Small deal-breakers in a relationship

[sooperhooper]

I was on the fence about this chick and i found out she snores like a mac truck. No can do.

Someone that sleeps with the tv on would be an issue with me too.

Can't deal with a chick that's obsessed with her phone/social media.

Friend of mine has a daughter from a previous relationship and got married. One huge issue in there marriage was his wife being uncomfortable with the daughter calling her by her first name when she visited. That's tough because the daughter has a real mom and that wouldn't approve of her daughter calling another woman mom. There's no right answer with that situation.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Does she WANT the daughter to call her "mom?"

You can't force that

 

[sooperhooper]

Does she WANT the daughter to call her "mom?"

You can't force that

Basically. They ended up getting a divorce, not solely because of that but it was a big issue for her.

 

[alchemist iq]

That women sounds/seems irrational.

 

[RIP sleazyy]

"nah he's my best friend"

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Basically. They ended up getting a divorce, not solely because of that but it was a big issue for her.

If THAT is a Top 5 reaaon, then they stood NO chance in the first place.

I am interested in what the conversation between the spouses were even about.

What was the dude saying?

 

[ahat]

"nah he's my best friend"

 

[sooperhooper]

If THAT is a Top 5 reaaon, then they stood NO chance in the first place.

I am interested in what the conversation between the spouses were even about.

What was the dude saying?

Honestly i never discussed the topic in detail, i just let him vent. They got divorced after about 2 years.

They say the first 3 years of marriage are the hardest and it you can make it through that, you can make it forever. Honestly i feel like marriage is becoming outdated. It's a liability to men. Love is like an illusion.

 

[ahat]

If she don't take care of her feet.

Not tryna be out here with Fred Flintstone

 

[jape]

if she never offers to pay

 

[numbah1grimey]

Poor hygiene. Dirty/filthiness overall. I have OCD when it comes to being clean. I don’t like a nasty woman. That’s about it.

 

[doublemesh96]

if she never offers to pay

“She tried to pay for it awwww”

 

[Another joe]

some stuff off the top of my head:


being rude to food/customer service workers
overly gossiping
blatant materialism
use of feminist ideology
entitlement for simply having a vagina or, being attractive/having a nice body

maybe im too picky, but i could go on for days... i guess this is why I've been single for 9 yrs lol

 

[nawghtyhare]

Basically. They ended up getting a divorce, not solely because of that but it was a big issue for her.

that lady is NUTS
and good he got away from her
u cant force that

 

[nawghtyhare]

They say the first 3 years of marriage are the hardest and it you can make it through that, you can make it forever.

that depends on how long u been together
me and my wife had been together 10 years before we got married
lived together for like 8
so marriage was just some legal paperwork in my eyes

 

[nawghtyhare]

if she never offers to pay

that depends
how long yall been together
if yall live together
are yall just dating
or married
my wifes check goes into OUR bank account
my check goes into MY bank account
so even if she pays
im paying

 

[alchemist iq]

Imagine being in conversation with that women

You: what was the reasoning for your divorce?

Irrational divorce women: my ex-husband daughter called me by first name, i rather her call me mom even though she has a biological mom that loves her unconditionally.

You:

I gotta stop using ChristianSingles.

 

[jape]

that depends
how long yall been together
if yall live together
are yall just dating
or married
my wifes check goes into OUR bank account
my check goes into MY bank account
so even if she pays
im paying

none of this pertains to married folks cause then it wouldn't be a deal breaker
right?
that's how i took it. im talking dating.

 

[fargin]

The no you hang up first type.

Click.

 

[nawghtyhare]

none of this pertains to married folks cause then it wouldn't be a deal breaker
right?
that's how i took it. im talking dating.

maybe
i know a couple
who actually divide EVERYTHING
mortgage
car note
groceries
EVERYTHING
even when they go out

 

[nawghtyhare]

The no you hang up first type.

Click.

yeah i dont play that game
i say by then click*

 

[DCAllAfrican]

The no you hang up first type.

Click.

Me: Aight, I'm getting off the phone.

Them: You are so rude with how you get off the phone.

I hate this idea that saying goodbye needs to be this beat around the bush type process. No.

 

[jjs07]

Smoking.

 

[AgentZero]

Girls who are obsessed with their pets

 

[Chiron]

Snoring
Sleeping with tv/noise
Messy around the house
Bald headed /cant grow long hair
Bad Acne
Genetic susceptibility to diabetes, asthma, cancer and other illnesses
Shorter than 5'4
Taller than 6'2
More than 10k Instagram followers
Unemployment gaps of more than 120 days
Zodiac signs: Gemini, capricorn, cancer, Taurus
Illiteracy / awful grammar
GED in place of diploma
Lack of car (in my current geography)
Expectation of marriage necessary for continuing relationship
Kids (hypocrite on this one)
Drug use (includes marijuana)
Limited appreciation for music genres and performing arts
Formerly identifying as Male
Strict adherence of rules and laws
Overly religious. Demandingly so.
Racist parents. Grandpa gets a pass.
Frequent phone calls
Brainwashed by mainstream media
Idolizing the Kardashians or beyonce
Lying