NT Doctors enter vol. Mens Health for the sexually active

[flyny]

Real talk, no jokes.
When having sexual intercourse, and "finishing", do you instantly regenerate in order to "go again"?

After I finish, i soften up for a minute, but with the right "stimulation" i can return for a 2nd round. 

Heres the issue, any of you all have the problem where you guys cannot "finish" the 2nd time. Either you don't finish or you soften up mid stroke.

Has anyone experienced this, and if yes, what did you all do? This happened to me around 2 times in the past 2 years. Is it my organ getting bored?

 

[Deleted member 38182]

yes

 

[dipsetgeneral]

My third leg hurts after i buss' and try to get hard again. It's a sore-type of feeling

 

[mycoldyourdone]

take a heavy and lift multi

 

[monstar1]

Originally Posted by FlyNY

Real talk, no jokes.
When having sexual intercourse, and "finishing", do you instantly regenerate in order to "go again"?

After I finish, i soften up for a minute, but with the right "stimulation" i can return for a 2nd round. 

Heres the issue, any of you all have the problem where you guys cannot "finish" the 2nd time. Either you don't finish or you soften up mid stroke.

Has anyone experienced this, and if yes, what did you all do? This happened to me around 2 times in the past 2 years. Is it my organ getting bored?

  

 

[ruxxx]

@ MonStar.

I'm sorry OP.

 

[dbailey86]

after i get mines i just chill out for a while til im ready again but imma finish that second time cuz im too old for blue balls

 

[Gill Baka Esq. LLC.]

I mean I think it's a known fact that the 2nd go round you last longer ...I don't know about not finishing though...I always finish it just takes time...maybe your partner/imagination isn't up to par...?

 

[me no pass]

dude came back to NT and been going ham with the thread making

 

[tecca nena]

You should be practicing kagels... Right before you are about to bust .. Stop and work your kagels preventing you from ejaculation... You get a mini orgasm... You will have the energy to continue a second, 3 rd, 4th ... round with each orgasm getting bigger and bigger... When you finally do bust itll be so rediculously deep and spiritual.. It kind of sounds like you are getting shallow orgasms..


Of course these methods are easier said than done.. If you've trained your body to ejaculate immediately every time and havent trained your pc muscles its like training a part of your body you never knew you could

 

[sillyputty]

This might break that myth...



*shrug*




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[h1]Good Sexual Intercourse Lasts Minutes, Not Hours, Therapists Say[/h1]

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Couple in Hawaii. Satisfactory sexual intercourse for couples lasts from 3 to 13 minutes, contrary to popular fantasy about the need for hours of sexual activity, according to a survey of U.S. and Canadian sex therapists. (Credit: iStockphoto/Justin Horrocks)

ScienceDaily (Mar. 31, 200 — Satisfactory sexual intercourse for couples lasts from 3 to 13 minutes, contrary to popular fantasy about the need for hours of sexual activity, according to a survey of U.S. and Canadian sex therapists.

Penn State Erie researchers Eric Corty and Jenay Guardiani conducted a survey of 50 full members of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research, which include psychologists, physicians, social workers, marriage/family therapists and nurses who have collectively seen thousands of patients over several decades.

Thirty-four, or 68 percent, of the group responded and rated a range of time amounts for sexual intercourse, from penetration of the vagina by the penis until ejaculation, that they considered adequate, desirable, too short and too long.

The average therapists' responses defined the ranges of intercourse activity times: "adequate," from 3-7 minutes; "desirable," from 7-13 minutes; "too short" from 1-2 minutes; and "too long" from 10-30 minutes.

"A man's or woman's interpretation of his or her sexual functioning as well as the partner's relies on personal beliefs developed in part from society's messages, formal and informal," the researchers said. ""Unfortunately, today's popular culture has reinforced stereotypes about sexual activity. Many men and women seem to believe the fantasy model of large penises, rock-hard erections and all-night-long intercourse. "

Past research has found that a large percentage of men and women, who responded, wanted sex to last 30 minutes or longer.

"This seems a situation ripe for disappointment and dissatisfaction," said lead author Eric Corty, associate professor of psychology. "With this survey, we hope to dispel such fantasies and encourage men and women with realistic data about acceptable sexual intercourse, thus preventing sexual disappointments and dysfunctions."

Corty and Guardiani, then-undergraduate student and now a University graduate, are publishing their findings in the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, but the article is currently available online.

The survey's research also has implications for treatment of people with existing sexual problems.

"If a patient is concerned about how long intercourse should last, these data can help shift the patient away from a concern about physical disorders and to be initially treated with counseling, instead of medicine," Corty noted.

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The real answer is here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Refractory_period_(sex)

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[h1]Refractory period (sex)[/h1]
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In sexuality, the refractory period is the recovery phase after (normally male) orgasm during which it is physiologically impossible for an individual to have additional orgasms. Most men are unable to maintain or achieve an erection during this time, and many perceive a psychological feeling of "satiation" and are temporarily uninterested in further sexual activity. The penis may be hypersensitive and further sexual stimulation may even feel painful during this time frame.

The refractory period varies widely among individuals and across species, ranging from minutes to days.[sup][1][/sup] An increased infusion of the hormone oxytocin during ejaculation is believed to be chiefly responsible for the refractory period and the amount by which oxytocin is increased may affect the length of each refractory period.[sup][2][/sup] Another chemical which is considered to be responsible for this effect is prolactin, which represses dopamine, which is responsible for sexual arousal.[sup][3][/sup]

Unlike most men, most women do not experience a refractory period immediately after orgasm and in many cases are capable of attaining additional, multiple orgasms through further stimulation.[sup][1][/sup] The female sexual response is more varied than that of men, and there are many women who experience clitoral hypersensitivity after orgasm, which effectively creates a refractory period. These women may be capable of further orgasms, but the pain involved in getting there makes the prospect undesirable.[sup][4][/sup]

According to some studies, 18-year-old males have a refractory period of about 15 minutes, while those in their 70s take about 20 hours, with the average for all men being about a half-hour.[sup][5][/sup] Although rarer, some males exhibit no refractory period or a refractory period lasting less than 10 seconds.[sup][6][/sup] This, however, is not a lack of a refractory period per se (the ability to achieve another orgasm), but rather the ability to maintain an erection and resume sex immediately, whether to orgasm or not.

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essentially, the question is, SHOULD we keep going for the sake of doing so or is there a biological substrate behind this?




is it unrealistic to just accept that we're not supposed to be screwing that long? Who knows. Maybe the question of "getting it back up" is one out of greed and not necessity. 




I remember hearing something in an anthropology sex and biology class that said there might be some theory explaining it in favor of sexual selection or something...but none of it can be shown one way or another. I don't remember.




There is also stuff that shows that simply creating sperm and the related "stuff" (seminal fluids, energy sources for sperm, etc) costs a fair amount of energy... 

Then you also have to account for the refractory period. During orgasm, there is a spike in prolactin (and amts of oxytocin) which tends to repress sexual desires for a period of time. If I remember properly there is also a neurological time period that has to elapse before the body can "shoot" again. Its kinda like how your neurons HAVE to re-polarize their membranes before they fire again. 




You should also look into stuff like this: 




The Human sexual response cycle: http://en.wikipedia.org/w...an_sexual_response_cycle

la petite mort: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/La_petite_mort

Post-coital tristesse: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-coital_tristesse




Those basically high light feelings and related physiological responses before, during and after sex.




Hope that answers your question. 

 

[moonman818]

I love to smash, but after about 20 minutes, I get bored/tired.

If you really need to have sex for longer than 15 or 20 minutes per nut, you're not hitting it right.

 

[dead stokc]

Try pulling out EVERYTIME. Its harder to keep going when u "finish" in it, no pun.

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by MoonMan818

I love to smash, but after about 20 minutes, I get bored/tired.

 

[bleed05]

What's the point of smashing 2 hours...like really???

 

[Peep Game]

It really just depends on the person. More than 10 years of track/cross country has given me crazy stamina (for better or worse).
Sometimes right after I've finished, I'm still erect, and then I'll go again...finish....and still be erect. The most that's happened to
me is 4 times, and in between the 3rd and 4th time, I was BEGGING for a release and finish, even getting to the point where I
just make a random noise as if I get finish and just roll the ^#& over cause I wanna call it a day

As far as your "organ getting bored", here's another question, do you watch excessive amounts of p0rn, AND fap excessively?
If that's the case, STOP IT

 

[veintisiete]

stop underestimating your refractory periods and youll be ok. now go.

 

[beware the underdog]

Originally Posted by Mycoldyourdone

take a heavy and lift multi

  

 

[mister916]

I could keep going. Don't know how. I just do.

 

[soversotowel]

Originally Posted by MonStar1

Originally Posted by FlyNY

Real talk, no jokes.
When having sexual intercourse, and "finishing", do you instantly regenerate in order to "go again"?

After I finish, i soften up for a minute, but with the right "stimulation" i can return for a 2nd round. 

Heres the issue, any of you all have the problem where you guys cannot "finish" the 2nd time. Either you don't finish or you soften up mid stroke.

Has anyone experienced this, and if yes, what did you all do? This happened to me around 2 times in the past 2 years. Is it my organ getting bored?

  

 

[airphilippines]

I thought this would be about the post sex piss.

 

[sillyputty]

Originally Posted by AirPhilippines

I thought this would be about the post sex piss.

You talking about the stream that seems to go everywhere? 

Thats actually because dudes don't "clean" down there. Then when you go to take a leak it goes in like six directions...

Its literally clogged semen up there that is being forced out bit by bit. I have a friend who is a training to be a urologist who told me this. 

 

[phen0m]

Originally Posted by Dead Stokc

Try pulling out EVERYTIME. Its harder to keep going when u "finish" in it, no pun.

This.  BUT.. if you dont get around to a 2nd time, the regret..

 

[finnns2003]

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Originally Posted by MoonMan818

I love to smash, but after about 20 minutes, I get bored/tired.

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by sillyputty

Originally Posted by AirPhilippines

I thought this would be about the post sex piss.

You talking about the stream that seems to go everywhere? 

Thats actually because dudes don't "clean" down there. Then when you go to take a leak it goes in like six directions...

Its literally clogged semen up there that is being forced out bit by bit. I have a friend who is a training to be a urologist who told me this. 

My thang stays clean  and I still get this.