Outside of the physical, how do you know a girl is worth it?

[Coromanti]

Basically what part of a girls mentality/personality/character traits gets you into her (or even gets you to fall in love with her?)

For me a girl who loves to debate without getting hurt/sad after or during is sexy af.

 

[chrisphreezy]

doesn't seek validation from others or from achievements (dat inner self belief)
confident but very humble
ambitious (very rare)
honest
can handle da rock

 

[jayzz]

.... Outside of Physical?

 

[johnnyredstorm]

Run the WAR System

0-2 is a smash and dash
2-4 is a **** buddy
4-6 is dateable
6+ you can consider a serious relationship

1 point for personality
1 point for each asset (face, chest, behind)
1 point if she has a good future
+/- 1 point if she's crazy/trustworthy
+/- 1 point if she can cook/clean/isn't dependent on you
1 point for how she is in the bedroom

 

[youngwolf]

If she makes me happy.

 

[stillin729]

if you want to see her for reasons other than getting it wet

 

[zapatohead408]

Usually if you still want her after fapping, I say go for it.

 

[Mark Antony]

Earning potential
Where she lies on the female craziness scale
Interests
Personality


Looks trumps all of these tho, I'm shallow. Earning potential is a close second.

Smh. My main chick wins all this and is cute, ferocious sex drive ... but a bit chubby. My mind won't let me wife. I'm fairly certain i'm copping a lifetime L here.

 

[D.Josey]

Usually if you still want her after fapping, I say go for it.

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[T Lo Sweater]

.... Outside of Physical?

Hi

 

[youngdoc]

Driven
Independent
Doesn't get jealous easily
Funny
Goofy
Likes sports at least a little bit
Affectionate
Thoughtful

I'm sure I'm forgetting some but It's pretty much a combo of fitting my personality plus being a good person

 

[fontaine]

I always admire the couples that go to the gym...

I think that is awesome...

How do you deal with it if your girl got a nice butt or an amazing rack?

I think i would be low key self conscious because the workout clothes show it ALL... And I KNOW I be staring...


Plus dudes in the gymb be ripped and handsome, no homosexual thoughts intended.

 

[suberzat1]

Couples at the gym seem like they be doing too much at time.

Like Is your girl really spotting you but I did see this one chick save her dudes life. Was like yea that's wife

 

[fontaine]

Couples at the gym seem like they be doing too much at time.

Like Is your girl really spotting you but I did see this one chick save her dudes life. Was like yea that's wife

how embarrassing is that ride home though

 

[nazdrowie]

if you can go out to eat with her, and you don't pay...

 

[SC kid]

If she fix u a plate and brings back a drink wit ice.

 

[1stwitit]

-If your morals and values match up
-if she allows you to be who you are
-if you would've hesitate to say "this is my lady"

Go ahead my brotha

 

[doublemesh96]

Couples at the gym seem like they be doing too much at time.

Like Is your girl really spotting you but I did see this one chick save her dudes life. Was like yea that's wife

nothing wrong with having a chick spot you

 

[suberzat1]

Couples at the gym seem like they be doing too much at time.

Like Is your girl really spotting you but I did see this one chick save her dudes life. Was like yea that's wife

how embarrassing is that ride home though

only thing I remember was her screaming and helping the bar up. I told my boy, dudes a chump for trying to lift heavy in front of his girl.

I will say if it was me I probably asking tay about techniques on eating box on the ride home.

 

[suberzat1]

Couples at the gym seem like they be doing too much at time.


Like Is your girl really spotting you but I did see this one chick save her dudes life. Was like yea that's wife

nothing wrong with having a chick spot you

I'll say more of couple bonding for her to be spotting

 

[kellyrep]

Smh. My main chick wins all this and is cute, ferocious sex drive ... but a bit chubby. My mind won't let me wife. I'm fairly certain i'm copping a lifetime L here.

Don't be that guy longing for her 10 years later. I have the same issue but the thought of a naked blubber belly... I'm aware that it's different when loves involved but intimacy needs attraction.

OP,

If a man actually makes me feel something.  I think it's worth it. I've literally planned out my day in the middle of making out. If I can do without seeing or hearing from him , it's a sign that it's not going anywhere. 

If he has a temper, is disrespectful, flirty with other women, and hides his hands too much at the beginning, it's done. I have no desire to be a safety net to leave a relationship.

 

[mike honcho]

Couples at the gym seem like they be doing too much at time.

Like Is your girl really spotting you but I did see this one chick save her dudes life. Was like yea that's wife

Saw this chick who couldn't take 225 off dudes neck the other day I had to run over and help smh

 

[gwap]

 

Couples at the gym seem like they be doing too much at time.

Like Is your girl really spotting you but I did see this one chick save her dudes life. Was like yea that's wife

how embarrassing is that ride home though

if you've never failed on a rep... you've never really trained hard

 

[suberzat1]

Couples at the gym seem like they be doing too much at time.

Like Is your girl really spotting you but I did see this one chick save her dudes life. Was like yea that's wife

Saw this chick who couldn't take 225 off dudes neck the other day I had to run over and help smh

Would you help this guy out if his girl couldn't take the weight off his neck

 

[combo gd]

If she was with you when you were doing great, and even more supportive and willing to be with you if you ever become down and out.