so umm, yea...ok

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so I just got off the phone with this chick and I realized we have very little conversation. She got the look but if we not talking it makes for awkwardmoments which I hate with a passion. I realized she might not be interested in me like I thought, who knows, BUT with this revelation my new frontrunner girlwise is this chick that has a kid which is a situation I'm not exactly jumping at the chance to get into...don't get me wrong she's cool and allbut the kid is to us as ether is to Jay-Z...we could go on to have the fame and stardom, but still...


I said all of that, why? Who knows, but I wanted to say this: How long do you try and make something work? This wasn't our first conversation, we went outa couple of times before and all was fine, but who knows what's going on with her in her mind, I don't. She's cute and all but I'm not gonnakeep trying to make something like a conversation work if it just isn't working, but I don't really wanna cut her off either(at all), so the questionis...

how long do you try and make it work before you move on to the next one? DO YOU try at all or do you just say $%%* it because it didn't work?

Personally I'm gonna give it a couple of tries, maybe I'm gluten for trouble but whatever, but I wanted to get others opinions on what they woulddo(not for me, for yourself).
that and I was bored and wanted to start a new topic
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Originally Posted by C Money 88 05

Originally Posted by Rafool

Originally Posted by Phil Le0tard0

wait for it

Originally Posted by offbad

pics?
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gotta love it




and I've seen what NT can do with a simple pic, even though nobody mentioned in the post has a myspace/facebook/twitter/anything...nope.


e-terrorists are squares. Every pic that gets posted has to be investigated and disected down to every detail about it. Especially when it comes to women. If you do this, YNS. Get a life.
 
i hate when i cant keep a conversation going and we're just there like........ that gets me
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wait, what?

i think pics will help us understand...until then dont say another word OP
 
Dude she probably dreads being around you

or

nervous

because when a girl is comfortable she cannot keep her mouth shut, with male, or female

probably the former, so if I were you I would cut your losses and move on from her to save embarrassment
 
Why are some of you giving him responses? Don't you know we can't help him unless he has pics?
 
chicks that cant hold conversations are pretty pointless.


Edit: I lied, you can still smash them, but after then yeahhhh.....or if they got monies to offer.
 
No communication skills = it will fail.

Move on to the next one, but keep that one on deck.
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You should wait it out a little and see what happens. I know it can be pretty akward when your sitting there waiting for someone to say something lol. Maybeshe is just shy or is having a bad week or something ? or Tired from work who knows. If it keeps happening you should tell her You dont think the two of youreally have anything in common, and if she begs to differ let her explain why the conversation has been so dull.
 
Now is your main issue the fact that he has a kid and you might find yourself raising another man's child? Or the fact that your conversations with herlack content?. Or are you using the lack of conversation as a scapegoat to avoid mentioning the kid?
 
Hmmm well IMO I would wait a while to let her become more comfortable. After I met my man we didn't really talk on the phone, a lot of messages on myspaceand whatnot. Then after we started hanging out and talking on the phone I realized that I wasn't completely comfortable talking and there would be weirdmoments or we'd start talking at the same time. After a while it got a lot easier especially after we started hanging out more, it become natural.

Give it another week or two but what's the deal with the kid? How old is s/he?
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