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Since I've matured, I stopped doing the conflict in relationships. Of course there will be disagreements in every relationship, but act like adults.
It's weird, I really do think a lot of these women have mental issues, because when you don't engage in conflict the way they are used to, they take itas if you don't care.
I have to punch holes in walls to show I care?
I've got to scream like Lil John?
I have to put my hands on you and restrain you in order for you to act like you have sense?
Nah, I can't do it.
I love my black women, but I've ventured off into other races.
My theory is that it all boils down to how a person was raised. If they were reared in a volatile home, their norms and expectations will be different thanothers. It's a fact that there are many single parent house holds, and that many black families are dysfunctional.
However, most importantly, I think the biggest factor in how a lady interacts with her boyfriend/husband, is based on the relationship that she had with herfather growing up.
I hate to say this, but I don't think I'll ever deal with another lady who has any abandonment issues stemming from her father. Unfortunately, a lot ofblack women have those issues, and those issues will get projected on you in a minute.
I can't do it.
It's weird, I really do think a lot of these women have mental issues, because when you don't engage in conflict the way they are used to, they take itas if you don't care.
I have to punch holes in walls to show I care?
I've got to scream like Lil John?
I have to put my hands on you and restrain you in order for you to act like you have sense?
Nah, I can't do it.
I love my black women, but I've ventured off into other races.
My theory is that it all boils down to how a person was raised. If they were reared in a volatile home, their norms and expectations will be different thanothers. It's a fact that there are many single parent house holds, and that many black families are dysfunctional.
However, most importantly, I think the biggest factor in how a lady interacts with her boyfriend/husband, is based on the relationship that she had with herfather growing up.
I hate to say this, but I don't think I'll ever deal with another lady who has any abandonment issues stemming from her father. Unfortunately, a lot ofblack women have those issues, and those issues will get projected on you in a minute.
I can't do it.