NT, am I tripping?

[iblink]

I'll make it breif:

Girlfriend went back to Jamaica for summer.
She has her whole life back home (past relationships, friends, etc)
We've only been dating for about 3 months
She hasn't called me since thursday.
She told me she "used to" like partying and all that crap at home
She calls me about 10 minutes ago telling me she's been sick, sleeping, and spending time with her family and that's why she's failed to call me.

Am I tripping to think she's lying?

 

[northparkblind]

pics?

 

[iblink]

NO PICS! I've posted her pictures before. Jeeze. Answer the question or not.

 

[concordefliteschool]

pics? and no you ain't trippin because she definitely doin dirt. Plus it ain't cheap to call international coupled with that, shes gone for the summerlive it up!

 

[gabegrams]

Ya been together for 3 months. Do you, don't call her act mad nonchalant and then visit her at the end of the summer if you really like her on somesurprise %*+. If she doing something on the low at there then eff it, you in Jamaica and have fun like it ain't nothing. She gon be on you tip after that.

 

[jayhood23]

She might not be lying, when people go back home they tend to fall back into their lives there and forget about things/people....3 months isnt long. You'reinsignificant to her because you can't do anything for her while she's there

 

[executive76]

Originally Posted by northparkblind

pics?

I wouldn't say you're tripping because she did give you a pretty lame excuse


but it's only been 3 days let her breathe....

 

[capricorn1229]

If you don't trust her and your gut if telling you something is shady let it fade to black. There is nothing you can do. She could really be hanging withher family tho but you don't trust her so...*shrugs*

 

[iblink]

I'm not going to Jamaica to spy on the broad. I'm too old for the kiddy mess. That's why I'm asking the question, because if I'm nottripping, then she's playing games and I'm gotta cut her loose as soon as I hear her again. I don't have time to waste on girls who aren't onthe same page as me.

 

[r0yalty]

RIP
























to her insides.

 

[russoull]

Originally Posted by iBlink

I'll make it breif:

Girlfriend went back to Jamaica for summer.
She has her whole life back home (past relationships, friends, etc)
We've only been dating for about 3 months
She hasn't called me since thursday.
She told me she "used to" like partying and all that crap at home
She calls me about 10 minutes ago telling me she's been sick, sleeping, and spending time with her family and that's why she's failed to call me.

Am I tripping to think she's lying?

Nah, she probably is. Lookin at the Time frame, sounds like she's more busy partyin/chillin. If I'm at home sick, or with family...IALWAYS check my phone and etc. to kill time. No way in hell do I get TOO busy to hit people up when I'm doin nothin but spendin time with family or athome.

 

[northparkblind]

Originally Posted by iBlink

NO PICS! I've posted her pictures before. Jeeze. Answer the question or not.

this is NT.

a pic is always needed.

but to help you out, no.

i dont think your tripping.

your just worried for her which seems fine.

but dont go overboard on it.

 

[iblink]

JayHood23

.3 months isnt long. You're insignificant to her because you can't do anything for her while she's there

See, the thing is that she gave off the impression that the relationship meant a lot to her. All she told me prior to her departure is how she wanted ME to befaithful and to help her make this work (I've been skeptical about a long distance relationship from the jump). So my thing is, don't lie to my faceand go back on your word.

 

[ericberry14]

and this is the same girl you made that %$!+@%% thread about?

how you guys just clicked so perfectly & blah blah blah... now as soon as she leave yall bouta break up...

well like everybody told you in the first thread... you shoulda just got her pregnant... then none of this would be happening

 

[gabegrams]

Eh, I'm not saying spy on her. I said go out there to visit.

Like I said ya been together for 3months. most likely it's not that serious of a relationship to her and she gon wanna do her.

 

[timelessflight]

Originally Posted by iBlink

I'll make it breif:

Girlfriend went back to Jamaica for summer.
She has her whole life back home (past relationships, friends, etc)
We've only been dating for about 3 months
She hasn't called me since thursday.
She told me she "used to" like partying and all that crap at home
She calls me about 10 minutes ago telling me she's been sick, sleeping, and spending time with her family and that's why she's failed to call me.

Am I tripping to think she's lying?

Looks like you're waiting for her to do the calling, Why don't you give her a call, unless she didn't take a phone with her on the trip.

 

[iblink]

Originally Posted by Russoull

Originally Posted by iBlink

I'll make it breif:

Girlfriend went back to Jamaica for summer.
She has her whole life back home (past relationships, friends, etc)
We've only been dating for about 3 months
She hasn't called me since thursday.
She told me she "used to" like partying and all that crap at home
She calls me about 10 minutes ago telling me she's been sick, sleeping, and spending time with her family and that's why she's failed to call me.

Am I tripping to think she's lying?

Nah, she probably is. Lookin at the Time frame, sounds like she's more busy partyin/chillin. If I'm at home sick, or with family...I ALWAYS check my phone and etc. to kill time. No way in hell do I get TOO busy to hit people up when I'm doin nothin but spendin time with family or at home.

That's what I'm saying. She's telling me that in the course of 3 days, she couldn't pick up the phone for 5 minutes? During a WEEKEND inJAMAICA?

My thing is, if she wants to go out with her peoples, go ahead... but don't lie and don't have me worried.

 

[iblink]

Originally Posted by TimelessFlight

Originally Posted by iBlink

I'll make it breif:

Girlfriend went back to Jamaica for summer.
She has her whole life back home (past relationships, friends, etc)
We've only been dating for about 3 months
She hasn't called me since thursday.
She told me she "used to" like partying and all that crap at home
She calls me about 10 minutes ago telling me she's been sick, sleeping, and spending time with her family and that's why she's failed to call me.

Am I tripping to think she's lying?

Looks like you're waiting for her to do the calling, Why don't you give her a call, unless she didn't take a phone with her on the trip.

She used a calling card to call me, so I have no clue what number to call for her.

Trust me, I have no problem calling the girl I'm with.

 

[elocin023]

With what you said, trust her.
First off in 3 months you should have some idea of if she is on the same page with you or not.
It's only been a couple of days. See what happens in the next few weeks.

 

[iblink]

Originally Posted by ericberry14

well like everybody told you in the first thread... you shoulda just got her pregnant... then none of this would be happening

Dude get outta here with that

 

[slick rick]

You are falling...smh

 

[jayhood23]

Originally Posted by iBlink

JayHood23

.3 months isnt long. You're insignificant to her because you can't do anything for her while she's there

See, the thing is that she gave off the impression that the relationship meant a lot to her. All she told me prior to her departure is how she wanted ME to be faithful and to help her make this work (I've been skeptical about a long distance relationship from the jump). So my thing is, don't lie to my face and go back on your word.

Maybe she wants you to chase her, I can't call it on this one fam.....thats odd behavior. She probably fed you all those lines so you wouldhave you on reserve when she gets back.

 

[ericberry14]

Originally Posted by iBlink

Originally Posted by ericberry14

well like everybody told you in the first thread... you shoulda just got her pregnant... then none of this would be happening

Dude get outta here with that

you laughin... but i bet if she was pregnant she wouldnt be out gettin her guts beat out by some random jamaican dude...

 

[iblink]

You're definitely not helping.

 

[Gill Baka Esq. LLC.]

Man these long distance relationships are a major pain in the $#@ as well as probably not working out in the end. She could be sick or she could be partyingthere is no real way for us to tell you what's going on, you gotta feel this thing out for yourself, but 3 months isn't even that long.

If I was you personally I would just drop her or tell her you can't go without someone for a whole summer. Tell her when she gets back maybe you guys canhook back up but homie you gotta live your life and it would've been a different story if ya'll had been together for atleast a year but 3 months istoo short for her to just up and leave you like that.