Relationship Question

[Pmighty]

has anyone ever broke up with their s.o. because of different interests? I mean like one may have wanted kids and you didnt or not anytime soon, or one mayhave wanted to get married but you may not have been ready. Has anyone been through somethin like that before???

 

[DeadsetAce]

GUCCI!

 

[Pmighty]

Originally Posted by DeadsetAce

GUCCI!

 

[ogbobbyjohnson773]

Originally Posted by DeadsetAce

GUCCI!

 

[Pmighty]

anybody??

 

[mrmoneyindabank]

Yea, after high school my girl and I broke up. She wanted to get married and I wanted to spread my seeds from sea to shining sea.

 

[apples28]

Yea he wanted to settle and I was like umm no. He had his fun experiences and I didn't.

 

[rko2004]

The girl I'm with now, I went with her sister for like a day or two and she completely showed what I didn't want

. She was talking about havingkids a 29 or 30 which is a long time to me. And marriage? Oh boy that just wouldn't have worked.

Yea he wanted to settle and I was like umm no. He had his fun experiences and I didn't.
Fun experiences?

 

[nawth21]

The issue of kids should be a deal breaker for everyone - no one really wins on that one if one partner wants one thing and the other doesn't. These issuesshould come up early in the relationship/dating stage though.

 

[eight2one]

she didnt like giving dome....soo i had to release her.

 

[jayhood23]

She wanted me to commit and I wasn't ready to

 

[mrmoneyindabank]

Originally Posted by eight2one

she didnt like taking giving dome....soo i had to release her.

That's what I call a deal breaker.

 

[rko2004]

Originally Posted by JayHood23

She wanted me to commit and I wasn't ready to

Commit in a way of what exactly? I'm nosey

 

[jayhood23]

Originally Posted by RKO2004

Originally Posted by JayHood23

She wanted me to commit and I wasn't ready to

Commit in a way of what exactly? I'm nosey

I'm 23, she's 29 divorced with 3 kids....she wanted a lot of different things that I wasn't willing to give

 

[Pmighty]

i jus ask cuz i dont see kids in the near future but my girl wants to when she grad school in a couple yrs and im not goin to want to and its always been afear of mine that i would break up w/someone over somethin like this, but w/girls havin kids like headaches these days and the ones that dont will want toeventually its like im goin to end up with a girl w/kids one way or another

 

[mrslight]

Originally Posted by Nawth21

The issue of kids should be a deal breaker for everyone - no one really wins on that one if one partner wants one thing and the other doesn't. These issues should come up early in the relationship/dating stage though.