I mentioned three things; you just responded about one.
Apparently, thoroughness is not one of your strong points.
I said that I would have a problem with myself if...
... you felt that I was rude.
... you had all your facts straight.
... I didn't feel like you were coming off as whiny.
So let's look at those 3 things.
... you felt that I was rude. (check)
... you had all your facts straight. (NOPE!)
... I didn't feel like you were coming off as whiny. (NOPE!)
So let's take away the third one; let's assume that I didn't think you were whiny. Do that, and we're still left with you feeling like I wasrude, and you bringing up a problem without having all of the facts of that problem in order.
You want to be taken seriously in bringing up a problem without having all of your facts in order concerning the problem? Go bring your grievance to someoneelse, then. I treat seriously those that present themselves seriously. And not even ATTEMPTING to have your facts in order is not presenting yourselfseriously.
Reply to THAT.
Because that has nothing to do with whether or not I thought you were whiny. But I'll address that with this: my opinion that you were whiny is as valid asyour opinion that I was rude. I'm expected to accept your feeling that I was rude, but you're not accepting my opinion that you were whiny.Something's not right about that.
But take away your opinion that I was rude and take away my opinion that you were whiny, and what do we have?
... you felt that I was rude.
... you had all your facts straight. (NOPE!)
... I didn't feel like you were coming off as whiny.
You not having your facts straight, and barely even attempting to do so.