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i know.. this is NT and i am asking relationship questions.
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well how can i find out if this chick likes me?

story: keeping it short.

i have known her through work and known her for about 3 months. (she is a more conservative girl)

before all this, at work we do talk but not long conversation or anything cause she didnt seem interested in anything. but a month ago out of nowhere she asked for my phone#. i was like why not, make another friend.

and in the past 2 weeks we have been texting each other daily and 1 call every other night that last about 2 hrs, just chatting work and random things. i don't want to damage/ risk our current friendship.

because if i let her know i am interested in her but fails, it would be kind of hard to keep the friendship.

in the text i would kinda let her know she is attractive to me but not saying it straight out that i am interested in her.

every time i text that she is a hot girl or compliment her in someway, she would reply with i am a nice guy, sweet or a cutie etc that type of comments.

and would age make a difference? that is, she is older than me...
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she broke up with her last BF about 6 months ago because her BF cheated on her.

share your past experience/ advice, thanx NT.
 
i know.. this is NT and i am asking relationship questions.
smile.gif


well how can i find out if this chick likes me?

story: keeping it short.

i have known her through work and known her for about 3 months. (she is a more conservative girl)

before all this, at work we do talk but not long conversation or anything cause she didnt seem interested in anything. but a month ago out of nowhere she asked for my phone#. i was like why not, make another friend.

and in the past 2 weeks we have been texting each other daily and 1 call every other night that last about 2 hrs, just chatting work and random things. i don't want to damage/ risk our current friendship.

because if i let her know i am interested in her but fails, it would be kind of hard to keep the friendship.

in the text i would kinda let her know she is attractive to me but not saying it straight out that i am interested in her.

every time i text that she is a hot girl or compliment her in someway, she would reply with i am a nice guy, sweet or a cutie etc that type of comments.

and would age make a difference? that is, she is older than me...
eyes.gif


she broke up with her last BF about 6 months ago because her BF cheated on her.

share your past experience/ advice, thanx NT.
 
depends on whether youre initiating the majority of convos/texts, or whether shes always tryin to hit you up. 2 hour phone convos? thats a long time for just anyone...be subtle with your compliments...

or be forward and see what happens.
 
depends on whether youre initiating the majority of convos/texts, or whether shes always tryin to hit you up. 2 hour phone convos? thats a long time for just anyone...be subtle with your compliments...

or be forward and see what happens.
 
dood how old are you? Make a move, thats it. If she's wid it shes wid it. If she ain't, just play it koo.
 
dood how old are you? Make a move, thats it. If she's wid it shes wid it. If she ain't, just play it koo.
 
Originally Posted by kbweezy24

depends on whether youre initiating the majority of convos/texts, or whether shes always tryin to hit you up. 2 hour phone convos? thats a long time for just anyone...be subtle with your compliments...

or be forward and see what happens.
after getting my #. she initiate the first text. just randomly telling me that she is at work etc. other times i would text her to see whats up with her.

yea i agree with my compliments. it would get annoying about a while if i keep saying it. thanx

but age is a big issue it seems... to her. i get a feeling she mind that.. she is older than me like 3-4 years.
 
Originally Posted by kbweezy24

depends on whether youre initiating the majority of convos/texts, or whether shes always tryin to hit you up. 2 hour phone convos? thats a long time for just anyone...be subtle with your compliments...

or be forward and see what happens.
after getting my #. she initiate the first text. just randomly telling me that she is at work etc. other times i would text her to see whats up with her.

yea i agree with my compliments. it would get annoying about a while if i keep saying it. thanx

but age is a big issue it seems... to her. i get a feeling she mind that.. she is older than me like 3-4 years.
 
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