Shameless relationship advice needed

[mou5pad]

Thank you for all the great input. I ended the relationship.

 

[$tatus $ymbol]

If she hitting you off with the P while she has a dude what makes you think she's not gone do the exact same ish to you? This is why women think their hoing is acceptable nowadays. You really willing to wait on a chick that's actively smashing another man. Get your money man F D B

 

[Betonblck]

Scrap that.

 

[SC kid]

"They are planning to go to New York in 3 weeks (all planned and booked) and she does not want to cancel that out of respect for him. "

Lol

 

[Top Boy]

Well first, i'mma say you're trash for wrecking a home. To address the topic,

She spent hella time waiting for you to be ready just to get dropped while you figured things out. If you love her like you say you do you should be willing to pay that time back now by being patient instead of being selfish.

You still trash tho. And how do you save for a house and pay off debts in the span of 7 months?

Youre either a trap God or younghollywood 2.0

 

[Betonblck]

"They are planning to go to New York in 3 weeks (all planned and booked) and she does not want to cancel that out of respect for him. "

Lol

Right. Respect?

It wouldn't surprise me if OP wasn't the only side dude.

 

[Jimmy Two Times]

Sounds like she just wants a free trip to NY. I would tell her to give you a shout when she gets back and you'll go grab a coffee. Don't sit by the phone for 3 weeks like a momo. Go on about your business. If she calls good, if she doesn't, good. Don't call her.

 

[Top Boy]

Sounds like she just wants a free trip to NY. I would tell her to give you a shout when she gets back and you'll go grab a coffee. Don't sit by the phone for 3 weeks like a momo. Go on about your business. If she calls good, if she doesn't, good. Don't call her.

Might be the first non-faux news-esque post I've seen this dude make and it's facts.

I'm surprised

 

[mou5pad]

If she hitting you off with the P while she has a dude what makes you think she's not gone do the exact same ish to you? This is why women think their hoing is acceptable nowadays. You really willing to wait on a chick that's actively smashing another man. Get your money man F D B

she was definitely head over heels for me back then.

Well first, i'mma say you're trash for wrecking a home. To address the topic,

She spent hella time waiting for you to be ready just to get dropped while you figured things out. If you love her like you say you do you should be willing to pay that time back now by being patient instead of being selfish.

You still trash tho. And how do you save for a house and pay off debts in the span of 7 months?

Youre either a trap God or younghollywood 2.0

LOL i have a good job(about $85-90K a year) and have not been buying shoes for sometime now. also i am good with money.lol.
BTW i only save for down payment not the cash purchase.

 

[mou5pad]

thanx fam. Glad i posted. So scrap then. i kinda know the answer but i just needed confirmation, because sometimes emotion are dumb. "when your **** gets hard, your brain gets soft"

 

[wballz]

Dumb move if you wait.

1. You're interfering with other people's relationship

2. You really want to be that guy that she jumps to. It's pathetic and desperate. There are tons of girls out there.

3. It seems like you built this girl up in your head. She'll do the same to you. Don't be desperate.

 

[cosmiccoffee9]

don't call her. be complete with or without her. she will never be yours (or anyone's) until she's out of options, only speak another word to her if that's okay with you.

"when your **** gets hard, your brain gets soft"

I wonder if there's legitimately something to this on a demonstrable scientific level? we all have a dumb decision made with our southern head, and I know I never feel quite as intelligent and centered as I do immediately after a release of tensions.

 

[Jimmy Two Times]

Might be the first non-faux news-esque post I've seen this dude make and it's facts.

I'm surprised

Selective reading.

 

[ahat]

FDB

Shes waste

You spent all that time bettering yourself and progressing, you can do better than this sket.


Do better OP

 

[Top Boy]

Lol how yall gon call shorty poop when she waited for him originally just to get blown off

Dude comes back when she has an obligation and now the shoe is on the other foot. Assuming she's genuine he owes it to shorty to pay that time back

 

[bendover]

She got with another dude only a couple of months later??!?!
Pass bro. She's definitely unstable.
She's gonna get back with you and then she's gonna be smashing him behind your back

 

[ahat]

He doesnt owe her anything.

 

[Top Boy]

And neither does she owe him.

He can either wait or move on

 

[numbah1grimey]

She “respects” him in order to go on a trip to NY, but still respectfully cheats on him with you?

 

[mou5pad]

Damn, NT really have some smart members.

Yes i am going to scrap her, just because of situation. Although i think this is just lust we have. I would probably just better of with someone else which i do have a couple on the bench.
We have not been together since january of this year and by august she met him because we have not been talking all those time. She was very attentive to me and even until now, i have known her to be loyal back then with me, but what she did to him got me thinking. She just told me that since i am ready to take the next step, she wanted give us a second chance. Unfortunately its to the expense of another man's feeling.

 

[The Fresh Prince]

Dead that ****

 

[ninjahood]

"They are planning to go to New York in 3 weeks (all planned and booked) and she does not want to cancel that out of respect for him. "

Lol

que da weebay gif.

hey, keep that around OP... everybody needs a solid side piece.

 

[Deleted member 42060]

Damn, tough situation. Just gotta trust her word. Gotta be alpha if you want her to leave

 

[calibeebee]

Easy scrap. She sounds like one of those "all girls do is take mirror selfies, watch makeup tutorials, and cheat." Type of girls. Sounds like you have a lot more going for you than would be worth the headache this dumb broad will bring you.

Just keep smashing on the side until you find "the one" then ghost her. She'll break it off with that guy, then get back with him 2 weeks later talking about how confused she is and blah blah, and the cycle will continue. theres no need for you to be a part of that cycle

 

[ninjahood]

Just keep smashing on the side until you find "the one" then ghost her.

this.