Pullin bops/simpin' at the same time

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patpend

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Been lurkin on NT for a long time and I finally made an account. Not sure if this is a smart first post but i'll do me..
If I tried to explain the story it would be waaaay too long so I'll go straight to cliffnotes.

Cliffnotes:
- Been seeing this girl on and off for about 8 years (im 22 now and we have never been "official")
- Never been official because the situation has never been right (i've had a gf, shes had a bf, out of state schools, work, etc)
- We have both graduated and it seems like the time is right to finally move forward with the relationship
- We are both 22 and still like to party and go out to bars and stuff (most of the time without each other)

- I'm not usually a simp when it comes to girls and I have no problem pullin when I go out but I feel like I wanna stop messing with other girls cause Icare about this one
particular girl. At the same time, I dont really wanna stop messing with other girls because all my boys are single and I like going out and kickin game tofemales with them.

- Even though a part of me wants to be with this girl and she has told me she wants to be with me... this girl has cheated on past boyfriends to mess aroundwith me. If she
cheated on them, she most def would cheat on me probably.

- I dont know if I should cuff this chick because we dont fully trust each other. I think she lies about stuff sometimes and she doesnt trust me because I havemessed
around with a couple of her good friends and shes found out.

- We tell each other everything and at the risk of sounding like a lame, we are pretty muich best friends. lovers and friends, ftw.


my question for NT is: Has anyone else ever been in a situation like this? I'm not too proud of a dude to keep it real so I can admit that I'm kind ofa simp for this girl. At the same time though, I still mess around with multiple females.

I care enough about her to make her my lady but I dont know if im ready to stop being single and I dont know if shes ready to stop being single either.
So, has anyone else ever felt like they were ready to cuff a girl because they were on some love stuff with her but they really were not ready to give up thesingle lifestyle?
 
- Been seeing this girl on and off for about 8 years (im 22 now and we have never been "official")
- Never been official because the situation has never been right (i've had a gf, shes had a bf, out of state schools, work, etc)
- We have both graduated and it seems like the time is right to finally move forward with the relationship
- We are both 22 and still like to party and go out to bars and stuff (most of the time without each other)

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Let it Go... Plenty of women out there
 
Cliffotes for my Cliffnotes
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Cliffnotes:
- Been seeing this girl on and off for about 8 years (im 22 now and we have never been "official")
- Never been official because the situation has never been right (i've had a gf, shes had a bf, out of state schools, work, etc)
- We have both graduated and it seems like the time is right to finally move forward with the relationship
- We are both 22 and still like to party and go out to bars and stuff (most of the time without each other)

- Even though a part of me wants to be with this girl and she has told me she wants to be with me... this girl has cheated on past boyfriends to mess aroundwith me. If she
cheated on them, she most def would cheat on me probably.



I'm not too proud of a dude to keep it real so I can admit that I'm kind of a simp for this girl. At the same time though, I still mess around withmultiple females.
I care enough about her to make her my lady but I dont know if im ready to stop being single and I dont know if shes ready to stop being single either.
So, has anyone else ever felt like they were ready to cuff a girl because they were on some love stuff with her but they really were not ready to give up thesingle lifestyle?
 
Don't turn a $%! into a house wife. Have you learned nothing from Nas?

You're benefiting from the relationship you have with her right now. Why change that?
 
Yo Dawg!
We heard you like cliffnotes, so we put cliffnotes in your cliffnotes so we can read your cliffnotes while we read your cliffnotes




Make it happen
 
Originally Posted by JustScoreda100

Don't turn a $%! into a house wife. Have you learned nothing from Nas?

You couldnt be more right. Even though I know shes been unfaithful to other dudes, that was during our HS days we're now both out of college, i would
like to think that she has changed but you can never be too sure. Once a garden tool, always a garden tool.

You're benefiting from the relationship you have with her right now. Why change that?

I kind of want to change it because im not sure if messing around with random girls is worth jeopordizing a good relationship. feel me?
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Originally Posted by IHaveMyOwnOpinion

Yo Dawg!
We heard you like cliffnotes, so we put cliffnotes in your cliffnotes so we can read your cliffnotes while we read your cliffnotes




Make it happen
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IHaveMyOwnOpinion wrote:
Yo Dawg!
We heard you like cliffnotes, so we put cliffnotes in your cliffnotes so we can read your cliffnotes while we read your cliffnotes




Make it happen
I was waiting for that response
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Originally Posted by PatPend

Cliffotes for my Cliffnotes
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Cliffnotes:
- Been seeing this girl on and off for about 8 years (im 22 now and we have never been "official")
- Never been official because the situation has never been right (i've had a gf, shes had a bf, out of state schools, work, etc)
- We have both graduated and it seems like the time is right to finally move forward with the relationship
- We are both 22 and still like to party and go out to bars and stuff (most of the time without each other)

- Even though a part of me wants to be with this girl and she has told me she wants to be with me... this girl has cheated on past boyfriends to mess around with me. If she
cheated on them, she most def would cheat on me probably.



I'm not too proud of a dude to keep it real so I can admit that I'm kind of a simp for this girl. At the same time though, I still mess around with multiple females.
I care enough about her to make her my lady but I dont know if im ready to stop being single and I dont know if shes ready to stop being single either.
So, has anyone else ever felt like they were ready to cuff a girl because they were on some love stuff with her but they really were not ready to give up the single lifestyle?
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LOL how was that cliffnotes of your cliffnotes......you just erased the spaces from the paragraphs lol
 
Now that you've graduated, I think you've realized that this girl hits it off with you in areas beyond the sheets.

I think that's important man. But if you are at a point where you don't fully trust each other than I don't know.

I'd say be straight up man and ask each other where you guys are at. 8 yeas is a longtime to figure out if you can make it work IMO.

Sounds like your game is on point and giving girls the D, but do you know if you can connect with other girls the way you do with this one?
 
classic

son fell in love with his LONG TERM jump off

its only natural.
 
how you been on and off since 14 but never been official?


that means yall were just %#$+ to keep it movin a find an honest chick...
 
Those aren't cliffnotes. You just put hyphens in front of every sentence.
 
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