NT girl help please...

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Okay so I've been with my girl for about a year now and she is great and all that good stuff, but about a two months ago I began getting tired of the relationship stuff and I wanted to be single and have my fun. So instead of cheating on her I told her I wanted to break up because I don't want to do something to potentially hurt her, she went nuts and began crying and blowing up my phone for like a week and a half, in that week and a half I started messing with this girl i used to work with, I smashed it a couple of times... My girl wouldnt give up calling me crying her eyes out and it started making me feel bad so I got back with her. I told her about the co worker I messed with and she was hurt but she said we wasnt together so she claimed she got over it.

For the past week I started getting tired of the relationship again so I told her yesterday I want to be alone for a while and she said w/e ok and left me alone for the day, then last night I ended up smashing the old co worker again. This morning my girl calls me and me and tells me she knows I was with the old girl last night cause they have a mutual friend and all this mess about how I introduced the girl to my mother and how my mother loves the girl. I was super confused cause my mom never met the chick.

I ended up telling her her friend is lying and admitting i did mess with the girl and that i just want to be single again but the girl is nuts and doesnt want that.

How can I get this girl off my case, she claims that I love her and i'm just having issues which is causing me to do stupid things, when in reality i just want to be single and focus on my career while im still young.
What do i have to get her to leave me alone!!! she is nuts she will come to my house and wait for me all day and call me non stop if i try ignoring her... I need help...

sorry for long read.
 
Okay so I've been with my girl for about a year now and she is great and all that good stuff, but about a two months ago I began getting tired of the relationship stuff and I wanted to be single and have my fun. So instead of cheating on her I told her I wanted to break up because I don't want to do something to potentially hurt her, she went nuts and began crying and blowing up my phone for like a week and a half, in that week and a half I started messing with this girl i used to work with, I smashed it a couple of times... My girl wouldnt give up calling me crying her eyes out and it started making me feel bad so I got back with her. I told her about the co worker I messed with and she was hurt but she said we wasnt together so she claimed she got over it.

For the past week I started getting tired of the relationship again so I told her yesterday I want to be alone for a while and she said w/e ok and left me alone for the day, then last night I ended up smashing the old co worker again. This morning my girl calls me and me and tells me she knows I was with the old girl last night cause they have a mutual friend and all this mess about how I introduced the girl to my mother and how my mother loves the girl. I was super confused cause my mom never met the chick.

I ended up telling her her friend is lying and admitting i did mess with the girl and that i just want to be single again but the girl is nuts and doesnt want that.

How can I get this girl off my case, she claims that I love her and i'm just having issues which is causing me to do stupid things, when in reality i just want to be single and focus on my career while im still young.
What do i have to get her to leave me alone!!! she is nuts she will come to my house and wait for me all day and call me non stop if i try ignoring her... I need help...

sorry for long read.
 
Cliffnotes
-Been with girl a year
-Got bored wanted to be single
-Took a week break, smashed another girl
-Got back with girl
-Ended up smashing shorty again
-Want to break up but she wont leave me alone, how do i get her to go away?
 
Cliffnotes
-Been with girl a year
-Got bored wanted to be single
-Took a week break, smashed another girl
-Got back with girl
-Ended up smashing shorty again
-Want to break up but she wont leave me alone, how do i get her to go away?
 
pics of both girls please
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and we can go from there good ol chap
 
pics of both girls please
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and we can go from there good ol chap
 
I'm not relationship expert, but damn, your girl's got you in a chokehold. She can't leave you simply because she's obsessed with you, and you can't leave her because you're afraid of hurting her.
 
I'm not relationship expert, but damn, your girl's got you in a chokehold. She can't leave you simply because she's obsessed with you, and you can't leave her because you're afraid of hurting her.
 
The crazy ones are really tough to deal with hard to know what the right way to handle it is even if there is one. Had a girl literally kick in my door before b/c I wouldnt let her in.
 
The crazy ones are really tough to deal with hard to know what the right way to handle it is even if there is one. Had a girl literally kick in my door before b/c I wouldnt let her in.
 
Originally Posted by Fog Raw

I'm not relationship expert, but damn, your girl's got you in a chokehold. She can't leave you simply because she's obsessed with you, and you can't leave her because you're afraid of hurting her.

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Originally Posted by Fog Raw

I'm not relationship expert, but damn, your girl's got you in a chokehold. She can't leave you simply because she's obsessed with you, and you can't leave her because you're afraid of hurting her.

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Originally Posted by Fog Raw

I'm not relationship expert, but damn, your girl's got you in a chokehold. She can't leave you simply because she's obsessed with you, and you can't leave her because you're afraid of hurting her.
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Originally Posted by Fog Raw

I'm not relationship expert, but damn, your girl's got you in a chokehold. She can't leave you simply because she's obsessed with you, and you can't leave her because you're afraid of hurting her.
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