You have to work for it. If you want to have sex with a girl with a brain you have to put in that work without getting into the friend-zone.
Trial & Error worked for me. I would say I got lucky more than I failed but with failing I learned. I think a lot of men fail with girls in College until they get their swag right whether it be self confidence or self aware. Girls know who the confident ones from the weak ones. A lot of girls are self conscious so the last thing they need is someone who is ALSO self conscious.
I've skipped classes, cooked, painted, attended a punk rock concerts, did all kinds of things out of my norm to comfort the interests of different girls for the sake of keeping warm in my College dorm imageimageimageimage.
This is good advice. Best advice I've seen from anyone on this board on this subject... I'm seeing a lot of whatthehell.
LMAO Exactly. He must be hot...or charming otherwise.Originally Posted by TBONE95860
That probably just means you're good lookingOriginally Posted by Nktran001
I just tell them they look yummy.
Honest to goodness, that works all the time for me.
First it's a giggle, then she be like.. "So what's your name?"
Ain't no girl having that reaction if you're ugly
They'd be like
Yup. One of my biggest pet peeves is lines & empty compliments.
Originally Posted by Dylishis
Yup. One of my biggest pet peeves is lines & empty compliments.Very annoying and a huge turnoff.
Ghenges wrote:
She's not interested brah. If she was she'd have no problem making conversation.
Also the most important lesson of the day. lol
Sometimes, people are 'just not that into you'.
Originally Posted by 916JORDANboy
Originally Posted by DLo13
@ the shocker.
Originally Posted by solesavage
^ The only way that ever worked for me
Spot them out and do what? Is that advice for a man seeking a girl or for a predator trying to trap a timid animal?Originally Posted by blackmagnus514
females all have insecurities about something. spot those out.
read nonverbal communication
i wouldnt even talk to the center of attention because 1). she's been gassed, 2.) she's too focused on attention. the conservatively dress female with 1 friend is the best bet.
you'd be shocked @ what sarcasm and open ended questions will do for you
Originally Posted by Dylishis
Spot them out and do what? Is that advice for a man seeking a girl or for a predator trying to trap a timid animal?Originally Posted by blackmagnus514
females all have insecurities about something. spot those out.
read nonverbal communication
i wouldnt even talk to the center of attention because 1). she's been gassed, 2.) she's too focused on attention. the conservatively dress female with 1 friend is the best bet.
you'd be shocked @ what sarcasm and open ended questions will do for you
that's a part of beast mode... stalk your prey, then go in for the kill...Originally Posted by Dylishis
Spot them out and do what? Is that advice for a man seeking a girl or for a predator trying to trap a timid animal?Originally Posted by blackmagnus514
females all have insecurities about something. spot those out.
read nonverbal communication
i wouldnt even talk to the center of attention because 1). she's been gassed, 2.) she's too focused on attention. the conservatively dress female with 1 friend is the best bet.
you'd be shocked @ what sarcasm and open ended questions will do for you
get them talking about themselves. ask them questions, then when they answer them, ask them another question about what they just said, and ask how it made them feel. women love to talk about themselves,
What are we talking? Do you mean for a girl you just met? Like, you walk up to her and start asking her a bunch of questions? Or do you already know her andare trying to get to know her better?
Either way, I see a big flaw in that, if the girl is shy/quiet ...maybe she doesn't WANT to talk about herself.
Swag must be on point to do that.Originally Posted by Nktran001
I just tell them they look yummy.
Honest to goodness, that works all the time for me.
First it's a giggle, then she be like.. "So what's your name?"
