Well it got 2 pages deep before **** got out of hand. Much appreciated
I don't think that's the case but that's beyond my control either way.
It's all fun and games until she run into that one dude who gives her the LD better than you, relationship downhill after that
That could definitely happen and it's one of my primary concerns. It depends on the strength of the other facets of the relationship though imo.
Like dude who mentioned the lady who is getting divorced after 18yrs. Clearly her sexual needs were not being met but was the rest of relationship a mess also? Or could the couple have come to an agreement to explore other partners within the relationship?
As long as you don't mind her getting piped down and her face showered with another man's juice....then is fair game....enjoy.
Again that's going to be tough to swallow

But imagine becoming cool with that? Women would have zero power over you
Do you, OP.
I'll give you my opinion and tell you to move on to another girl. You're better off being single but make sure you have a few prospects lined up before doing so. I don't think you want to find out she's been smashing dudes already you barely open to the idea of an open relationship.
I've been single so i've played that position. Sex without intimacy for me is no where near as rewarding in my experience. It's fun in the moment but once that load has been buss
So because THIS one girl can't satisfy your needs, you're just going to say it's unrealistic to be monogamous.
She's just not the one, and the day you find that girl, you'll change your mind.
After being with somebody 12 years, I can tell you it's completely realistic to be completely satisfied by one woman.
Just be single and live freely. Why box yourself in, in a non-monogamous relationship if you don't want a relationship? There are no pros to it, just cons.
This is the best relationship i've been in on every level and my needs are definitely being met at this point. Being single doesn't compare.
I don't think being monogamous is impossible and i'm sure there's couples out there who are completely satisfied in those relationships.
It may sound backwards but i'm only open to the idea of other sexual partners so i can maintain a healthy, transparent relationship.
This may all end in disaster but i feel like i'm acting in my best interests
Yeah to accept an open relationship means you never took the time to really understand women beyond a base level. The dude with the better pipe game will have her dolo after that.
I think it's quite the opposite. A lot of guys wouldn't even have the conversation cause they don't want to face the reality that their woman may have desires for other people. And again that dude is always going to be out there. If she wants to seek that she gonna do it with or without my consent. **** is beyond my control.
It's definitely not for me but to each his own. I would never be OK with knowing another dude has my girl *** up and she's giving him dome, swallowing, etc. That would drive me crazy but if you're cool with that then whatever. Make sure you cover ground rules about safe sex. P ain't worth dying over.
I don't think that non-monogamous relationships can work long term. That emotional bond will break and eventually y'all are just gonna be **** buddies. Then again I come from a very traditional household (parents been married for over 40 years) so I might just be a conservative on this issue. When you're single go out there and sow your wild oats but when you're ready to settle down you need to do just that. Not cheating isn't that hard.
I respect your position fam. I don't think there's any definitive right way of doing things when it comes to this ****.
Sure as **** there's non monogamous relationships that go up in flames same way that regular relationships do.
When it comes down to it i think you just have to be honest with yourself. What do really want, rather than what is expected of you. And can you fulfil those wants and needs in a healthy, non destructive manner.