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To be less mean be more mean so you can be less mean you know what i mean?
NT i have a problem .... .
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jordan fetish
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I'm a mean person and i can't seem to change . Its getting to the point to where its pushing people i love out of my life . I try to change but itdoesn't ever last over a week . How can i make myself less mean ?
- Aug 23, 2008
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Mean??
First of all find out what "mean" means in your life. Do you do ruthless shady %##!?
Do you speak your mind too much to the detriment of other people?
Just learn to put yourself in other people's shoes and be slow to react. Think things thru more.
First of all find out what "mean" means in your life. Do you do ruthless shady %##!?
Do you speak your mind too much to the detriment of other people?
Just learn to put yourself in other people's shoes and be slow to react. Think things thru more.
- Nov 20, 2007
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Society force feeds a lot of nonsense. There's nothing wrong with being mean. It shouldn't be looked down upon. Being nice is overrated.
You shouldn't try to change naturally. It comes naturally and over time.
Those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind.
You shouldn't try to change naturally. It comes naturally and over time.
Those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind.
- Oct 17, 2008
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fasho cuz. i have this problem. for some reason i think of the most messed up things to say to people. for example i told this girl she might have more friendsif she stopped bringing them to donut shops and eating all their food. but i figured you can be a mean person if you make it up by becoming extrememly nice.for example #2 after i said that to that tubby chick i bought her donuts
jordan fetish
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im not shady at all . my bf sayd im unappreciative , that i always have an attitude and that i always bring him down for no reason . my bfsactually telling me right now how depressed he gets over it
- Feb 9, 2008
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eventually, you'll get to a point where you have no friends, and then you will have to be nicer to make more friends.
jordan fetish
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my friends are the same way so its fine . its my parents and my bf mostly
- Sep 28, 2005
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i don't think thats completely true...just cuz people care for you doesnt mean that have to put up with your %+!+...especially with something like beingmean...when its to the point you're pushing away people that care for you its more your problem and not theirs...not you of course but in general...i couldsee if we were just talking about people on the street but not people you care for and who care for you...
- Sep 8, 2007
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MAN, That's weird same here...
- Nov 20, 2007
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Emancipation and dump him
I been living by that for almost a decade now. Working fine for me. I should also emphasize that I'm not advocating being "mean"(since it's so subjective) but being yourself. I'll be myself with one group of ppl and it'll be gravy, I'll be myself with another group ofppl and I'll get comments of "That's mean", "Why'd you say that? That was so mean", "You're a mean person","You're an +*!@+#* A!"
The ppl that care for me and I care for know the type of person I am(and that should be in general for all ppl with friends and family). I don't go out ofmy way to demean them or w/e. I'm just me.
jordan fetish
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idk why though. i meanest to the ppl i love most
- Nov 21, 2006
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i rather tell people the truth, no reason to sugar coat %*%! to make people feel better about themselves in the long run they'll thank you for being realwith them
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You're prolly spendin more time with your friends than anyone else and got accustomed to it. I'm kinda the same way.
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lmao
- Sep 20, 2003
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How the hell did I miss this?
- May 25, 2008
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Learn to empathize and stop criticizing people. Direct criticism never works.
- Sep 19, 2004
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Was just thinking the same thing. Family > ___ Nothing is worth losing family over.
- Mar 5, 2009
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Im on the same boat man.I seem to not give a dam about anyone else besides my wife , my family, mainly mother and father and sisters.I dont even give a damabout some of my family too.I dont know why.For me, its "were cool, but once you do me wrong,WERE DONE!"I dont give second chances.Imma let you knowthat I dont like you PERIOD!If you dont get the hint, GO OFF YOURSELF!Dam , I NEED JESUS..
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pics?
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Try to get on Bully Beatdown. You'll have fame as well as getting that &%% whooped
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Is there an ulterior reason for this part of your attitude? Are you a negative person?
- Nov 17, 2007
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you need a vacation outside the United States
frijolero
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move to cali, i'll put something nice in u.
jordan fetish
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i dont really think about it . idk sometimes i think its just him being to sensitive
