Smash and Dash?

[az102]

So here is the thing. There is this girl that I used to be close with and we smashed once before. The girl was in love with me but she had a man at the time and that was a good thing cause I never wanted to date her. That was two years ago. Anyway we started talking again and I wanna smash but I don’t wanna do her dirty. I can tell she still has feelings for me and I don’t wanna take advantage of that just to hit. So I’m wondering if there is any way to create friends with benefits type situation where she knows the deal?    

 

[tr1ll]

With a thread title like that, there shouldn't be any reading involved.






..No, I didn't..

 

[superantigen]

There are plenty o' fish in the sea young patawan.

Be a sophisticated young fisherman, and leave this one alone.

Really though, is it worth messing with someone's emotions just so you can get ur tip wet for like 20 mins?

Be considerate, man.


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[antidope]

There are plenty o' fish in the sea young patawan.

Be a sophisticated young fisherman, and leave this one alone.

Really though, is it worth messing with someone's emotions just so you can get ur tip wet for like 20 mins?

Be considerate, man.


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All of this. Is it really worth potentially ruining this girls life. Gonna pull an old NT proverb out and say "fap first then think about it"

 

[az102]

All of this. Is it really worth potentially ruining this girls life. Gonna pull an old NT proverb out and say "fap first then think about it"

You guys are right. Thought it best to ask though.

 

[blazinrook]

there's no shame in running it by her. worst that can happen is she says no, and she may even stop feeling you like that. but with a little smooth talking, that can turn in to your favor.

 

[ham city]

So I’m wondering if there is any way to create friends with benefits type situation where she knows the deal?    

There's only one way, you have to tell her the deal.

Even then, she'll know, but chances are she won't be able to do anything with that knowledge.

She's still gonna remain attached.

 

[Master Zik]

No pics?

Just let her know what you want but from what you've said she'll either be down and still catch feelings or lie and say yes then trap you.

There are horror stories for the friends with benefits situation.

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

Pics?

 

[big j 33]

The fact that you're asking for advice says you don't really  want to do this.

You can be upfront with her and say you're not looking for a relationship or anything serious, so that could help clear your potential guilt. Although.. she might say she's cool with it and still have feelings for you.

Regardless, it's up to you how you want to treat a person. If you're up front with it and she's down, then go for it. As I said, she might be lying to herself and you about being ok with it, so that's a judgment call. If you want to deceive her just to get some sex, just know you'll probably hurt her and you knew ahead of time what you were doing.

 

[az102]

No pics?
Just let her know what you want but from what you've said she'll either be down and still catch feelings or lie and say yes then trap you.
There are horror stories for the friends with benefits situation.

Yeah plus she from the islands. She can be intense sometimes. But those yambs are amazing. 

 

[az102]

The fact that you're asking for advice says you don't really  want to do this.

You can be upfront with her and say you're not looking for a relationship or anything serious, so that could help clear your potential guilt. Although.. she might say she's cool with it and still have feelings for you.

Regardless, it's up to you how you want to treat a person. If you're up front with it and she's down, then go for it. As I said, she might be lying to herself and you about being ok with it, so that's a judgment call. If you want to deceive her just to get some sex, just know you'll probably hurt her and you knew ahead of time what you were doing.

Yeah thats the thing. I dont wanna mislead her. She's a friend and i shouldnt be a jerk for some snatch. I basically want to smash her and her not be hurt in any way. I was wondering if any nters had ever done this before. I have no problem telling her but like someone said above even if she's down its not like her feelings are gonna disappear. So its pretty take advantage of the feelings she has for me. I dont wanna be the kind of dude that compromises integrity to satisfy base urges. 

 

[awwsome]

Don't do it.
She's going to accept the FWB thinking you'll fall in love down the line and when you don't things will get messy
If she's a friend keep it like that, smashing again will only complicate things.
Remember females are creatures of emotion not logic.

 

[airthompson]

She only hit u up cuz Tyrone is doing a bid. She dnt want u OP.

 

[teamjordan79]

u think ur yamb situation is special famb?

TAY --->

 

[ill steelo]

She cheated on her man.

Who cares about her feelings?

Get in, get on, get out.

 

[chiva1908]

No pics, exits thread.

 

[blackdynamite]

In b4 op gets shut down by girl

 

[putting in work]

Man I say you smash that, don't get trapped, and have no regrets.

She's cheating and you're worrying about her feelings

 

[u-mob]

All of this. Is it really worth potentially ruining this girls life. Gonna pull an old NT proverb out and say "fap first then think about it"
 

Take this advice ^
But if you really really really feel the need to get the yambs then do your thing...

No pics yet though? ill wait

 

[parada45]

Just ask her straight up

 

[kiiing]

You answered your question in your title, breh.

 

[User 37837]

no more replies until pics are provided

 

[gllahone84]

Fap then think about it...so true. 

 

[41239]

She cheated on her man.

Who cares about her feelings?

Get in, get on, get out.

this mane