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Someone school me on what "TAY" is about?
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Someone school me on what "TAY" is about?
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Someone school me on what "TAY" is about?
BrixtonWhat's a good bar for happy hour to take a chick to in the DMV area?
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Appreciate it good sir
my ex is coming to visit me tomorrow for the weekend...
legit have no idea how this is going to play out
told myself it is what it is and when she leaves its back to not caring about what happened....
but as the time gets closer the feels is coming back.
I miss her again.....
hope it passes after the weekend cz I don't need this **** in my life lol
I've never spent time with her as a non-couple aside from the first time we met.....and that lasted all of like 2-3 days... went 0-100.... then from 100 to -7
she's not a headache... **** just didn't work out because of distance and some personal stuff she had going on at homeDo not do it mane! Lol. If she's a headache as much as you say she is....leave that alone.
Trust me. Been there smh.
my ex is coming to visit me tomorrow for the weekend...
legit have no idea how this is going to play out
told myself it is what it is and when she leaves its back to not caring about what happened....
but as the time gets closer the feels is coming back.
I miss her again.....
hope it passes after the weekend cz I don't need this **** in my life lol
I've never spent time with her as a non-couple aside from the first time we met.....and that lasted all of like 2-3 days... went 0-100.... then from 100 to -7
You really need to sit down and ask yourself
"Does she add any value to my life?"
"Does she offer stability, encouragement, conversation, problem solving skills"
You letting ***** and "What Could Be"
Cloud your judgement.
my girl told me she'd rather not discuss any type of issues in the relationship with me because I "take everything to the extreme" and she'd rather save herself the stress and just get over it because its annoying.
I feel like if i try to address it shes gonna get annoyed. how can this be fixed?
advice for shy fellas
Man toss her *** to the bushes[emoji]128518[/emoji][emoji]128518[/emoji]
But in all seriousness this is what I mean about having the hard talks when your in a relationship. If you let that behavior manifest on both sides, resentment sets in and that's just how the devil creeps in.
Sit her down and really listen to what she is saying, if your hot headed or push 0-100, take deep breathes and look at it from her perspective and then speak your mind and tell her how it makes you feel.
As you get older, your tolerance for dumb ish dwindles and conflict should always be calm conversations. It was hard when I first met my wife because I would internalize stuff or do petty, passive aggressive ish to irk her but one day we had a really bad fight, didn't talk to her for a week while living in the same house and I just realized I was being a jerk and she was being hard headed and we talked until morning about everything. You have to be willing to listen with a open mind and heart and you also have to understand your faults and check your emotions.
Not saying to be a doormat but calm yourself and try to see perspectives before going crazy or extreme.
If you continue down this path, telling you..
You will share that girl..
If you love her and you both ride for each other, fix it now[emoji]9996[/emoji][emoji]127999[/emoji]️
advice for shy fellas
advice for shy fellas
my ex is coming to visit me tomorrow for the weekend...
legit have no idea how this is going to play out
told myself it is what it is and when she leaves its back to not caring about what happened....
but as the time gets closer the feels is coming back.
I miss her again.....
hope it passes after the weekend cz I don't need this **** in my life lol
I've never spent time with her as a non-couple aside from the first time we met.....and that lasted all of like 2-3 days... went 0-100.... then from 100 to -7
My man, this literally just happened to me this weekend.
my ex came down from boston (I'm in VA)
she visited her cousins for 2 days and stayed with me for 3.
the feels was real i'll be honest.'
70% of the time was good times good converations, (shes the best P I've ever had) (not best sex just best P)
Great sex.
30% of the time, was the same stuff we use to argue about and she nagged about when we were together which was annoying.
we talked about the possibility of if she moved to the DC area if we'd be together, and I told her straight up, I would want to try but at the same time i dont even know what it would be like if we were in that real of a setting how it would work out.. we were together in Korea but only saw each other on weekends. (for 8 months)
Mugen posted something (as always with the wisdom)
saying
You really need to sit down and ask yourself
"Does she add any value to my life?"
"Does she offer stability, encouragement, conversation, problem solving skills"
You letting ***** and "What Could Be"
Cloud your judgement.
I answered. this for my ex... she does push me... a lot.. sometimes its annoying but honestly i wouldn't have the desire for this new job that i have now if it wasnt for her.
with those questions answered i put it like this. if she moves down then i'll give it a real shot of making her my girl, but until then. ima do my thing and not wait.
too old for Maybe's
my girl told me she'd rather not discuss any type of issues in the relationship with me because I "take everything to the extreme" and she'd rather save herself the stress and just get over it because its annoying.
I feel like if i try to address it shes gonna get annoyed. how can this be fixed?
wavycrocket dont be that guy that let's her go then spend the next 5 years trying to get her back. When a good woman makes up her mind that its over she's gone forever. I was in this same situation with my chick, kept getting caught up and was just gonna let her go to do me. Until my pops kicked the real to me.
I just may just not be cut out for a monogamous relationship. Coming to that realization.
I'm going to have to let a GREAT girl go, because of my selfishness. Crazy thing is, I know she'll want to stick it out with me and wait for me while I'm outchea. Part of it is she's gained some lbs...and we've been doing this song and dance for 5+ years. This is the only chick I've met that has the same values as me, same sense of humor and loves me for the a-hole that I am. But at 25, these girls are out here, and choosin.
Shorty deserves better fellas. Bout to have a "great white buffalo".