Pride issues

Originally Posted by Halftime718

If there is anything I think I've learned so far in life is that sometimes you have to swallow your pride.
 
If someone is willing to help... respect that person and accept it. Sometimes we all fall down... and in order to get back up we all need a little help. Plus it will probably make the other person feel better that you're accepting their help.
 
If someone is willing to help... respect that person and accept it. Sometimes we all fall down... and in order to get back up we all need a little help. Plus it will probably make the other person feel better that you're accepting their help.
 
Originally Posted by SunDOOBIE

If someone is willing to help... respect that person and accept it. Sometimes we all fall down... and in order to get back up we all need a little help.

This.
 
Originally Posted by SunDOOBIE

If someone is willing to help... respect that person and accept it. Sometimes we all fall down... and in order to get back up we all need a little help.

This.
 
Originally Posted by kbweezy24

at this point, your self conscience attitude isnt gonna help you all that much
man up, accept the help, and make the quickest possible effort to repay the debt.
nice that you have people to look after you like this-some wouldnt have the luxury of someone lending them money
 
Originally Posted by kbweezy24

at this point, your self conscience attitude isnt gonna help you all that much
man up, accept the help, and make the quickest possible effort to repay the debt.
nice that you have people to look after you like this-some wouldnt have the luxury of someone lending them money
 
why did you just walk out? provide details because the majority of people think they are being treated unfairly, seems like you didn't have a legit. valid reason or you'd probably be living off lawsuit settlement money.
 
why did you just walk out? provide details because the majority of people think they are being treated unfairly, seems like you didn't have a legit. valid reason or you'd probably be living off lawsuit settlement money.
 
trust me, bad credit is something you dont want....i gotta deal with consequences now
 
trust me, bad credit is something you dont want....i gotta deal with consequences now
 
real talk, thought this was gonna be a chick thread.
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simalar situation for me: mechanic tells me 1700 to fix my car, fine. at the end of it, 2500. i paid him 500, 700, and 500, and owed him the final 800. couldnt afford it. my aunt, who GAVE me the car in the first place, asked me what was up with it and i told her, and she offered to spot me the money and didnt even mention paying it back, but best believe ill be handing that back. every penny.

sometimes you need to take help. i would have to be flat broke before i go looking for help, but im not against taking it. maybe you can offer it to someone in the future.
 
real talk, thought this was gonna be a chick thread.
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simalar situation for me: mechanic tells me 1700 to fix my car, fine. at the end of it, 2500. i paid him 500, 700, and 500, and owed him the final 800. couldnt afford it. my aunt, who GAVE me the car in the first place, asked me what was up with it and i told her, and she offered to spot me the money and didnt even mention paying it back, but best believe ill be handing that back. every penny.

sometimes you need to take help. i would have to be flat broke before i go looking for help, but im not against taking it. maybe you can offer it to someone in the future.
 
What they say about pride being the greatest evil in this world is true. As long as your a righteous stand-up person and your a man with the way you conduct yourself and handle your business then like I said take the offer to help you out in your time of need if your back is totally against the wall. BUT now your priority should be paying your bills and finding a way to pay back your girls mom asap. On top of that you should add some interest because she's going out of her way to help you out which can either mean she really likes you or she wants you to fail by not paying her back the money in due time and will bring this to the attention of your girl.


I don't know what your situation is with her but i'm hoping that it's all good like I said and you do what you need to do.
 
What they say about pride being the greatest evil in this world is true. As long as your a righteous stand-up person and your a man with the way you conduct yourself and handle your business then like I said take the offer to help you out in your time of need if your back is totally against the wall. BUT now your priority should be paying your bills and finding a way to pay back your girls mom asap. On top of that you should add some interest because she's going out of her way to help you out which can either mean she really likes you or she wants you to fail by not paying her back the money in due time and will bring this to the attention of your girl.


I don't know what your situation is with her but i'm hoping that it's all good like I said and you do what you need to do.
 
Do it cause at the end of the day it's YOUR CREDIT and you would prob regret it later on in life...
 
Do it cause at the end of the day it's YOUR CREDIT and you would prob regret it later on in life...
 
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