TAY: thread about yambs...

[fontaine]

Need some texting advice, I've made some strides over the texting thing.

Know this broad from an AA meeting we go to. Today we met up at some fair in town and had a good time. She has 2 kids, 15 & 6. She's 38 I'm 28. They were both there and have met them plenty of times before. 

I said to her "We should go out sometime and keep the kids separate" She smiled and said "i'll think about it" 

We finish up at the fair and go our ways. She text me alittle while ago "you caught me off guard on that one..." and that was it. Now i'm like       

1) Yea most likely got signals mixed up
2) 10 year age difference

Honestly not sure what to say back. 

you already lost by over thinking it.

 

[joepac12]

See what she meant by that. Don't assume anything

 

[r-man jam]

you already lost by over thinking it.

i over think everything and anything :\

 

[Coromanti]

 

Need some texting advice, I've made some strides over the texting thing.

Know this broad from an AA meeting we go to. Today we met up at some fair in town and had a good time. She has 2 kids, 15 & 6. She's 38 I'm 28. They were both there and have met them plenty of times before. 

I said to her "We should go out sometime and keep the kids separate" She smiled and said "i'll think about it" 

We finish up at the fair and go our ways. She text me alittle while ago "you caught me off guard on that one..." and that was it. Now i'm like 

 

 

 

1) Yea most likely got signals mixed up
2) 10 year age difference

Honestly not sure what to say back. 

you already lost by over thinking it.

Sometimes you don't know what to say.

I know that happens to me then I end up thinking for mad long

 

[drones]

more info on the native american yambs.

It was cool, I live in a state with a lot of them so it's been on my bucket list for a while. I didn't want to pull her hair like most chicks like because it was seriously long, which I think is a cultural thing. Couldn't kiss at all though. would just kind of press her lips to my face an keep em there. then would stick her tongue out and keep that there. If I knew you personally I'd pass you the lob bro. lol.

 

[Mark Antony]

I'm coming to an epiphany that you gotta get all the yambs out the way that you want to before you truly love and have a successful relationship with one woman. The temptation will always be there, but you've had enough to know what you would/wouldn't be missing and that your lady brings more to the table than that. Just getting with different personalities too to understand the games they play. To find that right one you gotta be truly good with women and comfortable with who you are.

Man idk...I think that temptation will always be there. There's way you can shake finding and wanting to smash a beautiful women. Now if you act on it that's a diffent story.

True, but I feel like you would have more self control if you can say "I had a joint just like that back in day..."

 

[rare]

Why do females think that their happiness is above your own goals?

 

[fontaine]

aight... due to the request of Methodical Management...

Spoiler

we gotta tone down the EXPLICIT words, famb...

like... its cool to tell the stories and what not... but try to be more subtle about the words... we already have a code name for vagina... we just have to make sure we keep things somewhat PG ..

meth dawg said he's lost some sponsors already... i'm sure that its not just us in here w/ all the appreciation threads...

but still, lets just comply and try to edit some stuff, use some less descriptive/more obscure words, etc...

w/ that being said... let me show yall how its done...

Spoiler

had some fun w/ a white yamb... that's a leaker... has dreads... partakes in trees frequently... doesnt want a relationship... size D teddies... 125 lbs... and says she'll need me to continue to be her source of vitamin D b/c she really enjoyed me..

also... she completed her mission... cleaned everything up... and didnt stick around to cuddle and stuff... just put her clothes on and texted me when she got home...

i think we got a winner, kinfoe...

also.. please dont think i'm just hitting 100% oif my shots... i've gotten shutdown SEVERAL times this week alone...

i just put up shots like Iverson... and i'm starting to connect more by noticing more yamb cues...

 

[tdogg2k]

@Fontaine, I don't think i've ever met a white chick with dreads that didn't blaze every hour lol..

@R-man Jam I honestly think that was a good text. If she responded like that that means she didnt think she was worthy of a young buck like yourself.
I say respond like this.. "I apologize for catching you off guard but im very interested in you and you've been a pleasure to hang out with so far"

@Mark Anthony. Thats a true statement, reason I had to finish off a few relationships. I wasnt ready to settle down. The ones I have stuck with I was done with that life.
I'm at a point now where I can go either way. (I know that sounds weird)

 

[mugen81]

Why do females think that their happiness is above your own goals?

Because most women are selfish and taught that a mans only worth is his wallet( fairytales have ruined alot of my relationships)..
Eventually some get that to make any relationship work, whether friendship/love, that it takes teamwork, compromise, listening and strong communication skills.
Alot of people don't recognize these foundations should not only be implemented into themselves as people but also in dealing with another human being. You should Never be responsible for someone else's happiness but you should BE AWARE of what makes them happy( if that makes sense).
But there are women out there( takes time to find) whether just yambs or serious relationship that have these tenents about life, you just got to circumvent the BS to get to them, ie: Growing Pains...
As 32 in a healthy relationship I am still learning game and what makes women tick. Also a Good woman with heart, can teach
you tons of things that as men we take for granted, just certain subtle cues that only a woman knows, but you have to be right within yourself first to listen and then you will see..
Sorry for tangent, this struck wifeys' eye while chilling out here in Monterey Beach.
One

 

[youngheadjenks5]

How do you guys handle females that have boy best friends that are cool with her ex? For example Girl A goes With Guy B, and Guy B has a friend Guy C. Girl A breaks up with Guy B, but is still cool with Guy C, and treats him like best friends. Do you guys ignore it, or is it a cry for a reunion with Guy B?

 

[heliumclinton]

Just handle it as any male "friend" in shorty's life. Him being associated with her ex is irrelevant to me

 

[fontaine]

How do you guys handle females that have boy best friends that are cool with her ex? For example Girl A goes With Guy B, and Guy B has a friend Guy C. Girl A breaks up with Guy B, but is still cool with Guy C, and treats him like best friends. Do you guys ignore it, or is it a cry for a reunion with Guy B?

if girl is attempting to be your main yamb...

Cut that short.

If she's a secondary yamb...

Meh... Long as she isn't disrespectful about it... You keep on chugging bro...

 

[youngheadjenks5]

She's my main has been for a couple months, but she wants me to meet him, and I'm not that friendly especially if its one of her ex's homeboys. All it seems to me is the homeboy trying to talk her into speaking to her ex again, but I mean she wants me to go with her. I don't know what to do, but I'm feeling the cut it short idea, because it just sounds like a setup for the ex to try to speak to her.

 

[Mark Antony]

You sound wild insecure overanalayzing the ****. It may or may not be a segway to the ex, no one knows the extent of their relationship. Either way you need to relax. Do observe and peep game, but don't jump the gun.

 

[youngheadjenks5]

You sound wild insecure overanalayzing the ****. It may or may not be a segway to the ex, no one knows the extent of their relationship. Either way you need to relax. Do observe and peep game, but don't jump the gun.

Repped+, I felt like I was thinking to hard on the **** im just gon kick it and blow one.

 

[olx9o]

Need some moral advice from some, if possible.

Cute *** Indian/Guyanese chick in my class.
First day I talked to her I asked her on a date, she told me she would if she ain't have a bf. that was after I got her number
Next time we have class I see she has what looks like an engagement ring, she tells me that it is one. Boom. She also has 2 kids
Every class after that she doesn't wear it tho and yeah I do flirt with her and speak my mind and touch her hair, back, hands...n always get a positive reaction

The fact that I asked her one time "where's your ring" she tells me she "forgot " it ....so she must be forgetting it each time she has class right?
She has no problem smiling and wanting to be around me willingly and lettin me give her sensual touches.
Two things, she already knows that ain't no shame in my game cause multiple times we chilling and I just talk to/bag/flirt with other females right in front of her and each time she's always trying to shift the attention back to her.

Yesterday, we had a midterm so me n her studying n joking in the library...there were a few moments where I had to take control of the entire area we are in by letting my presence be known and I seen a couple other shorties..

Throughout that time I do my usual flirting with her and she keeps smiling saying that I'm crazy and how I need to get laid blah blah blah...ANYWAY

Should I go for the slam dunk? All the signs are positive, but morally I wanna say nah...but the signs of her not giving one turd about her ring and being around me while I excite her emotions makes me wanna do it...

I'd like some opinions (although I'm still gonna make my own decision in the end)

 

[アミーゴ]

Need some moral advice from some, if possible.

Cute *** Indian/Guyanese chick in my class.
First day I talked to her I asked her on a date, she told me she would if she ain't have a bf. that was after I got her number
Next time we have class I see she has what looks like an engagement ring, she tells me that it is one. Boom. She also has 2 kids
Every class after that she doesn't wear it tho and yeah I do flirt with her and speak my mind and touch her hair, back, hands...n always get a positive reaction

The fact that I asked her one time "where's your ring" she tells me she "forgot " it ....so she must be forgetting it each time she has class right?
She has no problem smiling and wanting to be around me willingly and lettin me give her sensual touches.
Two things, she already knows that ain't no shame in my game cause multiple times we chilling and I just talk to/bag/flirt with other females right in front of her and each time she's always trying to shift the attention back to her.

Yesterday, we had a midterm so me n her studying n joking in the library...there were a few moments where I had to take control of the entire area we are in by letting my presence be known and I seen a couple other shorties..

Throughout that time I do my usual flirting with her and she keeps smiling saying that I'm crazy and how I need to get laid blah blah blah...ANYWAY

Should I go for the slam dunk? All the signs are positive, but morally I wanna say nah...but the signs of her not giving one turd about her ring and being around me while I excite her emotions makes me wanna do it...

I'd like some opinions (although I'm still gonna make my own decision in the end)

Have u not read through this thread my man? Don't do it, all bad news.

U said u get other girls, keep doing that...

 

[Betonblck]

Engaged with 2 kids, yea that sounds like a winner. I guess times are that hard out here.

 

[a blinkin]

I don't see what could possibly be so enticing about a chick with not one, but two kids and is already engaged.

And like the guy above me said... You claim to bag other broads. Even in front of the harlot's face. Why aren't you slam dunking/making posts about them?

 

[iclosetcreature]

Engaged with 2 kids, yea that sounds like a winner. I guess times are that hard out here.

This. Has To Be A Fiiiiiiiiiiiiiiine Chick You're Talking

 

[am1x90xnike]

I hate married women. Them **** need to stop flirting with everyone, giving false hope seeking attention, ***** chill with your husband, if you wanted to flirt, your dumbass shouldn't have chosen to get married or you can get a divorce.

 

[joepac12]

Pics my friend of this mommy of 2

 

[youngheadjenks5]

Gave her the D, and she didn't want to leave.

 

[olx9o]

Damn, I just wanna slide once, nothing else. Good looks y'all two, as of right now....ima leave it alone but I can't say what's gonna happen when I see her cause I can't avoid her...definitely gonna keep that in mind.