Thia dude bs08 (pun intended) took the " this is gonna hurt me more than it hurts you" route. $$@% outta here tryna kick knowledge, like you doing anything other than releasing aggression on random occasions. If dude is having this problem he obviously hasn't been doing this long or is young. Why would he put himself through the awkwardness of speaking about it to the chick when he could go this route and maybe learn a few things? Unless he messing with a pro, the $$@% is she gonna tell him? She probably know as much as him. I remember when this is what general was about. Guys just kicking the %!+#, and helping each other out. A lot of you dudes is the reason this %!+# took a turn for the worse.