Originally Posted by
ricky409
Originally Posted by
Executive76
one question? again... i dont get hit w/ that question alot... and if i do, i just let them know the deal
reason why i dont want to go too hard cuz she's a nice person... not really concerned about smashing... it'd be nice, but not the end all be all...
she's popular AND nice to everyone... nice enough to where you just dont want to hurt her feelings...
if you ever been in a small college, you'd know that when a popular, nice chick likes you, its gotta be handled delicately.
she can make it hard moving forward with any other move if not handled correctly...
but its been handled already famb...
just told her she was cool but i just dont want to start her down a road cuz in all honesty, i'm still in love w/ my ex-gal
if it aint smashing w/ out hesitation, i'm just not up for it...
You're over analyzing it. Tell her you're feeling you to...which is true because you're feeling her enough to wanna smash
You don't have to do her dirty just kick it/have fun and smash...
Don't press her about particulars especially via text (Personally I've never verbally asked for dome/sex). You set yourself back by doing so which is why she hit you with the fake ultimatum to see if all you want is sex
You have to make her comfortable again..she gave you all the hints you need in the texts.
if you ever been in a small college, you'd know that when a popular, nice chick likes you, its gotta be handled delicately.
she can make it hard moving forward with any other move if not handled correctly...
So you gonna pass on some ({}) that's right in front of you for some theoretical ({}) you might be getting in the future...all the while hoping to get back with your ex.?
Forget your ex for now because I'm sure dudes are getting at her and she's fielding their offers...so why no keep yourself occupied in the mean time?