one"
me: O_O
then she began walking away and I just wondered what the hell she meant or was talking about smh
20 with little to no game
Last time I saw this girl that I was eyeing for a while. SHe gave me what I thought were the proper signals for me to approach and talk. I manage to just go upto her and ask her what her name was. As I approached her she gave me a smile and I said
"Hi, whats your name" - something basic and simple, no pick up lines just an intro that could have gone right only if she would have given a grown upanswer but that was not the case she answered
her: " A sick one"
me: "Umm what?"
me: lol "what was your name again"
her: "A sick one"
me: O_O
then she began walking away and I just wondered what the hell she meant or was talking about smh
- May 13, 2008
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pics?
- Feb 25, 2006
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we've all taking L's
get back up and keep trying , its good to be nice but put your foot down when push comes to shove.
and uhh just go for it..nothing really to lose..everything to gain
get back up and keep trying , its good to be nice but put your foot down when push comes to shove.
and uhh just go for it..nothing really to lose..everything to gain
- Apr 8, 2007
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Originally Posted by UbUiBeMe
Originally Posted by maddog345
I can relate to you man. It's that damn fear of rejection that I need to get over., rejection is where a chick in the club is dancin' and you try to hop on real smooth and she hits you with the polite "No thank you", then you're likeand go back to your boys for comfort...
