NT is this Wrong or Hypocritical?

[throwback1718]

I will keep this short.

Say you have a girl you were with for a while and you really loved, cared about her. Then you guys break up.
Now with your new found freedom you are getting new buns and medulla from other women.

Then after a little while, lets say 1-2 weeks or so, you want to make back up with your girl.
Would it be fair to make a "request" to her, telling her that while we are working on getting back together, "no sex, no men no nothing"

Is that hypocritical?

And keep it 100 NT. Try to not be biased on your conclusion.

 

[throwback1718]

I will keep this short.

Say you have a girl you were with for a while and you really loved, cared about her. Then you guys break up.
Now with your new found freedom you are getting new buns and medulla from other women.

Then after a little while, lets say 1-2 weeks or so, you want to make back up with your girl.
Would it be fair to make a "request" to her, telling her that while we are working on getting back together, "no sex, no men no nothing"

Is that hypocritical?

And keep it 100 NT. Try to not be biased on your conclusion.

 

[jayhood23]

Honestly that's probably something I would do, on second thought thats definitely something I would do....smh @ me

 

[jayhood23]

Honestly that's probably something I would do, on second thought thats definitely something I would do....smh @ me

 

[bostonthreeparty]

if during that time you were gettin buns and she 'wasn't' then yeah. its hypocritical

 

[bostonthreeparty]

if during that time you were gettin buns and she 'wasn't' then yeah. its hypocritical

 

[throwback1718]

Originally Posted by BostonThreeParty

if during that time you were gettin buns and she 'wasn't' then yeah. its hypocritical

but what exactly makes that hypocritical?

 

[throwback1718]

Originally Posted by BostonThreeParty

if during that time you were gettin buns and she 'wasn't' then yeah. its hypocritical

but what exactly makes that hypocritical?

 

[carefreejr]

In a most situations such a this one, it depends on someones opinions/views on whether something is hypocritical or not.  IMO if you are true to also having "no sex, men women no nothing" then it's all game seeing that you broke up and were really single.  But whether or not you tell her about all the buns you got during the break up period is up to you and if she asks you.

 

[carefreejr]

In a most situations such a this one, it depends on someones opinions/views on whether something is hypocritical or not.  IMO if you are true to also having "no sex, men women no nothing" then it's all game seeing that you broke up and were really single.  But whether or not you tell her about all the buns you got during the break up period is up to you and if she asks you.

 

[degenerate423]

Originally Posted by throwback1718

Would it be fair to make a "request" to her, telling her that while we are working on getting back together, "no sex, no men no nothing"

Is that hypocritical?

And keep it 100 NT. Try to not be biased on your conclusion.

No, it's only hypocritical if you're gonna go out and have sex with other women while telling her not too.  You had your flings with other women while you two were broken up, but now you're trying to get back together so it's not like you cheated on her.  If you broke up with her to chase other girls then decided you wanted her back then that's kinda wrong, but women do it all the time, so it's whatever

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[degenerate423]

Originally Posted by throwback1718

Would it be fair to make a "request" to her, telling her that while we are working on getting back together, "no sex, no men no nothing"

Is that hypocritical?

And keep it 100 NT. Try to not be biased on your conclusion.

No, it's only hypocritical if you're gonna go out and have sex with other women while telling her not too.  You had your flings with other women while you two were broken up, but now you're trying to get back together so it's not like you cheated on her.  If you broke up with her to chase other girls then decided you wanted her back then that's kinda wrong, but women do it all the time, so it's whatever

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[throwback1718]

Originally Posted by Degenerate423

Originally Posted by throwback1718

Would it be fair to make a "request" to her, telling her that while we are working on getting back together, "no sex, no men no nothing"

Is that hypocritical?

And keep it 100 NT. Try to not be biased on your conclusion.

No, it's only hypocritical if you're gonna go out and have sex with other women while telling her not too.  You had your flings with other women while you two were broken up, but now you're trying to get back together so it's not like you cheated on her.  If you broke up with her to chase other girls then decided you wanted her back then that's kinda wrong, but women do it all the time, so it's whatever

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exactly my thinking

 

[throwback1718]

Originally Posted by Degenerate423

Originally Posted by throwback1718

Would it be fair to make a "request" to her, telling her that while we are working on getting back together, "no sex, no men no nothing"

Is that hypocritical?

And keep it 100 NT. Try to not be biased on your conclusion.

No, it's only hypocritical if you're gonna go out and have sex with other women while telling her not too.  You had your flings with other women while you two were broken up, but now you're trying to get back together so it's not like you cheated on her.  If you broke up with her to chase other girls then decided you wanted her back then that's kinda wrong, but women do it all the time, so it's whatever

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exactly my thinking

 

[dirtylicious]

not hypocritical at all.. if you're going to do the same..

however, be prepared to answer questions/face the consequences of hooking up with girls within 1-2 weeks of breaking up.

 

[dirtylicious]

not hypocritical at all.. if you're going to do the same..

however, be prepared to answer questions/face the consequences of hooking up with girls within 1-2 weeks of breaking up.

 

[throwback1718]

so if it was the other way around, would I have right to bring up questions as to why she was hooking up with others in such a short time span?

 

[throwback1718]

so if it was the other way around, would I have right to bring up questions as to why she was hooking up with others in such a short time span?

 

[neukicks]

Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

not hypocritical at all.. if you're going to do the same..

however, be prepared to answer questions/face the consequences of hooking up with girls within 1-2 weeks of breaking up.

yup, thats about it. 

 

[neukicks]

Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

not hypocritical at all.. if you're going to do the same..

however, be prepared to answer questions/face the consequences of hooking up with girls within 1-2 weeks of breaking up.

yup, thats about it.