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Pmighty

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So last night i was told "sorry for my weird behavior but i jus need time to find myself" like #+@ does that mean? i dont get it. like has anyonehere said this or had this said to them before. this girl insists shes not calling it off but at the time she jus needs "my support, patience, andunderstanding"
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. She wont tell me whats wrong but says it hasnothing to do with us, which sounds kinda funny to me but w/e. But what does find myself mean though. Anyone care to help me understand
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at you trying to analyze females. Females are creatures of emotion so trying to tell what they're thinking / about to do is usually worthless.

If she keeps acting like that after a week get onto the next one. She's probably on her period or something
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lol.. one of my exes said this same thing verbatim to me. it's over, fam.. she's probably dealing with another dude by now and if not, she's notgoing to be the girlfriend you expect her to be. not to quote drake but, "until you find yourself, i could never lose you because i never had you."

just dead it now before you hold onto it and she takes you on an emotional odyssey. trust me.. i had this SAME EXACT THING happen to me and i was too dumb tosee the signs so i tried to stick with her and i experienced the worst emotional pain ever. and she later told me that when she told me, "i need time formyself" that she was already mentally detaching herself from me at that point so your girl is probably doing the same.
 
give her space. dont hit her up ... she prob thinks you'll chase her and that'll give her more of a reason to want space.
just leave her alone....and if she wants you shell hit u up...if not....take the L and move on
 
yea if it goes on for any period time, move on quick, same axact thing happened to my best freind, and it turned out his girl of a year and a half had aneating disorder and was really sick, its hard to realize something like that when you love someone, anyways even though he wanted to be there to support herwhich he did and is still with her, whatever is up with the girl could be really serious, and could really have her head +*%@$! up, you never know, and dealingwith something like that is tough, he wishes he got out earlyer but now he cant. If the girl really cares about you she will understand that we are too youngto be dealing with *#$@ like that and if you are meant to be you you will be back togeather some time later on.
 
It means she doesn't have the balls to completely cut it off because she doesn't have a back up plan.
 
I would believe that she's not into you anymore, and she might possibly be checking, or just catching feelings for another guy.
 
^agreed.

She wants you to stay committed to her while she explores her options. If she doesn't find a replacement, then she will come back around and settle foryou.

Break it off and explore your own options.
 
wow really. i mean thats what i was kind of thinking but shes not the type to hold her tongue about anything so if she wanted to call it off i think she wouldhave. and also this whole "find myself" talk is completely out the blue considering we had a nice #%$ wknd and the night before an ok conversationbut i mean idk
 
Originally Posted by Nawth21

It means she doesn't have the balls to completely cut it off because she doesn't have a back up plan.
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Yup, her needing space usually isn't a good thing. She doesn't want to put her all her eggs in one basket.
 
Originally Posted by Pmighty

So last night i was told "sorry for my weird behavior but i jus need time to find myself" like #+@ does that mean? i dont get it. like has anyone here said this or had this said to them before. this girl insists shes not calling it off but at the time she jus needs "my support, patience, and understanding"
grin.gif
. She wont tell me whats wrong but says it has nothing to do with us, which sounds kinda funny to me but w/e. But what does find myself mean though. Anyone care to help me understand
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?
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"Girls are like buses miss one next 15 another one coming!-Gucci #Burr!!
 
Originally Posted by Pmighty

wow really. i mean thats what i was kind of thinking but shes not the type to hold her tongue about anything so if she wanted to call it off i think she would have. and also this whole "find myself" talk is completely out the blue considering we had a nice #%$ wknd and the night before an ok conversation but i mean idk
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that was her way of saying goodbye.
 
Originally Posted by thytkerjobs

give her space. dont hit her up ... she prob thinks you'll chase her and that'll give her more of a reason to want space.
just leave her alone....and if she wants you shell hit u up...if not....take the L and move on
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THIS

May also be changing within herself and not sure if she wants the immediate life she envisions to involve you.
 
just leave it alone for now. get you about 2 to 3 freaks on the side until she wants you back. end of story
 
i think you've made her consider switching teams...she's confused and is trying to make the best choice
 
Originally Posted by Pmighty

So last night i was told "sorry for my weird behavior but i jus need time to find myself"
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stopped here...she's a dumb broad that doesnt know what she wants...theres alot of those out there

edit- gather n00dz and distribute before the breakup for satisfaction..even if a chick isnt my girl n00dz get posted when i get a %%%*!* vibe
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Hate to quote Hov... but:

ON TO THE NEXT, ON, ON TO THE NEXT ONE


But don't trip... she may come back and say she regets the decision. Make sure you have someone in your back pocket the same way she does.
 
Originally Posted by Nawth21

It means she doesn't have the balls to completely cut it off because she doesn't have a back up plan.
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or,


It means she doesn't have the balls to completely cut it off and tell you someone else is smashing.
 
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