Sounds like you’ve been victimized and talking from experience
It's a whole philosophy at this point...
We all had the Eastbay catalogs, and cutouts from the back of magazines. But those were NICHE products that weren't mainstream enuff to be carried nationally. You only did mail-in orders maybe a handful times per season.
But in 2025? We got ppl ordering daily and they ain't DISABLED/ELDERLY. Then they wonder they have to rely on Dating Sites (often to no avail)
You supposed to meet people in the daily course of DOIN THANGS. Look up the "familiar stranger" concept. If somebody sees you multiple times in public, they'll feel more comfortable approaching you and starting a Convo.
Besides my car insurance and mortgage, I don't got nothing on auto pay. Infact when I setup my bank account, I declined to have debit cards setup to limit the possibility of impulse buys. I have to physically go to a bank teller and withdrawal cash if I want to make a big purchase which gives me plenty of time to evaluate things. But anyways I've gotten to know the bank staff very well, seen tellers start from the bottom and end up with their own office. They advise me on building my credit, and while I don't got an AMEX black card yet they helped me get a USDA rural loan and I'm only paying $450 a month for a quiet house on the outskirts of town.
It's not just apparel/gadgets, the food delivery is getting out of hand too. Me personally, I discovered Farmers Markets last year. In Ohio they run from April to October. with different townships having them on certain days of the week. If you like in-shape white chicks that drive late model SUVs this is a major come up.
I be trying to wean people off UberEats/DoorDash cause off how frustrating it is for both the customer and the driver. Most dash'ers got learning disabilities and can't read instructions/notes. They driving 12 year old Chevy Sparks and Ford Fiestas not realizing the extra 2k miles per month necessitates more frequent maintenance. You'll see them driving around the Summertime with all 4 windows down cause they AC compressor blown. But to them it's worth it cause they can set they own schedule, blast they music, and smoke in the car. Plus if a customer cancel, they gets free food